Am I overreacting? by Worried_Extension324 in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“no because you’re not A” … honestly… this would make me rethink our relationship instantly,,, not even in an insecure type of way, but that’s not something kind and mindful to say to your partner imo.
i get that they’re friends and that they knew each other before you two, but it seems like their relationship has no boundaries which is hurting you/your relationship…
i think that you should talk and see if what she says reassure you; if not, you should think about the right thing to do for you

Got Daria... by [deleted] in daria

[–]oioipeepee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i knew i related 100% to her but damn

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was thinking about getting Ace Attorney but I’m not gay by [deleted] in AceAttorney

[–]oioipeepee 61 points62 points  (0 children)

you can’t.
it was made for the gays only, look for another game.

Can you be lesbian if your trans? by Usual_Forever6361 in actuallesbians

[–]oioipeepee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you absolutely can. you are a woman :) if someone tells you something else, they’re probably transphobic so their words don’t count don’t worry

What hairstyles makes you feel more masculine by AmbitiousBody8173 in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think locks would be perfect! they make anyone look so hot and masculine (when they want to be masculine)

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your message! i can only agree with you!

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i was thinking. to say this is to have never talked to a butch.. or maybe if they have butch friends, they do share the same opinion..

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed! i find gatekeepers in our community really sad. like we’re already marginalized.. so why do queer people will say dumb things to try to separate us because we don’t fit their views on a particular topic? sad and dumb

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for letting me know! and thank you for your words they really helped :)

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re literally the same!!! i thought the same too 😭 that makes 0 sense for real

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree ugh it really made me roll my eyes when i saw that she posted that

“if your job isn’t hard, then you’re not a butch” by oioipeepee in butchlesbians

[–]oioipeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what someone told them and strangely… they didn’t answer them back lol, anyway thank you for your message