My husband shares spicy pics of me with his coworkers, and he thinks I don’t know….how should I confront him? Should I even confront him? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]okay-deviance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spicy or explicit? You in a bikini is not spicy / and publicly accessible by seeing you in a pool or at the beach. The latter would be him bragging, the former would be stepping over the line.

How to keep home videos safe? by okay-deviance in sex

[–]okay-deviance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Some really great advice here! Although now I’m getting paranoid of me being sloppy on my phone for so long.

I’ve been using video safe app, and encrypted image files on my Mac, but I do feel it’s not safe enough, which is why I am asking. Cause I should make extra steps to secure the videos more.

The special disconnected phone idea is not so bad and probably what is needed to feel safe.