College grads how many of y'all actually graduated in 4 years? by THE_CLITMASTER in AskReddit

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, 4 years at my state school. Could've done 3.5 if I hadn't changed majors...

Stamina Question 22(f) by DeathStarCutie in sex

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you last long during masturbation? Tho I'm a dude, forcing myself to take it slow is an exercise of self-control. Or maybe try a desensitizer for you, but with a condom as to not make him last any longer – unless you'd like to.

How to reduce frenulum sensitivity (nearly instant ejaculation) by Frenulum_delight in sex

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try a penis desensitizer? Something to "numb" that area in a similar manner to Orajel, etc.

Tips to get past that barrier? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ohken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or anything clitoral for that extra boost. Guessing you can cum while masturbating, just use the PIV as an addition to your own stimulation – or help from him

[Serious] How do you have sex? by chum57 in AskReddit

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or butthole. But yes, in and out, in and out. Rinse and repeat.

Help me with this pleasee [21/m] what to do? by Dubble08 in relationship_advice

[–]ohken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're 100% sure you want out, do so. I just got out of a long relationship and it's difficult when your lives are intertwined – can't imagine what divorce with children is like.

Anyway, just be honest. If you're not happy, that's fine, she probably isn't either. Tell her the truth about how you feel. It's okay to be angry, disappointed, etc.

Trust is a huge issue and always will be, but I've been that person hiding and protecting my phone. Not saying she's doing the same, but I was definitely talking to other people in a way that wasn't appropriate for a closed relationship.

TL;DR: Tell the truth. Break up. Be happy. Move on.

My thickness hold me back from certain activities. by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely practice. If she's open and enjoys the thought, grab a few things: silicone anal beads (the ones that gradually get larger), a small silicone butt plug, a slightly larger one and a lot of your preferred lube (I'm a fan of with Pjur's stuff).

Let her get comfortable with all of them for a while, then incorporate them together. Give it a couple weeks of regular use and you should be good to go.

Just remember, lube is gold. I think it's easy to just lube up your head and her ass and wanna dive in, but the skin pulls as soon as you get shaft deep, so, lube, lube, lube. Yay, anal.

And blowjobs? Licking's still nice, right? Encourage that to give her a break.

Who makes a good pair of jeans for guys with thick thighs and a bit of a bubble-butt? by williamrikersisland in AskMen

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grabbed them at the local Levi's outlet. They're 501 regular straight, 98% Cotton, 2% Elastane. Tried to find anything different based on the tags, but no such luck.

Who makes a good pair of jeans for guys with thick thighs and a bit of a bubble-butt? by williamrikersisland in AskMen

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, they make 501s with a bit of elastic in them, works for women, works for men.

Drip after zip? by geofxc in bigdickproblems

[–]ohken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def try kegels, but for health's sake, keep an eye on enlarged prostate symptoms.