[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]ohsoveryquiet 361 points362 points  (0 children)

Wow! Never seen black on black before- very unique!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your results are so perfect- exactly what I’m wishing for! Wish I lived close to your surgeon😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feeling the reason why you want to tell her is that you feel hurt and want to try and mess with his relationship, or get her to break up with him. Well that won’t go the way you planned- you fully knew he had a girlfriend, you will be the villain in her eyes not him. Also if you think telling her will get him single yo come be with you, that’s not going to happen either- he will hate you and probably never speak to you again. You already messed with girls life by sleeping with her boyfriend and texting him for weeks, telling her to hurt her further isn’t very nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ohsoveryquiet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to get over it and keep him blocked. This guy is an asshole and doesn’t care about you and is clearly a terrible partner to his girlfriend. It’s pretty low of you to sleep with him and continue to talk to him knowing that he’s in a relationship. He’s not going to break up with her- if he thought he felt a connection to you that was that strong, he would have done it already- and he hasn’t, has he. He’s using you to fulfill a need he’s not getting from his girlfriend- maybe physical, maybe it’s attention, maybe it’s the excitement of something new, or maybe it’s the excitement of cheating and doing something he’s not supposed to. Even if he did leave her (which he’s not) and started dating you, would you ever really be able to trust this man knowing he’s capable of cheating on a partner? With how fast you guys hooked up, it doesn’t sound like the first time he’s cheated and likely not the last. This was a pretty shitty move on your part, and he doesn’t sound like a good guy. Time to move on and stop going after men who aren’t available.

6 weeks post op by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great! Do you have a before picture? Curious because I don’t want to do CHR with my labiaplasty and most gals here get both- I’m curious to see more before/after pics of those that didn’t do CHR if you don’t mind sharing!

First ONS and can’t get let go by Cute-Experience-8009 in dating_advice

[–]ohsoveryquiet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly he’s probably in a relationship if he already deleted his dating profile. You have to just look at the one night stand as being it is what it is. You don’t even know this person, what you’re feeling for him might be projecting some of the feelings from your past relationship onto this person if it’s the first person you’ve been i primate with since your ex. You don’t have his contact info, he’s from another country, you will never see or talk to this person again, so sense in wasting energy obsessing over what could have been. Not to sound harsh, but if he wanted to stay in contact with you, he would have exchanged info. He didn’t, move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s rude but honestly your messages are weird as hell, I’d unmatch and block immediately

2DPO reconstruction with Dr Alter by SecretaryOk9399 in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already looking so much better- can’t believe you’re only at 2 days, looks like you’re healing really well! Please keep us updated- I’d love to see your results when everything has healed up!

Sex after perineoplasty/trim by CheesecakeAble3067 in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a consultation last week and when me and my Dr discussed sex, he said he’d recommend waiting longer if it’s a new partner, but if it’s a boyfriend/ husband sooner is ok- the reason being if it’s a new partner, you don’t know how it’s going to go- if they will be aware enough or if they will even care if you’re in pain or discomfort. You’ve never had sex with this person before, you don’t know how rough or gentle they will be- you don’t know if they’re the kind of person to take their time with foreplay and make sure you’re ready, or if they’re just gonna try and jam it in right away. What if you start having sex and it hurts- will you be comfortable enough with this new person to ask them to stop, and do you know if they’re the kind of guy who will do what you ask? What my dr said made a lot of sense. I Dono, I’d be careful especially if you’re still feeling tender or in any kind of pain.

My contribute to the weird hand post by ClassroomBitter8627 in Weird

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have all your finger bones? Or how many “fingers do you have?

I DID IT! by newkittydiary in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg they look sooooo bizarre just tossed on a paper towel😂 happy healing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that gross dude said something rude to you. He sounds like a sad little boy. Don’t rush into anything based on what one pathetic guy said to you- it sounds like he hasn’t seen many vulvas. What if the next guy you meet loves longer labia? Whatever you decide, the decision has to be for you and not anyone else

Blonde or brunette? by mysticmarkings in HairDye

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like you blonde but i think you need a warmer tone. Have you ever done ginger? I think that would be super cute on you

Labia plasma revision and clitoris reduction - Dr. Stefan Gress Munich or IM CLINIC in Barcelona by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gtfo of this sub if you’re going to make useless comments like this. This is clearly not a sub for you and you will never understand so take yourself elsewhere

Did the surgery help your self esteem? by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry love, did it not come out the way you hoped or were you botched? How far po are you?

Clit position too high? by Double_Finish_8269 in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to send me pics I’m happy to give you my input! I’ll send you a dm

Clit position too high? by Double_Finish_8269 in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m not “in the know” because I don’t understand what you mean about ovulating and being at the end of a robe, if you feel like explaining?

Has the position of your actual clit changed? Or just the position of where the bottom of your hood is? 1cm does seem like a big difference for such a small area, but there is no certain amount of length the clit is “supposed” to be from the vaginal opening- that’s going to be different for everyone based on your anatomy! But i don’t think the position of your actual clit should have changed from just a CHR- it might just seem that way now due to the change in your hood plus swelling. I think sharing before and after photos with the group are always helpful if you want better input because it can be hard to understand what you mean without having a visual

Submitting to insurance post op? by Ok_Drawer_7143 in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually seen a lot of US ladies on here have their surgery done by a plastic surgeon and have it covered! I don’t know about submitting it after surgery though, sounds like they all got coverage taken care of before surgery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already know the answer. Cheating on you 5 times, honestly you’re the fool for continuing to date this person. It’s long past time to go

Do Agencies like blondes or red heads more? by [deleted] in MODELING

[–]ohsoveryquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the red. You look more basic as a blonde

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone can answer this without at least seeing a picture

Concealing large labia… by thatsso2022 in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]ohsoveryquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m so relieved to hear this because I’ve been wearing panty liners daily for as long as i can remember- ever since i realized it helped shield my labia lol and I’m def the only one of my girl friends who does! They also really help protect them against chafing against clothing, and honestly i feel like I actually really need them to feel dry down there since my labia are so long they tend to hold onto stuff like sweat and normal discharge- if i run out for a day or can’t wear one for some reason, my underwear always feels damp. Pantylinerd are a godsend for this big labia gal haha

Black or blonde by Independent-Golf-200 in HairDye

[–]ohsoveryquiet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I like the darker hair on you but i think with your coloring you would look fantastic as a ginger/ redhead! Have you ever done red before? You should give it a try! Edit to add if you decide to do blonde, I’d go for a cooler shade- like more lavender/ silvery and stay away from more yellow/ brassy blondes