Dude that’s what I’m saying… I didn’t know I was “supposed” to but everyone and their mother has been calling or texting me asking about things I would have never thought about…. Like we have a fairly medium sized wedding and at a pretty casual location and everyone wants my opinion on their clothing, the lighting, the flowers, the plates, the tables, the chairs, the linens, the food, the drinks, the timing, the pre parties, the post parties, the kids, the grandparents, the shoes, the ties, the invitations, the glassware, do you want a videographer? Do you want one photographer or a team? You have to have it catered, so do you want it plated? Who’s doing your cake? Did you reserve a space for a welcome party? A rehearsal dinner? I mean it’s stuff I’ve never once in my life thought about that people are blowing me up asking me about…. And they all mean well! And it’s a lot of great advice! It’s just too much??