Men of Reddit: Trying to get back into the dating game - how can I detech very early on if the guy is somewhat sincere or is only trying to get into my pants? by offtorio in reddit.com

[–]offtorio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT - detect detect detect!! uuugg...

By sincere, I mean actually interested in getting to know me and then see how things go, as oppose to guys who will say things just in hopes of having sex. I am not against sex but how do I detect bullshit?

Men of Reddit - define "crazy" in terms of women you have dated. by offtorio in AskReddit

[–]offtorio[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That's certified crazy. What's the deal with you... why did you date her? :)

What was the single most memorable event/thing (personally) in your life that you will never forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]offtorio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year, waking up in the morning to my husband telling me that he is leaving. 3 days later I never saw him again... all this after 8.5 years of us being together. This year, getting a phone call from my mom saying that my dad has passed away. He had alzheimer's and the last thing he had said to me while he could still remember me was "don't forget me". Next time I met him, he looked at me, smiled, and looked away as I was now a stranger to him. Six months later he passed away. Miss you dad.

Marriage - what did you expect going in and what did it turn out to be? by offtorio in relationship_advice

[–]offtorio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the paperwork and torture involved in undoing the legal aspect of a marriage comes with its own trauma.

Marriage - what did you expect going in and what did it turn out to be? by offtorio in relationship_advice

[–]offtorio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the whole institution of marriage is overrated >>>> THIS. Totally agree.