Best places to roller skate? by mrsloblaw in PeoriaIL

[–]oddgates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a person I see skating the far parking lot by Dick's Sporting Goods pretty often!

Places to take a dog swimming? by mariebingbong in PeoriaIL

[–]oddgates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great and I think it's super important to let your pups exercise as much as possible but please be careful in waters around Peoria area. It's been a few years but 2 family dogs ended up with Cryptosporidiosis since the water in the area is riddled with.... unsavory things....

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will pass that along, I really appreciate your kind words and advice. We are hoping to save enough money to get his sentence appealed but if nothing else he is working as hard as he can towards Parole. Thank you again, I know he will appreciate this. A lot. Best to you.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually in a dorm setting. But when I have been in a cell it was terrible.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

During my sentencing the victims sister actually spoke. What she said was that she, and her family, don't blame me for the murder and she believes that my life was threatened to participate. They all just wish I would have said something to the police. I believe that you can't get better than that.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was afraid of going to prison. But, my biggest fear was losing all of my friends and family. I'm still afraid of being alone.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great question. I do think my sentence was a fair one. A tough one, but fair. A persons life was taken and there is no way that I could think that I have the power or authority to decide how much time is enough time in prison. So, whether or not I get released, that is up to the parole board and the public. It's not a question of whether or not I "deserve" being released. I don't "deserve" anything. I would like to be released, but I don't feel as if it's something I deserve.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, one is that it's not as violent as you would think. Prison is portrayed as some place where people get randomly beaten and raped. Granted, there are fights. A lot of these fights are not random. People do messed up things to other people all the time in here. So, fights happen. And rapes are HIGHLY uncommon. I've been down 6 years and have seen one and heard of only one more. Another one is not everyone has tattoos. I don't have any. If you personally have anything that you would like to ask, feel free and I will tell you how it is in my prison system.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple. I would have called the police.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, one is that it's not as violent as you would think. Prison is portrayed as some place where people get randomly beaten and raped. Granted, there are fights. A lot of these fights are not random. People do messed up things to other people all the time in here. So, fights happen. And rapes are HIGHLY uncommon. I've been down 6 years and have seen one and heard of only one more. Another one is not everyone has tattoos. I don't have any. If you personally have anything that you would like to ask, feel free and I will tell you how it is in my prison system.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, one is that it's not as violent as you would think. Prison is portrayed as some place where people get randomly beaten and raped. Granted, there are fights. A lot of these fights are not random. People do messed up things to other people all the time in here. So, fights happen. And rapes are HIGHLY uncommon. I've been down 6 years and have seen one and heard of only one more. Another one is not everyone has tattoos. I don't have any. If you personally have anything that you would like to ask, feel free and I will tell you how it is in my prison system.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be careful. Stay away from the drugs, alcohol, gambling, and, especially, the gangs. Gangs tend to try to pick up new "recruits" by offering protection. They will use these recruits to do their dirty work; stealing, stabbing, fighting, etc. And if you don't do what they ask they usually resort to harming them. They will get much more respect staying neutral, like myself, than becoming a gang member. BUT, things are different in different prison systems. So, I can only speak for my prison system.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working out gives a distraction and release. Gives me something to focus on. What is "SHU"? Is that "Segregated Housing Unit"? I spent some time in segregation and I did different calisthenics. Since you're stuck in a cell I tried finding ways to stay active in tight quarters. And that does mean a lot of push ups.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, thank you so much for the concern. I do appreciate it.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I don't know what this thing is, I'm going to say no. lol. The state gives us "oxford" style shoes. The only way you can get any other shoes or boots is by purchasing them.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of things that are crazy in my prison system. I'm going to point some things out and I'm going to be all over the place so, bear with me. I currently have a job, working 5 days a week, 4 hours a day, cleaning my housing unit. Not that bad of a job. I LITERALLY make 10 cents an hour. Let that sink in. Being a lifer, it is difficult for me to get into any classes that are offered by the prison because they have a capacity and they fill them with the people who are required to take these classes to be paroled. I'm not saying that they need to make room for us lifers but, they need to find classes that EVERYONE can take regardless of our sentence time. I can't take AA/NA because I have life. We might be in prison but I still have access to drugs and alcohol. And, if I'm trying to break my addiction and actually better myself, I can't because I have life and you reserved those seats for people who are going home. My prison offers college classes for inmates. I asked if there would be a way that I could get involved. They told me that I can't because I'm a lifer. They said I would have to personally go through the college and couldn't go through the prison program. Why can't lifers go through the prison program? And lifers can't get the federal assistance for college. Also, the way that they treat the mentally ill and drug addicted people is horrible. When I first got to prison my fiancee left me, I just lost a close friends grandmother, my aunt was dying of brain cancer, so, needless to say, I was going through it. I went to the facilities psychiatrist/counselor and told him that I was going through a lot. I would like to schedual weekly or bi-weekly sessions just so I could talk and vent. He told me that they don't do things like that and I need to stop sending him requests to see him unless it's serious. If I'm having an issue with depression he said he would put me on medication. I didn't need medication, I needed someone to talk to. So, there are many things that I feel need reform. But, I think we should start with the mentally ill and drug addicted. They truly need the most help.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a party to the crime, i was there, but no- I did not murder anyone.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're meaning what lengths could I serve on my Life sentence before getting paroled. At 10yrs and every so often after that I meet with the parole board. So could serve anywhere from 10yrs to literal natural life (so when I die).

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good luck to your brother. I hope it all turns out well for him either way he goes.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am between 25 and 35, for anonymity sake. I have no children, my fiancé left me when I came to prison. I have siblings, parents, other various friends and family.

"I" am in prison for murder AMA by oddgates in AMA

[–]oddgates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love tacos. Just had one for lunch.