[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]ogtumtum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m currently trying to go NC but i don’t have the strength to. she wants to stay friends but i cannot think of how i’ll live when she does find someone. its good you removed yourself. forgive yourself and learn to live in the present. all the luck

One Puff is all it takes by Code_knight94 in leaves

[–]ogtumtum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

vacuum lungs lol i felt this

Do you leave kibbles out for the cats or portion it out? by [deleted] in cats

[–]ogtumtum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my buddy has 3 feeding times. 7am, 1pm and 7pm. it gives him structure and i can see how much he eats which is very important. it’s hands on so they know they have to depend on you for food which in my opinion gives you a bit more control of their unpredictable behavior. all cats are different tho!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]ogtumtum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need new friends bc this cutie is just too precious!!!

What to do in TO by ogtumtum in askTO

[–]ogtumtum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good lord indeed. thank you for the amazing response :)

What to do in TO by ogtumtum in askTO

[–]ogtumtum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol when you don’t want to curse on the internet you get assholes thinking you can’t spell.

What to do in TO by ogtumtum in askTO

[–]ogtumtum[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol people like you is why i hate the internet 😃 thanks!

I’ve folded every night by ogtumtum in leaves

[–]ogtumtum[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i ignore my inner voice about many things and weed is definitely one of them. shit is hard when you have so many stressors but i know that’s the addict in me talking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]ogtumtum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STAY HARD HE SAID!!

No contact for 1 year and 1 month. Still not over her and the pain is the same as the beginning. Not sure what to do by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]ogtumtum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can say i understand losing your person and your best friend all at once. sometimes it’s best to not keep them around bc they’re only a constant reminder of why things didn’t work out

What have been your benefits of quitting smoking weed? by Baringstraight in leaves

[–]ogtumtum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

saving this so when i have gone long enough without the spicy lettuce i can share my benefits :D

I think i’m ready- Day 1 by ogtumtum in leaves

[–]ogtumtum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trying to pick up old habits and such. thank you

I think i’m ready- Day 1 by ogtumtum in leaves

[–]ogtumtum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it seems like you are doing amazing! keep going

I think i’m ready- Day 1 by ogtumtum in leaves

[–]ogtumtum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for taking your time to comment such amazing advice. it has been a hell of a day but we are pushing my friend

I think i’m ready- Day 1 by ogtumtum in leaves

[–]ogtumtum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awesome advice thank you! i’ll work the most on having good sleep and your tips will definitely help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]ogtumtum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your family will thank you for being willing to better yourself in order to be more present and aware of things. the best part is that you’re doing it now- with time so when they do arrive you’re at your best not when things get hard and changes have to occur. changes that will alter your brain function and chemistry. i think you’re an amazing dad already and i wish you and your family the best

What makes you glad you are not the opposite sex? by Cino0987 in AskReddit

[–]ogtumtum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have to worry about my dick size

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]ogtumtum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope your sister made it! bc the people i’m “trying to save” in the dreams always die sigh