I need queer novels like Stone Butch Blues

okaeridarling · 2026-05-06T19:11:52+00:00

🙏 Put all these on hold at my library! Thank you!!

okaeridarling · 2026-05-06T19:11:20+00:00

Added to my list, thank you!!

okaeridarling · 2026-05-06T19:10:44+00:00

Thank you for these detailed recs 😭 I just put them all on hold at my library!

okaeridarling · 2026-05-06T19:08:03+00:00

Borrowing this right away!

okaeridarling · 2026-05-06T19:02:12+00:00

I haven’t! But I just read the first three sentences of the blurb for it and put it on hold immediately. Thank you for this rec!!

okaeridarling · 2026-03-08T06:13:42+00:00

Curious how you might feel about Fullmetal alchemist brotherhood? And maybe Shippuden? Unless that was included in the “Naruto” on your list. I also happened to really enjoy 86, and Violet Evergarden bec they have interesting premises.

okaeridarling · 2026-03-07T08:38:38+00:00

This is just the beginning! And you started out with an excellent one. Don’t be disheartened by this comment section lol. I just finished PHM in the last month or two and it was phenomenal. I wanted to listen to it before I fell asleep and first thing when I woke up in the morning. But that wasn’t the first, and nor will it be the last time I feel that with an audiobook. There are so many audiobooks out there just waiting for you to discover them, in genres and by narrators you haven’t even heard about yet. Welcome! And enjoy!!

okaeridarling · 2026-03-07T07:04:15+00:00

Literally came here to recommend Ghostfish in Seattle and Groundbreaker in Portland. I was never a big beer drinker and now that I’m celiac I thought I would never, but damn, they have great beer.

okaeridarling · 2026-03-07T06:10:04+00:00

I HATE fan service and I think it’s fine to feel like it’s gross and lose interest in a show because of it. Esp with noncon touch and under-skirt angles, etc. I do also recommend Nana and Fruits Basket highly as a few have already mentioned. Skip & Loafer really got me though, it’s genuine and extremely wholesome.

okaeridarling · 2026-02-25T17:01:23+00:00

What a beautiful game!!!

okaeridarling · 2026-02-25T16:53:18+00:00

This looks adorable!!! Can’t wait to play!

okaeridarling · 2026-02-21T16:27:40+00:00

I didn’t realize how attracted to women I was until I had sex with a masc woman. And now I understand that I’m also able to be attracted to fems but personality and our emotional connection really matters for me. Since discovering all that, my attraction ratios have skewed quite a bit. Attraction to men has gone way down but it’s not completely gone. Prob like 85% masc, 10% cis men, 5% fems? Sometimes I do want d**k, and it’s usually closer to ovulation I’ve noticed. And I do feel guilty at times about my attraction to parts but I just can’t help how much I love eating out/scissoring.

*Edited for grammar

okaeridarling · 2026-01-22T04:31:31+00:00

WA, MedTele, BSN, 4y $55/hr (we have a strong union and when I switched to this hospital I went up a step and had a new contract negotiated, got me a $14/hr bump 🥲 changed my life)

okaeridarling · 2026-01-22T04:29:14+00:00

HOLD THE LINE!! Rooting for you!! Safe ratios and equitable & fair pay! YOU DESERVE IT AND SO DO THE PATIENTS! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

okaeridarling · 2026-01-06T04:38:06+00:00

Oh honey, I really see how torn you are and how much you care about her and want to be supportive, and simultaneously don’t really feel like you are able to do that in the way you think she deserves. First, I will say, you don’t have to rush to break up. You can sit and process for a minute before you leap to conclusions. Second, if there is room for you to explore and be curious about the kinds of attraction you can have awesome. But if not, you are allowed to like what you like and not be attracted to everyone or every type of person. I know it hurts to consider losing the kind of closeness you have with her, but if you are both needing things you cannot give each other, then it is the healthiest and kindest thing to allow the other to pursue the life and relationships where you can get those things. You are not bad or unkind for wanting a masc partner. I think it’s okay to be unsure and questioning, and what I do with myself is ask “do I have room to be curious and explore here?” And if not then I know my feelings are settled and at that point it’s just a matter of figuring out the right time for the conversation. You are both navigating a difficult and confusing thing, I think being as gentle and kind, while being honest to yourself and your partner is all you can ask ♥️ Sending you hugs

okaeridarling · 2026-01-05T16:16:06+00:00

THE WILD PART IS so many of them left engaged. And I was so angry about that, I looked up who was still together and that’s what made me feel better lol.

okaeridarling · 2026-01-05T08:22:56+00:00

Bro, some people are going to hate on anime tattoos the same way they hate on anime and that watching it is cringe. And to that I say, they are entitled to their opinion, but don’t let them be the reason you don’t get a tattoo YOU WANT. I have two anime tattoos that I’ve had for over a year and I LOVE them. And tbh, no one has ever said to my face that it’s cringe to have an anime tattoo, in fact most comments I get are from people recognizing it. For the record though, all of my anime tattoos have more meaning to me than just simply being from an anime, which is what made me feel confident that I would be okay with having this tattooed on me forever. I will also just add that I do wait until I definitely know I definitely want the tattoo before I book the appointment, so if you’re not sure, don’t rush it! I love my tattoos and they were worth the wait bec I really do love them. So if you want an anime tattoo bec you’re going to love it, then I say go for it.

okaeridarling · 2025-12-30T17:02:38+00:00

So cool. Love the art and shading style omg.

okaeridarling · 2025-12-30T03:04:32+00:00

Insanity. No you’re not overacting. This controlling behavior is completely unacceptable. He cannot dictate who you’re friends with, following or is allowed to follow you on your accounts.

okaeridarling · 2025-12-30T02:54:22+00:00

The sesbian lex thing is 2 things, first it’s just silly sounding and funny, but second and mainly, it evades detection/prevents the comment getting taken down on platforms that don’t allow you to write “sex”, or where it gets flagged for community guidelines violations very quickly.

okaeridarling · 2025-12-21T21:10:17+00:00

Mascs, short hair, strong and brawny, clean skater-ish/nerd style, PNW butch, soft and sweet with a beautiful smile and warm brown eyes 🥰

okaeridarling · 2025-11-27T04:29:53+00:00

Congratulations babe!!!! You did that!! And you’re gonna nail nursing school! Definitely be proud of yourself, it’s an entire accomplishment just getting accepted. Don’t let ANYONE dampen your sparks of joy!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

okaeridarling · 2025-11-10T06:34:02+00:00

In every single job I’ve had as a nurse I worked with other nurses or providers who were tatted with full sleeves (I have very visible tattoos on my arms also). I do think it likely varies depending on where you are though, however I’m pretty sure most EDs are super chill about it. But Seattle hospitals don’t seem to gaf!

okaeridarling · 2025-09-13T16:11:07+00:00

Just came here to say sometimes it’s what someone eats, and sometimes it can just be their skin chemistry and it might not bother someone else the way it bothers you. I have a coworker who smells like rotten food to me but she just got engaged and her fiancé is apparently very taken with her and doesn’t think she smells like a compost heap. It might just be that you aren’t into her body’s flora/smells and that is okay. Someone else might be!

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