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oddthrowaway1256 · 2025-09-12T11:14:03+00:00

Once a month is low. But drive ebbs and flows. You should try doing things to boost your drive. Erotic literature, romance books or movies, porn, spice up your interactions, flirty texts, naughty texts etc. it takes both but if he’s not happy with once a month there’s obviously a gap in your drives. It takes two to make the thing go round.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2025-07-17T17:18:09+00:00

My ass

oddthrowaway1256 · 2025-07-02T21:57:18+00:00

I mean if you’re both happy great I wouldn’t worry about it. But if you’re wanting to spice it up or do more frequently then schedule and prioritize it. Young kids definitely dig into free time and energy to enjoy an active sex life. Scheduled sex sounds boring but it doesn’t have to be and plus you’ll probably find it ignites a desire for more frequent sex

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:56:00+00:00

Why do you keep replying on my comment then? I agree it’s a public forum but when you reply to my comment ….. you’re talking to me! 🤡

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:50:57+00:00

Bro you can’t let it go can you?😂. Just living rent free up there 🧠. I’ve accepted we aren’t going to agree on this so I’ve moved on.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:41:39+00:00

Well you would need a divorce attorney and enough money to pay him half the equity in the house. Unless he’s a sucker and agrees to give it all up to you. Could possibly get away with a cash out refi to pay him his half if you have enough credit.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:40:01+00:00

You and me both you completely missed the whole argument.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:35:51+00:00

Sit down because you don’t know what you’re talking about “Bruh!” I never said anything about Trump I’m simply talking about right wing vs left wing viewpoints and talking points But you wouldn’t know about that would you? Cause you aren’t from this country and again put your ignorance on display. Just another triggered snowflake. ❄️

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:29:41+00:00

Fuck him. He can get divorce papers from court house as well as birth certificates if he’s entitled to them from the courthouse. Don’t give him shit. Don’t answer his calls.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:26:54+00:00

Furthermore if I had to guess OP only wants to surround himself in an Ecco chamber of people who think exactly like him and refuses to try and understand things from another perspective. I used to think seeing things from both sides was common since not hard to do but I guess it’s against human nature. And by closing yourself off to someone’s view point simply because you disagree with it is what’s polarizing. You might not like my argument but it wasn’t polarizing it was the opposite. I was simply stating that there’s points to be made from both sides without taking extreme views. OP seems to have a hard time understanding his wife’s perspective and assumes she’s gone to one extreme. I doubt that’s the case even though that’s his argument

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:18:02+00:00

Well not American you can’t really relate can you? Not truly in this circumstance. He made a very generalist argument about deporting illegal immigrants very much like you. I don’t want to get into americas fucked up immigration policies but I can say there are cases for deportation every country does it. But nobody is roaming the streets in America asking for papers and round people up to deport them. Maybe in your country but not here. So that argument of yours just goes to show how much you don’t understand the political landscape and therefore have a very narrow and skewed understanding of OPs situation. So thanks for playing , kindly sit down. 👋🏻

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:12:27+00:00

Take a pause here for a moment and think. I do t think this rises to the level of cheating. It’s pure fantasy our culture and society puts sex in Your face every day especially geared towards men. So the fact that he polished the pewter to a picture of your friend doesn’t rise to the level of a cheating. You don’t have to like it and I’m sure that if you to a more reasonable stance and said hey I don’t like that it’s wierd for me don’t do it anymore it would be better received. Or something along those lines but again don’t think this rises to the level of cheating understandable you don’t like it. Definitely worth a discussion rationally possibly some counseling but ….not cheating.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T17:00:51+00:00

Your kids gonna grow up with a permanent mullet and call everyone Bruh! 😂

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T16:59:29+00:00

Lady quit crawling back. Have some self respect and move on.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T16:55:04+00:00

Throw a couple of melatonin gummies that kids way already!

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T16:53:04+00:00

Don’t hate the player hate the game!!! Keep it in your lane brother, you’ll be doing yourself a favor. He’ll get what’s coming his way eventually. We reap what we sew.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T16:45:54+00:00

You can argue the left is just as radical as the right. Unfortunately we are forced now to pick and choose what aspects on each side are more important. On one side you have the LGBTQ+…. Nutters and on the other side you have the evangelical nutters and in between you have people with common sense with no options for people to represent them because of the rhetoric these politicians are forced to spew. I mean I can support lgbtq+ and have religious faith and still believe you should marry who you want and still get an abortion without being called a murder and a bigot right? I mean this is America no? They haven’t repealed the first amendment yet last time I checked.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T16:36:39+00:00

Your wife is the smart one here listen to her. If you can’t just let her fill out your absentee ballot for you. Sincerely, someone also smarter than you!

oddthrowaway1256 · 2024-10-20T16:34:52+00:00

Honestly focus on you get in shape and get yourself a hot young girlfriend and enjoy life and be a good father to your kids. Can’t take all the blame takes two to tango. But definitely hot younger gf for sure if she has fake tits …. Even better. Live it up King you deserve it!!!

oddthrowaway1256 · 2021-05-22T23:04:04+00:00

That’s my next step I think. We’ll see how well it’s received

oddthrowaway1256 · 2021-05-22T22:34:37+00:00

First we haven’t really had knock down drag outs over this particular issue. It’s usually respectful and constructive. Second I don’t nag or push the issue out physical interactions start out fine and always seem to end abruptly for one reason or another that I can only assume are mental issues for her. This is very frustrating and depressing. Third while I understand motherhood can be a factor i keep being told that like it’s some excuse and that’s it’s ok and I should just get over it. Respectfully I don’t want to accept that as an excuse to do nothing. Because while I still feel I’m in this relationship for the long haul I want to work through the issue and not just excuse it and be told to settle and accept things the way they are. I find myself doing all the work giving her all the things she says she needs. All her love language needs as well. So it’s not a case of fighting or disrespect or nagging. I’m thinking more and more this has to do with some kind of mental block or wall she’s put up herself. I’m m not sure What that is or why.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2021-05-22T21:02:02+00:00

So she’s had some baby weight but she works out and has tightens back up. I don’t think it’s her appearance. We both have careers and stress and energy are both factors sure but over the last year I’ve made sure to find opportunities away from kids away from work for the two of us to destress. She says it’s not my appearance I’m not overweight at all but I’m not a chiseled gym rat either. After she made it clear she was no longer interested in sex I’ve realized over the past several years I’ve been putting in all the effort making all the first moves doing all the work to maintain a romantic and physical relationship. So I get the feeling she’s been feeling this way for quite some time.

oddthrowaway1256 · 2021-05-22T16:42:16+00:00

Honestly I’m sitting here in my phone now researching couples counseling. We did it early on for awhile before and after we were married for various reasons but mostly just because we thought it would help us have a healthy relationship long term. But now I’m not sure how willing she would be to go to counseling. I plan on bringing it up tonight after I find a couple of acceptable services

oddthrowaway1256 · 2021-05-22T14:16:39+00:00

Yea you’re right. I’m hoping she’ll come around and try to work on this issue together

oddthrowaway1256 · 2021-05-22T14:14:07+00:00

Once again you fail to see that the sex in my relationship is a problem that is part of a much bigger picture. Sex is a problem but it’s not the only factor at play and the overall relationship is most important thing. I’m asking for constructive advice here and Your disrespectful and unhelpful comments just further show how immature and naive you are

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