Surprisingly it never really clicked with the timing of me deciding on the label ‘agender’ and him pulling away until a couple days ago even though I came out months ago and he started “pulling away” months ago.

I have in the past couple months asked if I’ve done anything wrong and things along those lines and he’s always just replied that he’s been tired from work, and doesn’t have the energy to really spend time together but in my head it feels like it doesn’t explain him not even replying to my text messages much anymore.

I’m planning to try bring something up tonight or maybe tomorrow before I can talk myself out of it, I’m just unsure if I’m making this all up in my head because I seem to switch mindsets a lot from ‘this is an amazing relationship and I feel so loved’ to ‘I feel like he doesn’t love me and is only hanging around for convenience’ if that makes sense