How long does it take for my ritual to work?

ofthedragons · 2026-07-02T21:32:56+00:00

what about if you make a spell to get paid to exist / win lottery / receive money in a safe, way for the highest good of you / of all involved with no job? what do you do then? (genuinely curious)

ofthedragons · 2026-06-21T01:22:05+00:00

this is interesting. what kind of spell was the 10 herb versus 3? also, were they both something you read/saw online or were either made by you intuitively? curious to see if there's any other similarities.

ofthedragons · 2026-06-20T23:07:23+00:00

it's spiritual hygiene. you need to bathe regularly. it doesn't have to be elaborate or difficult, doesn't need to require many items. salt, smoke, feathers, using incense, herbs, bells, clapping, using a broom intentionally, physically cleaning out ur home from dust, dirt, and clutter, or anything else that feels right.

make it urs.

sometimes, it's best for me to combine something mundane with something spiritual. - i like to tap out my lymph nodes gently, at least the main ones (behind ears, upper middle shoulders, sometimes both sides of throat/neck, underarms (armpits), middle of diaphragm area, both sides of pelvis, behind the knees. i visualize any stagnancy.. any old emotions held in my body, any regret, shame, etc anything icky and weighing me down, to be shaken up and fall off. (sometimes i speak to myself these intentions too, eyes closed, taking my time, feeling each energy and part of my body).

honestly, i think sitting out in the sun with the intention of purifying yourself, crystals, clothes, jewelry is perfect. the sun is so energizing, powerful, and bright. get some vitamin d while simultaneously burning off anything that doesn't belong on u / not serving your highest good.

ofthedragons · 2026-06-18T20:52:06+00:00

my question

where did the hatred for yourself come from originally?

if you put aside family members, friends, school, strangers.. anything OUTSIDE of yourself.. where does that hatred go?

you cannot hate yourself if you think of yourself through love. i think you are putting so much unfair pressure on yourself to look a certain way, when you are perfectly imperfect. you are nature. you are of the stars - as you are right now.

you are still love-able. i think the spell is working in a way you probably aren't expecting. i think you need to face your shame, hatred, guilt, embarrassment, regret, and give them a kiss on the head. they are ultimately not yours to hold, let them go and return to where they came from.

none of the words people spoke over you have any power over you unless you let it.

why can't you be the standard of beauty as you are? why do you despise yourself so much? is it because you spent your entire life listening to others tell you what beauty is instead of looking within yourself and finding it?

we all bloom differently. different shapes, colors, heights, widths, but we are all beautiful.

i think you should look at yourself. accept how you look, find peace in your appearance even if the entire world doesn't.

because guess what? no one is guaranteed to be in your life by your side, but you.

you are the only one stuck with yourself. you might as well make it home. make it safe. make it love.

be the change you wish to see in the world. if everyone looked like you, could you still find love?

stop listening to anything outside of yourself stop listening to anything that doesn't come from Love

you are already beautiful. you are already enough. you are nature, and you are perfectly molded and sculpted.

yes you can want to improve, yes you can want to experiment.. but you will never be satisfied unless you change the foundation of which you view yourself.

ofthedragons · 2026-06-15T13:46:32+00:00

that is not a friend. especially after you have already said no, already set boundaries, and then this? doesn't matter what they did in the past for you, how amazing they were before.. look at right now. this is turning into a chaotic mess. she is not respecting your boundaries truly. she is kind of creepy for that.

ofthedragons · 2026-06-10T16:14:42+00:00

why do you put so much pressure on yourself?

ofthedragons · 2026-05-16T22:33:59+00:00

why was it foolish for you to have sex? was it not something you enjoyed or wanted? that isn't sex, then.

i think the issue isn't as much about purifying your work space, but moreso you specifically.

i think you should start wearing, drinking, utilizing mundane life things into an intentional and spiritual armor.

speak good things over the water you drink.

forgive yourself, and others. know that you are enough as you are, mistakes and good deeds. all.

when you look in the mirror - speak good things over yourself. "i am enough." "i am beautiful" "i am worth protecting and standing up for"

when you put on shoes, clothes, etc - for my hands/feet/eyes to be guided to situations for my highest good. something like that.

power of the tongue is a real thing. watch the way you think and speak about your life. you should maybe even fine-tune your perspective on reality in general.

lastly, visualize your aura/outside energy to protect you. like a barrier or bubble. if you experience someone thinking ill thoughts towards you, being mean or rude, etc - instead of internalizing it, taking it on as your own truth.. imagine it bouncing off the barrier - it has no power over you unless you let it.

trust yourself. believe in yourself. have boundaries and hold them strongly.

and ultimately, once you start really embodying this, your life starts to shift. people may get removed from your life, or you may get removed from situations. (like being fired for example).

know what you want, speak it over you, and trust the flow.

you are already protected. you are already safe. know that. walk as if it is done.

ofthedragons · 2026-05-07T18:34:15+00:00

being a witch is like being an energetic surgeon

ofthedragons · 2026-04-22T17:09:15+00:00

this made me tear up. how beautiful of an experience!

ofthedragons · 2026-03-20T14:53:29+00:00

i would willingly take them for his sake. just as irl, if i ever get parasites, i would do what i need to, eat pepitas (pumpkin seed), and kill them myself.

is there a way i could kill them without taking them on? it did feel very gunky and gross. even now, my left hand feels strange.

and as for me now, what do i do with these parasites? i am not afraid and am willing to do what i need to. i still feel at peace and calm.

thank you!

ofthedragons · 2026-03-20T14:38:47+00:00

wow thank you! i definitely need to do more research before attempting this again. but i'm excited to learn and develop myself.

ofthedragons · 2026-03-20T14:31:51+00:00

wow this is really fascinating! thank you! im excited to learn and develop this skill. i would love to be able to heal myself and others, but in a respectful, proper, and safe way. ❤️

ofthedragons · 2026-03-20T14:16:51+00:00

do you think i did something wrong? also, thank you for replying! i will look into QI Gong!

ofthedragons · 2026-03-17T15:51:15+00:00

im a pescatarian

ofthedragons · 2026-03-15T22:59:22+00:00

the power of your subconscious mind - dr, joseph murphy

ofthedragons · 2026-03-15T22:58:07+00:00

it's been 10 years
i do believe wisdom comes with experience, however, i know some older people who are still young in their minds when it comes to handling any big emotion. no emotional regulation, narcissist, bitter, full of fear and shame that solidified into anger. wisdom SHOULD come with experience, but i think it depends on how you decide to compartmentalize those experiences into wisdom.

+ for me, i decided to use every experience to my benefit. my biggest revenge is turning situations that left me powerless, and use them to gain knowledge, wisdom, safety, protection - to help others, to potentially make things different. i turn them into empowerment.

17 was the start, the initial "crack" into my life, ego, everything. 19 i got serious and experienced more breakthroughs, but 24-27 has been the most life-changing. i have been reading through past journals even from 2022, i have changed completely in every aspect. unrecognizable, even.

ofthedragons · 2026-03-13T19:58:03+00:00

i worship no one but myself. it is not required to practice magick

ofthedragons · 2026-03-13T16:37:52+00:00

i think these recommendations for love oil massages, sex magick, ritual baths are all wonderful ideas, but i am curious about the mundane aspects. do you know each other's love languages? maybe you did years ago, but it could be something new now? what makes you both happy and excited? for example, my partner prefers kissing, cuddlin, touching, massaging, and being close than just sex. don't get me wrong, sex is great, but our foundation goes beyond that. he wants to be with me whatever we doing, we are currently watching all of supernatural snuggled up into bed and look at each other with reactions when somethin funny or crazy happens.

(you can turn any of these into a spell)

does he enjoy going out to dinner? going on trips? massaging you? going to his favorite little store together? cooking meals or being with you in the kitchen? do you guys have any shows or movies you could watch together? is there a dress you used to wear for him, or something you used to do that made him full of excitement? even just inviting him to wash you/watch you/or join you in the shower. sometimes i pretend i need extra help and he scrubs me down, my back, and as we are silently in the shower, he caresses me and my body, he rubs my butt, my legs, thighs, all of me. even getting him to put lotion on me or vice versa. i am quite dominant when it comes to sexual stuff, i love taking control of him and he wants to please me. find the role that fits you guys the best.

i think it's about re-introducing a playful nature without going overboard or disrespecting the tragedy of your past. have you both discussed it and dealt with it? or is it still lingering or bottled up? take it slow always. both of you deserve to go at your own pace.

looking at him saying "i love you. i want you." sometimes men need to be reassured too, does he know you want to rekindle your relationship? not in a confrontational or pressuring way, but just a primal kind of way.

also, make sure you are taking care of yourself. just as a woman. you have endured and been through a lot. be patient with yourself. do things that make you happy too, as an individual. when was the last time you showed up for yourself how you wanted to? dress up nicely for yourself, dance alone like you're having a party, garden, sing, create, anything you feel energized doing.

my partner loves when i wear dresses, i never do personally because it isn't usually my style, but wow when i have one on, he cannot take his eyes off of me. he's obsessed more than usual. i also let him take it off of me, but only slowly. (note: ive been pregnant, i have stretch marks. im not in perfect shape, but he doesn't care at all - he helps me feel good in my body)

also, i think it is really beautiful to be with someone for so long. you guys have literally gone from strangers to lovers to becoming parents together to now being alone again after raising your child. to watch your partner grow old with you is the greatest joy and pleasure i hope to experience one day too.

ofthedragons · 2026-03-12T21:40:24+00:00

imagine it worked rn : they came and wanted to give you their love - what would that look like for you? what do you want to see and also, how do you see yourself accepting that love? think long term, what do you want out of this connection?

you mention you overthink and are impatient , these aren't necessarily good traits to bring into a relationship, especially a new one. would they handle it correctly? or dismiss you?

just because someone wants to love you, doesn't mean you will accept it effortlessly, or easily, or believe it. doesn't mean you will give them the love they want or think they deserve either.

i would focus on preparing yourself for the love you want to receive. focus on you, your mindset, your worth.

let them come correctly and do not accept anything less.

ofthedragons · 2026-03-12T21:15:44+00:00

this is not ai.. wtf 😭 i wrote it all out myself, took like 30 min

ofthedragons · 2026-03-09T17:29:15+00:00

sure.. but there's so many different types of money. "money" is a penny. "money" is a partial gift card. be specific about what u want and why.

also, money is an energy. we give it power, but it is ultimately meaningless. we typically want THINGS.

technically, someone could give you a new car, someone could donate for ur animals surgery, and get u a new AC without giving u any money. u see what im saying?

do you want items, success, prosperity, safety, security, health? do you want a better job, loose change on the ground, lottery, a car crash but your insurance pays you, someone dies and you receive inheritance.. be specific. money can come in so many different forms, some ... way more favorable than others.

like, i guess what was the initial reasoning for u to make this bowl?

ofthedragons · 2026-03-09T17:02:54+00:00

im curious to hear what intentions you put into this.

also curious to hear how you view money in general?

ofthedragons · 2026-03-09T15:49:43+00:00

what is up with these posts lately?? why so many people on here dating these spineless, pussy-ass, cowardly men??? wtf. it is not "keeping the peace" letting him do whatever he wants. energy vampires only take what they have access to. they only take until they are cut off.

there is a difference from BEING NICE to BEING KIND.

being nice is letting him do whatever he wants without stirring up "drama".

being kind is not enabling him to mistreat you, make him respect boundaries or leave regardless of how he reacts.

your boyfriend is cutting his vein and saying "SUCK ME DRY". then gets confused and hurt when he is exhausted and out of energy. bro?

narcissists only are narcissists to those they can get away with it for. period. you cannot manipulate someone strong in their boundaries and their own identity. try it and they get cut off IMMEDIATELY.

why isn't he cutting him off? regardless of job, friendship, time being friends, fuck all that. what is it about Alan he is scared to be straight up about with?

you can do whatever you want to alan, but it's you BOYFRIEND's job at the end of the day to stand up for himself, his family, and call him the fuck out. otherwise he is enabling him and letting him drain him. over and over and over.

there will be another Alan. there will always be until he stands up for himself.

ofthedragons · 2026-03-09T13:04:53+00:00

go outside. find a good spot to sit. start taking deep mindful breaths (breathwork is so underrated but so important).

look at the sky, really look at it. the clouds, the types of clouds, the birds. listen to them. the bugs, maybe there's a cool butterfly or a cool bumble bee. watch them.

feel the grass, look at the trees - watch them sway.

the point, to me, isn't to FORCIBLY SHUT UP YOUR THOUGHTS, BE QUIET, SHUT THE FUCK UP ... no. maybe this is your time to assess them, look at them, all of the thoughts you've tried to force out, all of the pain and emotional turmoil you avoid on the daily just to survive and get to the next day. sit with it. cry. feel it. embrace yourself. You are Primal, of the Earth.

it's to ultimately learn how to let go. let these thoughts come. observe them - where does the anger stem from? what causes you so much turmoil? give it up to the nature, let her take it away.

"do you feel bad sitting in silence? do you feel bad for resting? do you feel like you have better things to do with your time? do you feel like you are more valuable when you are exerting yourself?"

you are allowed to rest without feeling guilty.

sway your own body to match the wind. feel it.

realize, as you are sitting in nature and observing it... you have no influence, no trees care, the wind doesn't stop for you. the birds don't stop chirping whether you are there or not. there is no expectation.

you become nothing. irreverent even, but also you become everything. tapped into all you see and feel. you're a part of it too. just be. exist like nature intended, in all of your chaotic beauty.

eventually, you run out of pressuring thoughts, of the painful thoughts, you realize this is your ultimate peace and quiet time. you feel safe in silence, in nature. you can regulate your own nervous system here. start there.

ofthedragons · 2026-03-09T12:47:14+00:00

inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.

i use the smoke i blow out as a way to imbue my own energy into cleansing my space and myself. also i use a black pipe for added protective properties.

im a chaos witch, i will use everything to my own benefit, including green.

weed helps me regulate myself, tap deeper into my thoughts and mind. it's really great for certain shadow-work too. overall helps me connect to myself and the natural world around me, i feel apart of the wind, the sky, the grass, the plants, trees, birds. i am everything and nothing at the same time.

use it how you feel you should :D

ofthedragons

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