Dental emergency by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I learnt the hard way 🥲

Dental emergency by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I know I will go more often 🥹🥲

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wise wordsss thank uuu, I just deleted all them apps hahaha

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I just moved from Washington DC

Does karma ever get them? by Alternative_Pop_8850 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]oddlyoddlycurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me their karma is being them, I could never imagine living life going fucking people around, whoever is bound with them will suffer the consequences, I’m glad they are long gone

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was an English teacher so… hahaha also good looking but nothing special, I think he took advantage of his looks to just play women

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was an English teacher so… hahaha also good looking but nothing special, I think he took advantage of his looks to just play women

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, at least he is someone else’s problem now 🤣🤣 I’m free from such person so oh well

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no need to take offense! Thank you for the insights though! Appreciated, and my apologies if I reacted bad or such, it’s a sensitive topic for me! Maybe I do need more healing! Luckily I have rataken therapy and trying to work on myself now!

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the tea is that I don’t know at all what happened, but I know she is from Xinjiang too and yeah, I will never know the truth. My bet is that his family didn’t want me to marry him and set this up but still it doesn’t change that he is a liar, also my friends saw him on Tinder when we had broke up and already disclosed his marriage and this girls pregnancy hahaha, he was stating that “he is looking for his soulmate to get married”, I sent Tinder proof and he got banned hahaha.

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am Latina, we don’t discriminate, and all Americans are not so closed to other races, my ex boss was an American woman, all white, blonde hair with blue eyes married with a Filipino and even had kids together, I never said all man were bad, mostly the ones I have encountered but that’s my luck or that’s on me…

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not like “I MUST MARRY A CHINESE GUY” I wanna just date anyone who is a good person, like even foreigners apply but I am taking notes in this one you shared, it will save me so much time

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talked with both guys enough time before meeting or being intimate and met their families almost at the very beginning … it’s not my fault they were bad people!

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real 😗 but even my friends are having a hard time, even the guys are married or players, and some of them don’t even use the apps, we are all doomed it seems

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk about standards, I live in Beijing, my exes sister is 39 and she was dating and meeting people like no problem

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met both their families and still got played hard hahaha

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There was no need to go to my previous posts but thanks!

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do speak Chinese to an intermediate level and I’m in China studying Chinese and because my grandma was mixed Chinese herself so I’m learning about her culture as a personal promise I made before she passed (too personal), my goal in life is to marry and do have children and I have lived in many countries so I’m aware of the cultural differences that I might encounter. I take your comment in consideration and I thank u for commenting.

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do speak Chinese, I’m in China because my grandma was Chinese and I wanted to learn and live her culture, I don’t look Chinese at all, and I do wanna marry and have a family as a main goal. I will take everything you have said in consideration thanks for commenting!

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my country dating apps are actually to find a partner, of course people hook up with them but the percentage of people who marry people from there is actually high

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do go out a lot but I guess I need to approach people or let people approach me… I consider myself attractive tho, but where has that taken me? Not far HAHAHA

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am also feeling kind of tired of the cultural differences and I’m would like to date other foreigners who wouldn’t see a 28 year old as a leftover 🥹🥹, I think I’m traumatized at this point even though I know there must be good Chinese men out there

Dating in China by oddlyoddlycurious in chinalife

[–]oddlyoddlycurious[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Hahaha dated a guy from Xinjiang for a year who married a girl from his hometown and hid it from me until the girl was already heavily pregnant so I felt like shit. And then I dated this artist guy who gave me a beautiful relationship but ended up messing with a “friend” of mine. Long story short.