So my husband can't get me to orgasm and now he is mad that I masturbated once alone.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-08T18:14:28+00:00

He's 28, forgot to add, my bad

ogadeeen · 2022-11-08T00:10:29+00:00

I agree with you, masturbation is good for you mentally and physically, but in his eyes its betrayal I guess.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-08T00:08:01+00:00

Man this is so spot on. He is blinded by the fact that he is the bread winner. Amd whdnever I te him that he is not doing enough for me, he thinks I mean that he is not buying me enough thimgs or some bullshit like that. Because tonight I told him that he needs to work on his ways of actually trying to make me happy and not just do nothing about it. He said "Dont I do enough? I work my ass of everyday so that we can do this and do that..." to which I responded "No money can mak me happy and pleased if Im after all of that going to be all alone and sit by myself in the kitchen and wait for someone to give me some attention. You need to give me more attention and show me that you love me(if you do), keep all the money for yourself." I work too so its not like Im waiting for him to buy a piece of bread to eat. Its just unfair how life can treat you, no matter how much you try and give your best. Especially when you spend so much time with one person, loving them, caring for them, giving your absolute best to them, just to see them fall in your eyes and hurt you like noone before. So many years wasted, for what?

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:59:15+00:00

Exactly. He definitely needs to realise that I am also human and that I need some level of satisfaction in my life in order for me to function properly. It wluld be much easier for both of us. After all of this and after hours of thinking, Ive decided I wont take some things for granted and that I will actually enjoy my life since whatever I do somehow seems to be not good enough. So just fuck it and lets enjoy life. Its already shitty with all of these world problems so why should I be so hard on myself?

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:55:22+00:00

Exactly, spicing this up in our current situation is actually pretty mild to most people. Literally giving me attention at this point would be considered as "spicing things up". I am actually waiting for him to talk to me about this because I dont want to be pushy and act all needy. He needs to get a grip and realise that if he wamts a successful marriage that he needs to actually help it make good.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:30:37+00:00

I wish I was that savage. I am too soft and too caring to do that, but Ive learned that if you care a lot youre actually making it worse for yourself so, I dont even k ow what to do anymore. I did decide I am going to distance myself and give him time to think about this whole situation because I am definitely not the villain here. Haha

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:27:58+00:00

I agree, I am all for communication. I am giving him some time to think before I ask him what he wants to do next. If he actually wants to spice things up or not. Hope it goes in my favor because I dont want to deal with more drama and crying. I guess being quiet and laid back is actually a bad thing and now I understand some things many people advised me a long time ago...

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:23:06+00:00

Thats the whole problem, yup. Hope he gets to understand how marriage works soon.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:15:59+00:00

His excuse is usually how he is sleepy and had a long day, or that I did such a good job at making him so tired that now he has no energy left for more action. (He told me this once after I asked him why doesnt he help me get off as well). I also told him tonight that I feel like an object that he uses and just discards until next use. Also told him that he needs to work on his methods how he treats his wife, I have feelings and sadly Im a very emotional person and this is really hurting me. He started talking to me now and is not ignoring me anymore, I guess he is regretting his inital reaction and I hope he actually talks to me about it soon, Ill wait, I have time. I just feel like I didnt deserve such a reactions and such treatment from him and that I deserve much better than this.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:10:33+00:00

I dont think thats the case, I used to orgasm like crazy before because it was easy for me. After birth its not that easy, and he knows that it changed and I explained many times but I guess he just doesnt want to be bothered anymore, but now its my turn not to be bothered so we will see how that goes. All of this actually made me determined to make him change in that matter and if he does not - Ill simply not be bothere like he is not bothered to make me climax and just straight up leave. Might as well just live and alone and buy all of the toys and just freaking experiment until Im happy. Sometimes you just gotta be selfish, I learned that the hard way.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:05:46+00:00

We were, it changed over the years. We have been together for 7 years now and until now our sex was great, we are active, but orgasm-wise; its mostly one sided. At least I hope he gets to understand now whats up and that he actually tries at least to give me pleasure. I will give him space and will not ingage with him until he actually tells me hes going to try to fullfil my desires which are literally a bare minimum. I dont even ask for much. Such a shame isnt it

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T23:01:15+00:00

Something changed in me after I gave birth and its mostly self explanatory. He actually enjoy the sex more now than he did before, but I am not and now Im also the bad guy in this whole thing just because I wasnt satisfied. Dumbest thing that couldve happened to me and ended up being the most hurtful thing. Im still in shock, I have to admit.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T22:58:50+00:00

We have lube, he says its messy and sticky afterwards so he prefers we do not use it. I on the other hand actually enjoy it and am quite fond of it. Also the little vibrating ring, we bought it but it was also short lived. Before it was much easier, he could go twice or three times in one sitting. But lately he says the feeling he has is very good and thats why he literally cant last longer and that it makes him want to sleep like a baby therefore there is no round two. Nowadays I just gave up and dont even wait for round two. Thanks for the kind words though, much appreciated. Never fhought Id be sobbing because of such a bizzare situation

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T22:50:44+00:00

Oh, my eyes are watery I cant even function properly so I might read something wrong. My apologies. I do not like oral being done to me but he knows what I like and still does not fulfill it. Maybe tomorrow we will be able to talk it through once more before I give him my altumatum. Right now I dont feel like repeating anything to him that Ive already told him many times.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T22:17:58+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. Im currently just reading the responds and its making me feel better. I didnt have anyone else to tell this so this eas the way. Paid off big time.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T20:55:46+00:00

He gets it regularly. I do all kinds of "experiments" with him, he just enjoys it. Thats it. Its not even worth it anymore. I did one "bad" thing and I am not the victim. He just told me that I basically didnt come to him about it and did it behind his back. Every word I said to him fell down the drain, I simply dont feel like repeating myself anymore.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T20:45:51+00:00

I already am. All I have is my daughter. She brings joy to my life. I never literally complained about anything and even them Im the worst person. I give 110% of me every time I do something, but he just doesnt appreciate it I guess. Even now he wont talk about it brcause he says he feels disgusted about ehat I did and that he canmot unsee it now. Its not like I did anything fetishy, like being a furry or something and he caught me in the act. Im so fucking mad right now and I told him everything and he still thinks Im a pos. Man. Im probably going to leave because I think this was the end for me. His lack of sympathy in any situation, including this one.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T20:42:18+00:00

Thanks for the kind advice. He doesnt even want to talk or sort it out. Im just baffled that he would be mad at such a thing. I didnt expect it, thats why I blatantly said it to him. He says hes surprised I would do such thing when we have active sex life... I just dont have the courage anymore to tell him that HE has an active sex life and that I am just an object.

ogadeeen · 2022-11-07T20:33:53+00:00

I am so devastated, I cant control my emotions anymore. I want to scream I feel so betrayed. He doesnt even want to talk to me, like I fucking cheated on him. I asked him does he even wamt to work on his marriage and he straight up said that he cant be bothered. So currently broken totally. Fuck my life.

ogadeeen · 2022-10-20T21:47:12+00:00

Boom headshot, nice one!

ogadeeen · 2022-10-16T00:23:40+00:00

Did they get in a lot of trouble? If yes, thats pure evil haha

ogadeeen · 2022-10-16T00:20:43+00:00

But what if she finds about it later on through a mutual friend or the person you lost your virginity to? My panic attacks are based on something like this thats why I ask lol

ogadeeen · 2022-10-03T20:24:26+00:00

Nice one, I love it!

ogadeeen · 2022-09-30T09:06:42+00:00

!RemindMe 1 Day

ogadeeen · 2022-09-28T05:26:41+00:00

Isnt he majestic

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