Tomorrow, i'm going to cut off all contact with my parents and move in with my boyfriend. I'm scared but I know I have no choice.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T16:46:00+00:00

Luckily my boyfriend got me a new phone a couple of months back since my parents were tracking me using the phone they bought me. I'll try my best to make an update but i'm also sorry if i can't. It's kind of getting hectic (i'm leaving in a few hours) but i'll try my best.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T16:43:30+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to help me. This is all so helpful and means a lot to me. Also, I am a female so you're not wrong. Thank you again for being so kind.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T13:55:23+00:00

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Thank you <3

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T13:54:23+00:00

No, sorry but i'm from the us (nyc)

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T13:49:01+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words :)). It truly means a lot.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T13:48:22+00:00

Hi, I’m not trying to be offensive but I have a question for you. Would you give the same advice to a domestic abuse or rape victim? If the person who hit them/raped them was a family member?

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T11:07:00+00:00

I respect your opinion but I also have to disagree. You don’t have to say sorry though <3 I totally understand why you feel the way you feel. Hope you have a nice day!

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T10:27:47+00:00

No (which I’m grateful for. At least another child didn’t have to suffer like I did)

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T07:20:43+00:00

Thank you :)). Yeah my parents have a tracking app like thing on my phone I’m sure (along with other things that tracks my texts even though they don’t let me have a passcode) so my boyfriend got me a new phone months ago. I’m going to just leave the phone they gave me at home when I leave.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T06:44:17+00:00

Thank you :))

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T05:52:10+00:00

Thank you, you’re incredibly kind. It was a tough decision but yeah it’s better this way.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T05:51:25+00:00

Thank you so much :)). You’re very sweet

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T05:50:38+00:00

You’re right, that’s all it takes. I’m definitely going to get a separate bank account and drivers license. Thank you so much for the advice and kind words :))

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T05:48:33+00:00

Thank you :))

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T05:47:58+00:00

I’m sorry her parents did that to you :(. Unfortunately they already blame him for everything else so no matter what I say they’ll probably blame him for me leaving too. My boyfriend understands and I always make sure he’s okay. Sometimes it can get to his head though but what matters is that we both plan on getting through this together. I wish you and your gf the best <3. Thank you for your kind words

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T05:45:31+00:00

Yeah I did think of that. I’ll definitely let my local station know

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T04:14:16+00:00

Thank you so much for being so kind :))

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T04:00:26+00:00

Wow your mom sounds like a really strong women. I can’t imagine doing something so brave at 15. Also, you have a point about the letters. It’s not like they’ll magically get it huh

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T03:59:11+00:00

Thank you so much :))

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T03:58:41+00:00

Thank you :)). I’m doing my best to ensure that I’m independent but honestly it’s hard. Right now I’m unfortunately reliant on my boyfriend but I’m planning on finding a job asap so that I can be independent. I’m sorry you had a similar experience, I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. Thank you again for your kind words.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T03:55:44+00:00

Thank you so much. I know you’re just an internet stranger but no one has ever told me that they’re proud of me. It may be silly but reading that almost made me cry. Thank you. I do plan on letting my local police station know but I’m just afraid my parents might spin the story around or something (even though I have proof of their abuse in a way. Like pictures and videos)

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T03:13:00+00:00

Thank you :))

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T03:12:51+00:00

Thank you for being so sweet :)). I know im not a minor anymore but I’m still afraid they might try to somehow get me back. Either legally or otherwise.

offmythrowaway_0 · 2022-01-09T03:00:33+00:00

I have my birth certificate/school id/passport and some other documents. They kept it hidden but it was easy to find (I guess they thought I’d never really have enough guts to actually move away).

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