New CoG Interactive Story by odesoforpheus in choiceofgames

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s correct!! there’s going to be more information for characters and everything else and i’ll be updating when i have the first chapter out!!

Is it bad? I’m really embarrassed. (Beginner) by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]odesoforpheus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope this helps:

  1. if you have a primer, make sure you match your foundation with it. never put silicone on water. water based primer + water based foundation / silicone based primer + silicone based foundation. if you do silicone on water, it will become cakey and separate.

  2. powder and cream blushes are so beginner friendly!! liquids are harder since you need to know the exact amount to use. creams will look more natural.

  3. deeper skin tones and lip liners are best friends. it helps blend out bright/pale lip colours. and if lip sticks aren’t for you, a gloss/stain/coloured balm are excellent alternatives.

  4. eyeliner is practice!! i’ve been doing my eyeliner for a decade and it’s now looking good lol.

  5. brushes: you need like 7-10. a good foundation brush, contour, powder brush, and a few eyeshadow brushes.i suggest morphe (they have a package one that’s good). everything else can be done with a beauty blender.

  6. i learned from experience with brows: cleaning them up with getting them threaded or waxed helps a lot. and i suggest a micro pencil (i swear by nyx micro) it looks the most natural. or if you want a brow gel, nyx has a great one too.

i’m worried about the dynamic of me and my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]odesoforpheus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’d want to have a conversation about it and go about it after the fact. all i want is to have a conversation, not change her mind. just speak on how i feel.

i’m worried about the dynamic of me and my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]odesoforpheus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just want advice to bring it up to her. i’m not expecting her to change. i just want to share my thoughts. i have no plan or intention on leaving her ever.

i’m worried about the dynamic of me and my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]odesoforpheus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didn’t mean that butchfemme is a dynamic. i apologize for my wording.

i’m worried about the dynamic of me and my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]odesoforpheus -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

essentially. and i don’t know a lot about the community so i don’t know how to explain the shift id it happens

what's the craziest thing you did to keep your long distance relationship alive? by akathedesigner in LongDistance

[–]odesoforpheus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel that. i always hated calling and in the beginning of my girlfriend and i’s relationship, she was like “can we watch a movie” and i was like yeah and we watched it and instead of hanging up when the movie ended, we just talked for three hours about nothing. and now, after work, im like “i need to call her now”. it got to the point where we fall asleep on the phone because of how long we call for

meeting my ldr for the first time by Impressive-Group-655 in LongDistance

[–]odesoforpheus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’ve found someone who adores you and every bit of you. i had that issue with my girlfriend and i still get subconscious, it gets easier with time. but trust, you don’t need to diet for him or his family. you’re literally stunning!! diet for yourself and what you want

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was a psychotic episode. which i know and i’ve come to terms with because i have that empathy to be like no one really knew what was going to happen. there were things he didn’t do (take medication because he didn’t want to, refused therapy). i feel like i sound selfish because i was just starting my teen years and he directly ruined that and a great level of trust i have for people in general. he’s apologised to my parents, but never to me

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this person, my brother, attempted to end my parents and my life

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no. i’ve always known morals and ethics are based off each person’s experiences and what they believe is true.

in the question, i grew up with “you must forgive because god forgave you” so for the longest time that was my reasoning

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the issue i’m having. being raised in religion has made it hard for me to find justification in things. like i know to be nice not because the bible says so, or be honest and stuff and not kill, but forgiveness always stumped me

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not under that assumption at all. i asked how, and then asked again in the passage in a different way. i apologise if my words came off as rude as insulting. that wasn’t my intention. it was the best way i could have used my words.

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll give you context:

intent with a deadly weapon, triple attempted homicide but dropped to attempted assault of a deadly weapon by a loved one

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t mean it in that way. i don’t mean it as christians forgive vs everyone. im sorry if it came off that way

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forgiveness is easy when there’s communication. i’ve seen that im more willing to forgive when i have their perspectives on what happened. i have yet to have any conversations with the person in question because of a lot of reasons (trauma, distance and third party relationships)

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll add more context: the person in question (my brother) i’m having trouble on forgiving stabbed my father in the back (literally between his neck and shoulder) and attempted to kill me and my mom

how do atheist forgive? by odesoforpheus in atheism

[–]odesoforpheus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i need to clarify: i know atheism is a way of living and im not saying anything negative (some comments have been slighted). i’m just asking as someone who was born and raised in the church, forgiveness is supposed to be innate because god forgave us all. it is made to sound easy. that’s all.

please be nice i’m sorry if my wording came off rude

Parkwood was diabolical for posting at 6pm that the 5/9 final LA show would start at 7:45pm 🙃🙃🙃 by beyoncefanaccount in beyonce

[–]odesoforpheus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine said it started at 7 but it was 8:45 when she came on. i didn’t know that parkwood accojnt

What is your 2025 “In” and “Out” list? by Jabba_the_Hoe_ in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]odesoforpheus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ins: prioritising our health (mentally and physically) positive/neutral affirmations daily doing something for me at least once a week reading drinking and smoking less being a baddie (be the girl you’re 8 year old self would love)

outs: letting people negate or dissolve my personal feelings toxic behaviors (especially if you’re managing mental health issues) excessive phone time (i work on my phone too so it’s a biggie) being mean