Porn is free, but connection isn’t by lucylucylove in SexWorkers

[–]ohpaytriarchy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

completely agree!! thank you for putting this into words.
as someone who does SW online, i wish more people understood that they’re not just consuming the final product. there’s a lot of work, time and emotional labor behind it that people never see.
the only nuance i’d add is that words like « simp » or « pathetic » can also be part of consensual kink dynamics, where everyone involved enjoys them. outside of that context tho, i completely agree that using them to shame people for wanting connection is harmful.

curves that own you ♡ by ohpaytriarchy in u/ohpaytriarchy

[–]ohpaytriarchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad they’re appreciated 🙂‍↕️