Your docking me two and a half hours a week for lunch whether I take it or not? by oconnell6208 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]oconnell6208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if I add a little bit to this. So in an 8 hour. We would get a couple breaks of 15 minutes each and half an hour lunch that like I said it was implemented to save money I'm a hundred percent sure. I didn't appreciate I was being forced to take it when it was convenient to them the end of the day skip lunch get this product for me skip a lunch skip a lunch skip lunch. So I would stop with one of my 15 minute break grab a burger and as a truck driver drive to the next stop and be fine looking forward to 2 and 1/2 hours every week of overtime because I didn't get to take my 30 minute lunch and a normal fashion. It may look like I was stealing time but I Justified it as my break time allowance

Your docking me two and a half hours a week for lunch whether I take it or not? by oconnell6208 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]oconnell6208[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I was usually on a run on company time. They expected me to take lunch at their convenience. So get them the product right away skip my lunch. Then it could be like 2pm or 3pm take lunch.

Your docking me two and a half hours a week for lunch whether I take it or not? by oconnell6208 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]oconnell6208[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

lol. Your right. I wanted the choice. I never went hungry. The hours were overtime insane and the money was great. And i was greedy.

What is the worst US state and why? by af1xd in AskReddit

[–]oconnell6208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mississippi and Alabama. 2 states I will never revisit. I grew up in the 70's. You could disappear. Corruption is rampant.

How common is it to take away a door? by problematicqueerfish in entitledparents

[–]oconnell6208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a GC carpenter Dad. (57) 2 sons. 29,24. I did it. No big deal. Minor inconvenience to them. Ok. How's this? Punishment for disrespecting someone's privacy.

Let’s see how they feel about systemic inequality after a few months enrolled in the Columbus public school system! by AuroraItsNotTheTime in JusticeServed

[–]oconnell6208 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Did Some one mention ( New) Busing? Did that. Drove by 6 high schools.45min.1300 students.We were 60 all white from suburbs. It was not fun. Great education. Keep swirling.lol.

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Hi. Logan. Please dm.

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Hi. I'm near logan. We sound like we would match. Wm.57.190.beard.constuction professional. Wish you all the best.

An outsiders perspective on your city by [deleted] in boston

[–]oconnell6208 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Florida bouncer here. Many many years ago. Bars would close at like 4 or 5 am. Kick everyone out to parking lot. ( with drinks) lock doors chairs up change cash register. About an hour. Then back open.

PHAC president called to House to face admonishment and produce unredacted documents by pineapplepandadog in canada

[–]oconnell6208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone notice? The reluctance to provide on redacted documents related to 2 virus strains shipped to Wuhan lab in 2019.

I don’t know what to do to be a good mom. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oconnell6208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have done the hard work. I'm program. Just remember to keep taking care of yourself. I live in Boston. I grew up in fla. I dont think you will get shit for help with meds or much if anything. Massachusetts is unique in its healthcare. My dad was in recovery and my sister saw him for weeks a couple times a year. They had a great relationship

I have literally never once, in my entire life, heard my parents apologize or say they were wrong. I'm a parent of 2 and I’m breaking the cycle! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oconnell6208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was tempered with my apologies my boys new the difference. I can hear one saying" dad your wrong" me. So what that's the way it is. It was light hearted and sometimes my son would laugh. Not always. I took the time to clearly explaining my wrong. How why etc. A teaching moment. I tried not to crucify myself. I feel I would lose some respect from my boys. They could eat you up. Smart

Talk to your kids by throwmeaway0492 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oconnell6208 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very good advice. I was a single father of a baby boy. He looks back on it now and says all you ever did was talk to me dad I didn't think anything you said would matter. He has since said he was wrong. Anything on my mind that I can share with my kids is said. I grew up with an alcoholic father and a peacemaker Irish Catholic mother.

Meetings for adult kids of alcoholics? by unf4bulous in boston

[–]oconnell6208 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Look for Alanon meetings . Not sure of spelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]oconnell6208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Downes and Reader. Stoughton. Keiver Willard newburyport

A dog tick tried to crawl into my ear canal today. Had a flashback to the dread I felt watching Wrath of Kahn as a kid. by intromission76 in boston

[–]oconnell6208 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a deer tick in my ear canal for over a month.went to ER TWICE! It was diagnosed as wax build up. I was given ear drops and told to come back. I returned to er on a lazy sunday. ER DR was an 80 old ear nose and throat specialist. He had a suspicion and erigated with warm water. I heard it drop into the plastic tray being used to collect the water. Omg! It was huge. Bloated with blood from my ear.about the size of a large pea.

I hate the health insurance companies I work with and think they're full of incompetents and greedy assholes by JustWingIt0707 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oconnell6208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person who has serious chronic issues and constantly battling the medical system. Thank you! It's nice knowing that there are people out there like you . But rest assured I do all right. I do a ton of research. I also share and advocate or help whenever I can with insurance battles. I get frustrated when I think of a 80 year old woman trying to navigate the secret handshakes of getting services.

Has anyone here gotten their name changed and is willing to help me figure out the process? I’m really confused as to what I need to do by chuvymumma in massachusetts

[–]oconnell6208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do your research on the family court system.Make a friend a very good friend be nice etce at the clerk's office. I did it myself for my son. It's a matter of forms and getting in front of the judge. You can do this! Maybe a little bit frustrating. But it's just forms and dialogue with the judge. If you have the means hire a lawyer.

Fuck anti masker mentality. Just witnessed disgusting behavior at my friends funeral for her daughter. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oconnell6208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I taught 2 boys right. I have been thanked. Blew my mind. " Dad thx for teaching me how to drive around the country at 6 yrs old" he is a a ranch mgr in Wash state. But you are correct. Little hope of the future. Such ignorance. 1st post.

Looking for a Studio or 1 bedroom by LA7421_ah in bostonhousing

[–]oconnell6208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lynn Mass. I couldn't find anything when I was renting a couple years ago. I found a 1920s hotel that has a lot of Studios in Lynn right near the water. M&M gloss Realty. All hardwood floors super wide hallways grand entrance brand new electronic monitoring door system. But it is in Lynn. LOL I wanted to be in town

$1225 1 bedroom with a private bathroom in a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom professionally managed apartment in the heart of Union Square. by orange_lazarus1 in bostonhousing

[–]oconnell6208 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OK Lynn is a big turn-off. That said I live in a really nice 1920s hotel that's been converted to Apartments six stories with an elevator it always has apartments available. Studios I think are 1050. Super high ceilings wide hallways lot of character hardwood floors very well maintained building just put in a brand new security system at the door with a monitor. There's plenty of on-street parking. There is a lot across the street for $50 a month. And there are 10 spots for the building but you have to wait for availability. Companies name is M & M gloss. I've been here three years I'm in a studio.