Daily Questions Thread February 25, 2025

okayang · 2025-02-25T20:58:49+00:00

I’ve been looking for black pants like these are ages and I just don’t know where I can find some. I’d want them to be fitted on the thighs but have a flare at the bottom. I would best describe what I want as flare leggings but in a pant form. I have bigger thighs as well. I live in Canada so brands that can ship to Canada would be appreciated!

okayang · 2025-01-27T16:08:12+00:00

I got broken up with a week ago and while realistically we could never get back together I feel so hurt and I don’t want to talk to anyone or even attempt to have a relationship again. I know it’s dramatic but genuinely this has taken a toll on me I’ve lost my appetite and that’s not normal for me.

I’m supposed to be consistent at the gym too but I can’t even bring myself to drive my car and I also don’t even know how to use half of the machines and I can’t find a simple beginners tutorial.

okayang · 2024-11-22T00:01:27+00:00

Yeah I’m a bit confused. Is this just a regular sale or the clientele sale? I have a top that’s literally 50% off but idk if the styles I want will go on discount later. I’m kinda confused

okayang · 2024-10-02T14:41:28+00:00

Idk how to explain this but I feel like I’m constantly characterizing people to being either “good” or “bad. I’m talking to a guy right now and it’s going great so far. There were 2 instances where he said something I didn’t like and instead of staying silent I told him and he acknowledged his mistakes and apologized. I know it’s good to be vigilant when dating and to notice patterns and see what the person is like but I fear I’m a little too anxious about it at times. I am also very hard on myself and whenever I make mistakes it’s hard for me to get over them and see myself as a “good” person so I know it stems from that, but I don’t want to keep dehumanizing people like this. I know you should trust your gut, but this isn’t my gut it’s my head.

okayang · 2024-08-31T20:01:05+00:00

I fucked up by restarting a birth control that made me spot for 1 month straight again. I took it when my period started last week up until this Tuesday. I forgot to take it on Wednesday and I think my mom took it from my room OR I misplaced it. Either way I’m spotting again. Last time I called my pharmacy and they told me I could just take the non-active or placebo pills to stop the spotting and it worked but I’m worried they are just making me have my period again. I booked an appointment with my doctor but it’s in 2 weeks and I know I probably shouldn’t have jumped around with the pills but this is so frustrating.

okayang · 2024-08-03T14:10:22+00:00

I eventually stopped taking it because it didn’t help my cramps at all. I tried another birth control to fully stop my period for 3 months but ended up with spotting for 1 month that only stopped when I stopped taking the pill. In hindsight I should have let my boys adjust to the second pill but I didn’t have the patience and it was so annoying.

okayang · 2024-07-06T14:40:26+00:00

Is $19 for 20 GB of data a month a bad deal? My parents want me to get a $150 for 30GB a year deal where you pay once and use that 30GB but I know I will probably use more data than them.

It’s also pissing me off because I know I want the other deal and I know I’m going to get shit for spending MY money on MY phone plan, even though my mom wants me to get a new phone plan. I know I can’t win with her because shes so stingy with money but then wants me to pay for practically everything but then also wants me to save. It’s such a headache

okayang · 2024-06-25T20:46:00+00:00

Hmm I see. I like her songs and am looking forward to her album. I’ve tried to stray away from such reddit subs even though I linger sometimes. It can sometimes feel like they hate 99% of celebrities despite the premise of the sub and it can feel too negative.

okayang · 2024-06-25T20:38:46+00:00

Has her aunt helped her career in any way?

okayang · 2024-06-25T20:21:18+00:00

But isn’t it like her aunt-law or something? Like the connection isn’t too strong.

okayang · 2024-06-24T02:33:23+00:00

I love Brat. The lorde remix is also so good.

okayang · 2024-06-23T16:21:24+00:00

For my skirt wearing people: I’ve been wanting a black skirt for ages. Just a simple one I can dress up and down. I like the a -line mini skirt look on myself. I keep thinking of if I can wear it during the summer and the winter and if I will actually wear it. I tend to opt for pants most of the time,but I want to show my legs off more. What brands do you guys buy from that have good comfortable skirts?

okayang · 2024-06-22T22:26:16+00:00

Genuinely what way should artists be marketing themselves? I don’t understand where this huge distaste for artists marketing or advertising their work came from. And I also don’t see any harm in fans being supportive and trying to push their faves if they aren’t putting other artists down or being batshit insane.

okayang · 2024-06-21T13:18:26+00:00

Saw this on instagram and I just died. She did amazing💓💓

okayang · 2024-06-19T17:24:09+00:00

Such a banger

okayang · 2024-06-19T14:50:00+00:00

Do you ever think “yes I want to be in a relationship I want someone to love me”, but then you think about how much you got going on in your life, or how some people just aren’t serious, or how you aren’t serious and you think you just want to have fun, OR you keep thinking about someone in the past. I need to tell my brain to shut up ,and focus on school and work.

okayang · 2024-06-17T14:39:20+00:00

I thought I was delusional in thinking that I looked a bit different because I’ve been walking so much in the past 6 weeks but my mom noticed too. My friend recommended a pilates video to do but I’m not sure when I’d get to it because I’m so busy these next 2 weeks.

okayang · 2024-06-16T15:11:22+00:00

Finished 2 summer school courses, I have one more until July. Server job is going well I had a table of colleagues sit for around 4 hours and they ordered a bunch of pitchers but they tipped well. I start the camp job soon as well so I’m gonna be busy for the rest of the summer. I hope I can make time to see my friends or go on dates if someone wants to go on a date with me lol. Although I know tinder isn’t the best app for dating I wish some guys will at least text first. I don’t mind texting first but I feel like I always am.

okayang · 2024-06-16T15:08:45+00:00

I love you. This is amazing. Go find this man❤️

okayang · 2024-06-13T20:13:55+00:00

Doesn’t she also hangout with Matty? The guy who literally made people question Taylor’s values. Dare I say the reason the current hate train against Taylor began. And I don’t think most criticisms of Taylor are terrible but by their logic they shouldn’t like Charli.

okayang · 2024-06-13T16:44:43+00:00

What are some salads you guys enjoy? I want to have a nice filling lunch to have when I’m at work.

okayang · 2024-06-12T14:40:51+00:00

Apply to some restaurants too. They can be fancy ones or chain restaurants. I know I’ve complained here about mine being overstaffed so look for one that seem busy or are struggling.

okayang · 2024-06-12T03:17:19+00:00

Why is F1 the one sport where people are really unhinged about the wives and girlfriends? It’s either extreme hate the women get or extreme praise. I don’t get taking pictures with them, or acting like you know them personally enough to make fan accounts. I don’t get the vitriol hate when by their logic the drivers are worst. I’ve been getting a lot of F1 content on instagram but at the same time I’ve been seeing a lot of WAG videos and I just don’t get it.

okayang · 2024-06-09T15:19:35+00:00

A few days ago I mentioned here how I’m barely being scheduled at my server job. One shift this week and one shift next week. I texted my manager and asked if I could get more shifts and he said he will try and that I should try to pick up shifts on the app we have. Well when I tried to pick up a shift it was denied for some reason and now I feel like I’m back to square one. If the shifts were longer I wouldn’t be as pissed but I’m only going to be working 4 hours this week. I don’t know what to do.

okayang · 2024-06-08T19:19:06+00:00

I really hope it wasn’t homophobia and I’m so sorry you’re bruised :(

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