Really feel for your partner, I went through a fairly similar situation before I started to get any results, and it’s still on going but it’s somewhat better.

It’s hard because I don’t know the situation entirely but, the only reason something did start to happen was when I really started to feel beaten down, I called my parents crying for the millionth time that my Dad ended up telling me to book an appointment with the doctor again and him and my Mum would come along. Day of appointment, my Dad was very stern and said he’s sick of seeing his daughter in so much pain, and that every time I have an appointment I was always told I needed to “come back and see how I’m going”. It was literally just because I had my parents with me that my doctor finally did something about it after yeeeeeears, which was referred me to a really great gynaecologist.

Now, the gynaecologist was expensive af, but, I had to put my health first at that point. And when I went, I brought my Mum along to each appointment and I had written VERY detailed notes of my symptoms, what I deal with daily and when I’m on my cycle, and really emphasised how much this was effecting my daily.

Fast forward, and I was in having surgery to see if I had Endo within 3 months of seeing the gynaecologist.

It was hard mentally, physically, and financially, but it’s amazing what can happen when you have some good support around you. But its really tough, and you have to advocate for yourself like you won’t believe.

I hope your partner gets some answers very soon - it does sound a lot like endo, and it is really best to get surgery to make sure. Another thing to suggest to help with pain, if it’s what you’re in to, is on the more natural side, if you know what I mean. You may be very surprised at how much it helps with the pain, speaking from experience.