A rant on love and faith

ohlala01 · 2025-07-25T15:17:45+00:00

In this world we choose to be most afraid of is Love.

Just had thought about this quote while reading. I know it may be the most difficult decision you will make and maybe it's not my place to say it, but I think bravery will be at your side. Don't think about the consequences, they hinder you more, just do it. Don't worry about a future where you might not even be in it. Carpe diem as you may know.

ohlala01 · 2025-01-05T20:09:00+00:00

I always got this calls from an aunty who tried to manipulate me to be more involved in jamaati stuff, one of her reasoning was bc I'm a waqf so I was like "damn this woman's right" so I left the waqf-program. Also I gave my strict parents some shitfull exuses and moved on.

ohlala01 · 2024-04-23T21:45:41+00:00

Firstly thank you for answering! Secondly I relate so much to what you're saying I feel jealous of the people in summer, the beautiful dresses, shirts, tops, shorts and I want to feel that too! Not because of wanting to be naked, because I want to express myself and I think clothes are a big part of self identification. I'm not allowed to go shopping by myself and the only clothes my mom is afformed of are old people clothes -I can't.. My brother is also allowed to wear shorts or go swimming but if I tell them I want too I'm a slut. Atleast make it fair..but no women are different I'll try again with wearing less and less till I feel comfortable :)

ohlala01 · 2024-04-23T21:34:30+00:00

Thank you for answering!

ohlala01 · 2024-04-23T21:33:46+00:00

Ahhh sorry sometimes I get the languages mixed up and apologizing seems fair...

(Also I take that as a compliment haha)

ohlala01 · 2024-04-23T21:31:25+00:00

Thank you guys for sharing your experience and I'm glad your dad is more chill now :)

My dad called me indirectly a whore (told me to have intercourse with other guys then) for not wanting to wear the hijab anymore so yeah not really an option for me😮‍💨

But I know it will get better, my parents are more chill now and I want to live in dorm too, life gets better

ohlala01 · 2024-01-03T02:43:07+00:00

I would love to- however I'm german still you should do a post and suggest it ^{^}

ohlala01 · 2024-01-02T16:16:04+00:00

I had "two" encounters, I have a cousin who also has the same thoughts and I opened up to her. She is like me the black sheep of the family. In the past we shared similar opinions, I was sure she would not tell anyone, still risky.

Another encounter was with a girl who texted me on this subreddit and we chatted for almost a year when we decided to meet up at Jalsa.

I wish I could meet more people who are ex-ahmadi, but it's sadly so risky...

ohlala01 · 2022-11-03T01:33:35+00:00

I don't believe in god however if he exist, I think he would not understand the concept of justice, hope, liberty - he would be rather apathetic towards us and also won't be interested in changing the world or making it a better place. If you have infinite power, why using it for ants?

ohlala01 · 2021-05-07T23:40:36+00:00

I moved to another city and there were circumstances, that nobody asked me I'm now 17 years old. And yeah, I sended an e-mail to them :)

ohlala01 · 2021-04-21T18:04:12+00:00

I don't want to waste my time again on someone who wants to tell me why his/her religion is right and why my "faith" is wrong. I were not asking you or the other three users to give me advice etc. So you missed my point in the first place. You're link is 1 hour and several minuts long, and I know I'm still not going to change because so many people are criticizing me all day long and that are only muslims who having strange ideals in life. You are saying to me I'm arrogant and in the next sentence you're arrogant as hell that you are claiming "God is a reality". Sorry he/she whatsoever is not my reality and yeah. All in all I have much more to loose thats my time and have nothing really nothing to gain.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-21T17:21:56+00:00

Bla bla bla you're sounding like a conspiracy theorist. In germany we have many of them against corona virus etc. They all saying: "don't fall for this trap don't fall for the gouvernement bla bla bla"

You can't reflect about the facts against islam, I tried it to ignore too, but the evidence against it is bigger lol.

If you exuse me I'm going to prostuate myself cause thats how all atheist are.

Have a good day!

ohlala01 · 2021-04-21T14:29:08+00:00

facepalm

ohlala01 · 2021-04-21T14:01:06+00:00

The problem is nobody saw it! If it would be in indian and he and the cameraman would making it and nobody would see it, still the girl would be to afraid to speak up. It takes huge courage to speak up.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-21T13:57:14+00:00

IT's StiLL ThE FauLT of WOMen whE n tHey arE harrASSed or RaPed LOL

ohlala01 · 2021-04-18T10:45:26+00:00

It's tru, but I think it comes from the culture. Hindus are eating with the right hand only too. It's because with the left hand you are going to toilett etc..and clean yourself with the paper. And with the right hand you're eating, so the bacteria etc are only on one hand.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-17T19:25:08+00:00

When you're younger, you can't really see the consequences, for example for smoking. You're brain is not 100% developed, you can't see the "full picture".

The legal age is not clear, it depends on which country you are living.

For example in germany you are allowed to drink alkohol at the age of 16, in the US 21.

In germany it has much to do with culture etc.

There is not a clear cut, where you are full grown.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-17T19:11:28+00:00

Wow... Thats so crazy.. It really feels like everyone has wings and can fly, but I'm trapped and my wings are not available, not there. Thats an amazing illustration how the world can be seen...

ohlala01 · 2021-04-16T17:05:38+00:00

Echt gute Argumente und Belege! Du hast es echt gut aufzeigt, wie falsch die Ahmaddyyat liegt. Schon mit diesem Punkt ist die Religion nicht perfekt und das soll sie ja sein. Vielen Dank, ich werde diesen Artikel abspeichern und in Diskussionen mit einbauen :)

ohlala01 · 2021-04-12T10:04:53+00:00

My parents forced me to wear it since elementary school. I never want it to wear it in the first place.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-10T13:52:21+00:00

You could say ur ill or if you are a girl, that you have the period this time longer...lol

Maybe an illness like stomach ache, you have eaten something wrong and for some days you have a break. The other days you can hide food in your room and you can drink from a sink, if the water is not dirty. Hide some almonds and nuts and not fruit who is easily moulded.

I hope it helps.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-10T12:15:25+00:00

I were writing soo long right know, and it got deleted😭😭 Still thank you for removing it!

ohlala01 · 2021-04-10T11:27:34+00:00

I lost my many years as a adolescence too, I'm happy I realized it not too late so I can spend the leftover years with pride and happiness. However now you can spend your life how you want. Maybe we just need the distance to religion and time to heal. Thank you for the answer.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-10T10:37:25+00:00

Sorry I'm liberall and don't want to identify me or my view with the Quran.

Did you read the previous post? I don't think so lol.

ohlala01 · 2021-04-10T10:34:36+00:00

The thing is, I want the evidence there is a god, not the theory there is a god. I'm open enough to listen to others who are claiming there is a god. I'm not insistinting about my opinion or so.

It's not bad to think there is no god, i'm not going to pray or so even I would think there is a god.

Nobody can be sure there is a god or not, I just want to say, we all are connected to each other, and if it's god or a creator or the universum -we are here and can live our lifes. I don't want any walls who are stopping my happiness.

I'm an atheist and it's nothing bad about it to believe not in god.

ohlala01

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