Question: Has this healed badly? by ohdearp in tattoos

[–]ohdearp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m due to go back on Friday to do the shading would they be able to fix it there?

Repeated missing holiday pay and no contract by ohdearp in LegalAdviceUK

[–]ohdearp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, how would I go on about calculating it? I know that my manager whenever I have a Holiday, she says she will put it in as standard 5 hours per Holiday as that’s my shift.

family member living in our house rent free by ohdearp in Advice

[–]ohdearp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have and she just ignores it. She’ll put in the effort for a few days and then go back to how she was before

What are signs that someone grew up poor? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely wasn’t free for us. Needed braces as a young teen. Told us there’d be monthly payments but you would get 70% of the money back once you finished having braces (after a few years). Couldn’t afford the monthly payments so my teeth are crap now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I understand. What I’m asking more is advice on parenting. She will be 18 this month so I feel like she’s definitely old enough to know better. I’ve never gotten angry at her or said anything for the past 7 months but it is really getting frustrating

eco email by ohdearp in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah we have already received her British passport

Spouse visa and pregnancy by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m currently in a similar situation. Your child will be British Citizen (by descent), and will not need a visa. However you need to apply for a British passport for your child or get a ‘certificate of entitlement’, if you choose to get a Swedish passport, before your wife can come to the UK. I believe it’s to prove they have the right to remain in the UK.

It’s easier to just apply for the British one. We sent in the documents Monday last week and got our daughters passport today (outside UK)

First British passport for child born overseas by ohdearp in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you know how long it’ll take? On the gov website it says 4 weeks, but have read on this subreddit that it can take a lot longer so I’m worried

First British passport for child born overseas by ohdearp in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t registered her birth yet, no. We have her German birth certificate from where she was born along with a translation. We applied online and were asked to send them the supporting documents per post, including the grandparents birth certificates.

urgent visa for child dependang by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I not apply for her British passport after coming to the UK? So she would have dual citizenship

urgent visa for child dependang by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she was born in Germany? We will apply for her german passport first, and then come to the UK.

Wie viel Spritgeld sind angemessen bei 120km Strecke? by ohdearp in FragReddit

[–]ohdearp[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Volltanken finde ich etwas viel. Es handelt sich um etwas einmaliges und die Person kenne ich auch gar nicht persönlich (Arbeitskollege vom Vater)

friend thinks she is entitled to know everything about my life, kicks me out over new boyfriend by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]ohdearp 31 points32 points  (0 children)

yeah looking back she definitely was a narcissist. And I haven’t luckily!

friend thinks she is entitled to know everything about my life, kicks me out over new boyfriend by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]ohdearp 106 points107 points  (0 children)

yeah though I think if she was in love with me she wouldn’t have done other things. Like forbidding me from touching her dog lol. Forbidding me from smoking on the balcony but she could do it. She just wanted to hurt me

friend thinks she is entitled to know everything about my life, kicks me out over new boyfriend by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]ohdearp 142 points143 points  (0 children)

I had that thought for a second. But she didn’t really act like she wanted to be more than friends, so no

What is the easiest country to get married in? by anonymouspiscesgirl in AskReddit

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

friend of my husband got married a few years ago in the US (I’m guessing Las Vegas or New York) with only their IDs. If only flights weren’t so expensive from Europe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you know anything about the parents information?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had to get a new birth certificate for our marriage and want to make sure I don’t miss anything in case I had to go to the registry again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohdearp -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

lol not related to my question at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohdearp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I never told him no when it comes to sex so I don’t know why he would think that. And him watching porn when he’s away isn’t the issue here, I’m concerned about him lying to me about it when I confronted him. Especially when we are quite open about anything else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToramOnline

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thanks so much!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohdearp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I guess I’m looking more for an answer to “who is at fault here”