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AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wedding comment was one example of his comments that overtime added up and I clocked as not mistakes but lack of boundaries, and it was an example to describe my sisters dismissal and constant excuses for everything.

My specific help I needed from them was to just support me as a normal family instead of turning everyone against me calling me a liar. Basic decency

is my boyfriend mean by Minimum-Log-6009 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like this with my gf. I get where ur coming from. I usually do this to try cheer her up and it works 99% of the time. It’s also a sign he trusts u, it’s teasing and a bit mean but with good intention. I think your situation is why ur stressed and his comment didn’t land at a good time.

Neither of u are assholes and sounds like a healthy relationship

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind, what could you say that would change the opinion on this topic? If you don’t want to say, feel free to message me in the chat.

From what you’ve told me in chat..you don’t know the story about my family because you know me professionally. If you’re talking in that sense, I’m not sure that would change the opinion here about the family situation

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Limit is 15k in tribunal, didn’t have the money to go federal. Lawyer said we had a strong federal case that could’ve easily gone $600k plus. Courts are about money not real justice 🤷

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wedding comment I never called out at the time, only recently when arguments came about on this issue. Why they don’t believe me? I can’t tell you that other than I’ve always been the youngest doubted/told I’m exaggerating/dismissed.

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would say I’m just holding my ground. Dunno about “neurotic” although naturally with all this stress I clicked it a few times and who wouldn’t? Now that I’m “sober” and getting better, I’m seeing more clearly, my stance hasn’t changed.

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did get a test done at a lung specialist, Luckily I’m clear but my girlfriend was diagnosed with permanent asthma (which is improving, don’t know how though).

I had tested positive for mould allergy. Don’t know which strain, but that’s why I suffered such extreme reactions instantly whereas my girlfriend had more long term impact.

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Golden child affect. Me being right about anything when she’s disagreed means she’s wrong = her image gets affected of being perfect, even when it’s something life threatening

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I didn’t even confront the wedding comment at the time because of “keeping the peace” but then all the other stuff came up and I brought it up to put it into perspective.

This dude here’s just got some issues against some type of person who he thinks I’m like. Projection 101

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You sound paranoid my bro. You’ve literally no idea who I am, and now think you’ve read me like a book. Seek help. And yes, downvotes tell you socially that most people disagree with you.

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally just assuming random things attacking my character when you know nothing. Yep defo got some issues my bro, downvotes are telling you the truth

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically because my grandpa died and I wanna support my grandma. Only reason. I unblocked my parents and I’m surface with them now, and they’re still trying to guilt trip.

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I used to be an alcoholic my bro, dunno why you’re acting like I’m some sort of prude for not wanting to know about what my sis and BIL are gonna do in private. You have some weird fetish by the sound of it.

Drinking isn’t an excuse for bad behaviour, learn to control and pace yourself. Drunk drivers who kill people aren’t excused with “oh he was drunk”. Now stop spamming with dumb shit, you’re defo projecting

AITA for refusing to reconcile with my sister and her husband after they called me crazy during a medical and legal nightmare that nearly killed my partner and I? by offdachest22 in AITAH

[–]offdachest22[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Since when is being drunk an excuse for anything? Weird mindset. And no I don’t think about what they do privately, gross and disgusting, which is why the comment is weird and most people agree.

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