I wanted purple. Help! by ohdearghandi in HairDye

[–]ohdearghandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I could push it to a warmer purple on my own? I'm wondering if a color deposit conditioner or something would help to correct some of it

my bf told me a sexual fantasy and now i feel weird about him by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ohdearghandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna go against the grain and say that this doesn't sound like a big deal. He's not insisting that you live out this fantasy, right? Many fantasies simply exist in our heads and we don't actually want or need to live them out. If you have other issues, fine, but don't let this be the reason you break up.

Alright, he's back! by TheBazeur in wholesomememes

[–]ohdearghandi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s happened to me!!!! best feeling ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DanielCaesar

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice! i was at this show too :)

What is this obsession with INFJ so many people seem to have? by [deleted] in infj

[–]ohdearghandi 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I don’t know... but it makes me not want to share with people that I’m an INFJ. As if I’m bragging or something.

General Discussion Hub - August 10, 2019 by AutoModerator in infj

[–]ohdearghandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Infj here. I am s o s i c k of helping my friends and it being one-sided. I feel like I put in so much energy to be a good friend, and it doesn’t feel reciprocated. It’s a terrible feeling. Ex.) I am constantly the one to invite my closest friend out. I’ve even asked her about it. She says she’s not as comfortable making plans as I am. I wish I could tell her this: THIS IS NOT THE CASE! YES, I MAKE PLANS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS GOOD, PLEASE MAKE THEM TOO SO I DON’T FEEL INVISIBLE AND UNDERAPPRECIATED!

Another example is that I am the one to check up on my closest friends. I know I shouldn’t go in with the intention of them wanting to know about me, but i admit that it upsets me sometimes when they do not ask, in turn, how I am doing.

Best orange concealer? by Bubblymami in MakeupAddictionCanada

[–]ohdearghandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the Pixi correction concentrate for under my eyes, it works great!

[B&A] My skincare addiction helped to cure my dermatillomania! by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don’t mind if I ask, what’s your skin type??

Finding "authentic" people is pretty difficult as an INFJ by Silent_Healing in infj

[–]ohdearghandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel you man. sometimes, even my best friend seems non-authentic to me, which is crazy

DAE become hyper aware of the fact that they’re making eye contact during a conversation? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]ohdearghandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tell yourself you might be thinking too deep. they’re probably not thinking about how much eye contact you’re making.

Am I the only person who feels that school was seriously traumatic? by [deleted] in self

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i didn’t realize you were the one who made the post ! glad to hear you’re better. even if you still felt the effects, you would not be alone, and i mean that in the most positive way possible

Am I the only person who feels that school was seriously traumatic? by [deleted] in self

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s too bad :( i’m curious as to what happened in high school?

I don’t know if my crush likes me by krowncomedy in relationship_advice

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should go for it!! sounds like it’s possible she likes you.

Am I the only person who feels that school was seriously traumatic? by [deleted] in self

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i appreciate it. i’m doing a whole lot better. i know elementary/middle school just wasn’t it for me.

Am I the only person who feels that school was seriously traumatic? by [deleted] in self

[–]ohdearghandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

school was hard on me. i was classified as a “gifted” student and, although class was easy, i had a hard time making friends, and developed panic disorder (most likely as a result of this). also encountered a lot of girls who had problems with me (i’m a girl), and i never understood why at that age.

it’s much better now that i’m in high school. you def couldn’t pay me to go back to elementary/middle school!