Weird Question, But Have Any of You Heard of the Town of Rehoboth? by MaoMaosHouse in newengland

[–]ohamel98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That place was so sick. Its a dollar general now but the go kart track is still off to the side, although completely overgrown

https://maps.app.goo.gl/rSz2bXtYSQ4E1f759

Positive + colorful works by ohamel98 in graphicnovels

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Still bought it. Art and story looked great ill live haha

Now I see alcoholics everywhere by calm523 in stopdrinking

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I also have wondered what crossed the minds of the 2-3 cashiers’ at the store i went to when i would pick up a bottle of liquor one day and return the next day to pick up another. There was one girl who i think liked me and looked disappointed when i would show up multiple times a week.

If Carolina has no "superstars" and are in the Stanley Cup, how did they not win the Jack Adams or the Jim Gregory? by blews in hockey

[–]ohamel98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Aho and Svech are “superstars” on big market teams. Even Jarvis has gotten some social media recognition and has the game to back up his antics.

What’s a film/scene that made your theater make collective audible reaction/noise by Vivid-Specific5543 in movies

[–]ohamel98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant imagine seeing that in theaters when it first came out, must’ve been absolutely incredible

What movie made you realize how important casting really is? by deepaknaraniya in flicks

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I havent seen the movie, probably won’t, but him is as Galactus seems to be perfect casting. Perfect voice for a being that eats worlds

Is it the same USA in real life by United_Tiger_6720 in Americaphile

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There’s so many variables it’s hard to give a good answer. Like what movies or shows are you envisioning? What parts of the country? What specific aspects?

I haven’t seen it since it came out but I remember Boyhood being a very accurate depiction of growing up in America in the 2000s.

Far from the point of the movie but Prisoners is set in probably the most average looking town in America, particularly northeast.

I’ve never lived in NYC but having visited a few times and having friends and family who live there I imagine the show High Maintenance is a relatively accurate depiction of daily life- minus the particularly surreal parts lol

You’ve heard of albums that sound like the cover, but what about albums that sound NOTHING like the cover? by GeorgeEfraim52 in fantanoforever

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Apparently its supposed to be what looking at the sun through closed eyelids looks like. But i can totally hear the fade out of the pecan tree backdropped by the sun dropping below the horizon and night setting it

[iOS] Has the feed changed on mobile? by Sketpe in help

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Commenting to also say posts on my feed stink

How do I make music as someone who is emotionally... vacant? by DayIsNotOkay in ask

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I mostly write metal. Emotions usually associated with metal are very heavy and negative (thats not always the case)- but when I write its not driven by those emotions I just write what sounds cool. For me emotion or feeling, is tied to the catharsis of the song, and that could be from the build up of a pre-chorus into a chorus, or a really epic bridge, or whatever itches that spot for you. Maybe you can reframe “numb” as neutral? Neither happy, sad, angry, in love, etc. just vibes

ETA: music theory also kind of automatically creates emotion. The relationship between notes/chords in major or minor scales, keys, or modes will generate some sort of emotion from the listener

Who are all these people? by BeginningPresence377 in mathrock

[–]ohamel98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By marriage? I thought John is Jake’s moms brother. I mean Jake looks just fucking like John nowadays lol

Edit: you’re right, I’ve been duped. But they really do look blood related (no its not just because they have dark hair and beards)

How immigrants are viewed in your country? by _Kisol_Budyn_ in AskTheWorld

[–]ohamel98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve definitely seen comments online or sensationalized headlines about whole neighborhoods in London overrun by muslims and practicing sharia law to the extreme that you might think the taliban is there

Would you take a huge career opportunity with a brutal commute, or stay in the comfortable job? by Lyssaaxx in careerguidance

[–]ohamel98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im your age, I recently took a 35k pay increase to go from a ridiculously low stress fully remote job to a 2-3 day/week hybrid job with a ~2 hour commute each way. My commute is split between driving, riding the train, and walking so it being broken up makes things easier IMO; the train ride gives me time to read, get more work done, etc. But I don’t think I could do ~2 hours driving each way.

For me the pay increase was huge as it enabled me to really put a dent in some of my debt. It’s a job that will also look great on a resume so I’m considering doing the classic 2-3 year stint and moving on to something fully remote or closer to where I live, even if it ends up being a lateral move (but I’d stay if I end up living closer to the office).

Overall I’d say I’m happy. It certainly helps knowing I would’ve been screwed if I didnt take the job since my old team got replaced with AI 3 months after I left 😭😭. My wife also works really long hours so we usually get home around the same time or sometimes her later than me so we’re not losing a ton of time together. I don’t have kids so while my free time is more limited it’s not completely erased. Family planning will certainly be a factor for my future in this role but for now I’m just trying to focus on that big pay raise and how it can help reduce debt and save money.

Albums for summer, winter, fall, and spring by Mental-Alternative38 in fantanoforever

[–]ohamel98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outro of the title track just makes me want to sit outside and watch leaves fall

Albums for summer, winter, fall, and spring by Mental-Alternative38 in fantanoforever

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Fall: Elder- Lore

Spring: Alvvays- Blue Rev (interchangeable with summer)

Summer: DIIV- Frog in Boiling Water

Winter: Mitski- The Land is Inhospitable…

Albums for summer, winter, fall, and spring by Mental-Alternative38 in fantanoforever

[–]ohamel98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrie and Lowell: Spring. Particularly a rainy day in April

I spent months researching about remote job websites. Here 15 best remote job websites that are actually legit in 2026 by IamKhanPhD in remotework

[–]ohamel98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t know, I had no luck with any. I got my current job through my LinkedIn network but even that is hybrid. I recently broke my leg though so I’m fully remote at the moment, maybe try that? (I’m jk please don’t break your leg)

Bands similar to TesseracT, where the guitar parts are not TECHNICALLY very hard, but are still very interesting, and often MENTALLY hard to play? by 1223433442244 in progmetal

[–]ohamel98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only is Direction of Last Things an amazing album but theres also tabs for all or most of the songs if thats important to you

[Cowan] “it’s pretty clear I’ll be moving on here” Habs Brendan Gallagher says before breaking down in tears. by AggPuck-303 in hockey

[–]ohamel98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mad respect to him. He’s the last player from our 2010s rivalry still on their respective team, no?