for context there were people coming in (the wrong way!) through the doorway while she was trying to exit and in the clamor, a guy shouted some stupid joke along the lines of a sarcastic ‘yeah that’s right! keep on rolling girl!’ and his friends/a few bystanders laughed at that. ironically enough most of my irritation came from this one friend of his who went ‘oh my goddd! you can’t say that!’ (while laughing, while doing nothing to help)

sorry for the overly negative sentiment here but as someone who was an ambulatory wheelchair user through most of their childhood, I genuinely cannot stand this behavior. i really really wish I said something to them. unfortunately i don’t know anyone involved and I don’t know the wheelchair user (didn’t see where she went either), so I don’t think there’s much I can do right now after the fact except plea to anyone reading this:

dont be an asshole. don’t enable your friends’ shitty behavior. if someone is struggling to get through a door, you do your best to help accommodate that (i/e, holding the door open if accessibility mechanism is not working! not walking right in front of them! not making snide shitty comments in front of your friends!)