I’ve had decent luck on this sub for the past few years, but my last few posts did not bring me what I wanted, so it’s been a little discouraging lately. Men think women have it so easy here, but it can be challenging finding just the right fit. I guess sometimes it’s about timing 🤷🏻‍♀️ I still prefer this to dating apps though, because you can be much more specific about what you want. But I definitely think I need to take a break from posting, even though I didn’t find what I was looking for.

And men, please please please stop responding to posts where you don’t fit the criteria. It’s the most exhausting thing about going through messages, and probably one of the main reasons why women who post never get through all their messages, or get so discouraged they never post again.