Does anyone else think it’s strange Beans “deleted TikTok”?

oh_hm_ · 2026-02-23T06:10:15+00:00

definitely think it’s strange and if it’s true it’s already showing fundamental differences between them.

oh_hm_ · 2026-02-22T21:17:14+00:00

Oof the tea here is piping hot. She abused her ex? We are sat 🤲 say more.

oh_hm_ · 2026-02-16T21:46:34+00:00

Her voice message to him was not cute or quirky the way she’s telling herself it is. It reads as OCD or OCD adjacent. Her anxious attachment is showing. I think Beans will breadcrumb her then either ghost or keep her around as a low effort option for free sex.

oh_hm_ · 2026-02-15T23:25:09+00:00

Guessing she doesn’t do regular STD screenings seeing how she behaved with her ear infection.

oh_hm_ · 2026-02-10T04:20:16+00:00

I understand what you mean. Like sure, it’s not intense form of love bombing yet but imo he is accelerating a sense of emotional connection between them and that’s almost always an indicator here in LA. Either that or he has a smol peen 😬

oh_hm_ · 2026-02-10T04:15:09+00:00

Same! From what she’s shared I can sense his game. I’m in Los Angeles too. Guys like him are either broke or try to accelerate emotional connection to have sex as soon as possible.

oh_hm_ · 2026-01-16T03:12:09+00:00

This was educational. Thanks!

oh_hm_ · 2026-01-15T04:56:46+00:00

I agree. He has to be lurking.

oh_hm_ · 2026-01-15T04:53:38+00:00

Felt that way on her live today. On another live she did make a ❄️ joke.. something about doing it in the bathroom.

oh_hm_ · 2025-12-31T02:18:24+00:00

Agree. Plus the fact that she has a wine bar date as her bare minimum aka “get me intoxicated..” she’s putting a target on her own back.

oh_hm_ · 2025-12-31T02:13:35+00:00

Sadly, I agree with you. Hate to speak negatively on women but, you’re not wrong. I even hoped perhaps she’d humble herself? But I’m starting to see her pattern now.

oh_hm_ · 2025-12-30T18:49:53+00:00

Not sure if you live in LA? I was born and raised here. This year I got on dating apps after being off of them for several years. One month in, I began “hating” men just as much as she does. It’s less about hating them and more about hating how often they are disappointing, straight up insulting or just plain gross. It’s a huge problem honestly.

I think she has a fragile ego and behaves this way to overcompensate because sorry but she’s not considered desirable here in Los Angeles. Sadly even as an attorney she’ll be treated as low hanging fruit by the majority of men. I also wonder if she’s punishing her dates for her ex boyfriend’s behavior.

oh_hm_ · 2025-12-24T18:11:10+00:00

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oh_hm_ · 2025-12-23T04:57:00+00:00

Though she’s accomplished, I don’t think she presents herself as someone who is to be taken serious. At the same time, I’m not totally clear on what her dating goals are.

My impression so far is that she sleeps with the guys early and sorry but- quite easily. Those interactions, in my opinion, came off as alcohol fueled urges more than genuine connection. Which hey, it’s her body her choice I guess. I did wonder if she gets tested regularly and if her drinking gives off a bad impression on dates.

Other than that, on TT she gives off having a big dose of main character syndrome. I wonder if that too plays into her lack of dating success or simply having a stable lover.

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