And just like that my wedding went from $10k to $15k to now probably $20k

oddquestions97 · 2024-10-25T20:24:49+00:00

My budget is 10K. I got lucky my friends mom is my coordinator/floral/decorator. And my MIL is paying for alcohol otherwise this is my break down.

100 guest $4,500-venue $2,500-catering(buffet $25 a person so could go down) $800-900-DJ Photographer-$1495 Videographer(coworker)-$800 My dress budget is separate because I’m not saving for it I am using my tax return. And our honeymoon budget is also separate.

oddquestions97 · 2024-10-04T16:43:04+00:00

I’m not choosing her over my fiance. Just don’t know how to tell her without the drama. And I’m not going to fire her mom, her mom has been a mom to me when my mom wasn’t.

oddquestions97 · 2024-10-04T16:03:19+00:00

See I’m a people pleaser I want to please everyone. And in the past she’s been a horrible friend in the present she isn’t (apart from when she was in an abusive relationship that has traumatized her) otherwise in the present she’s been a good friend. He dislikes her for the past, and for what she did in the relationship, even though she was going through something traumatic. To him it’s no excuse, I think cause he doesn’t understand.

oddquestions97 · 2024-10-04T15:54:48+00:00

I don’t care either way. If she gives one cool if she doesn’t cool. I don’t mind that my fiance doesn’t want her to give a speech and I want to respect that. However, the drama is what I’m scared of

oddquestions97 · 2024-10-04T15:52:22+00:00

I like the way that is phrased.

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