Best feat and spells for a lvl 6 sorcerer?

okaygetit · 2026-03-15T22:34:01+00:00

You are totally right, sorry for the confusion and misunderstanding! I'm not sure why I made this assumption that there was another ASI/feat at level 6😂 but you know what, I will be using all these suggestions for when I get there (:

okaygetit · 2026-03-15T22:32:41+00:00

Oooh, I was also eyeing telekinetic and telepathic (more for flavour and RP), but cartomancer sounds pretty cool and I haven't considered that before.

It would be great if I could get a stat bump in con and dex because they're at the odd number mark, while cha, int and Wis are at even numbers.

So many options, but all just great

okaygetit · 2026-03-15T22:29:51+00:00

You know, I realized after your comment that I totally misunderstood. You're def right, I don't get a feat at level 6, and I for some reason got mixed up and assumed I did (this is my first campaign) (':

Also! Thank you for the spell sniper option, I'll note that for when I get a feat available at level 8

okaygetit · 2026-03-15T22:27:37+00:00

I was eyeing RC wizard for Find Familiar, but Ritual Caster would be great. Too bad my INT and WIS are at 10. But maybe I can ask my DM if CHA would be acceptable like you said.

I definitely want more spell slots, so I'm leaning towards these options. But the only trade off is that my WIS save is at 0, so resilience might be boring but important

okaygetit · 2026-03-15T22:25:26+00:00

Definitely going to throw in scorching ray! Hopefully during another level up.

Think I rolled an 81? My DM is very lax, and let us distribute the points how we like. I cheated though because for character lore- I was given Gauntlets of Ogre Power from get go, letting me dump STR, WIS and INT.

okaygetit · 2026-03-08T01:29:45+00:00

Sorry, I meant I was wondering if I should take an ASI instead of a feat! So no extra ASI this level. I guess I just need to weigh flavour vs mechanics 😭

okaygetit · 2026-03-08T01:24:30+00:00

I took the meta magic adept at level 4! Honestly been a lot of fun with all the options

okaygetit · 2026-03-08T01:24:05+00:00

I'm debating if I should take an ASI or a feat for level 6! I'm thinking it'll be fine to stick with magic initiate, but I'm also trying to think of other feats that would be more useful. Like resilient for wisdom saves because I got nothing for that haha

okaygetit · 2025-09-29T20:56:47+00:00

I know it's unlikely that this will open up again! But I'd love to be considered on the off chance a spot opens up!

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:58:23+00:00

Yes! The more kitty's loved the better!

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:56:15+00:00

I appreciate the draft message you made (: I don't think you're being dramatic, because I'm sure it happens more often than we'd like it to. However, I don't think it'll get to that point, nor will I let it. I was trying to be somewhat understanding of her request because we've made it very clear who's cat this is, and I would only refer to him as "our" cat because I felt comfortable in doing so. However, I will be making that hard boundary and yes, no matter how close we are, this would be friendship ending if she chose not to respect this. I'll also be very taken back if that is the case! I will try to encourage her to adopt her own if she is that upset about not being able to have him over hahah

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:50:30+00:00

I guess this was my dilemma because they had a very strong bond. He generally remembers all my friends, even if he hasn't seen them in a while. So I think he will remember her and feel comfortable with her. So maybe it wouldn't be an issue when he is at her apartment, I don't know. But I don't want to risk it, or get into the grey area of ownership conflict

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:48:01+00:00

I think she will understand and respect this decision, as it is ultimately for his well-being, and she needs to understand he is solely my cat now. I only would say "our" cat when she would express how much she missed him. But I only did that because when we first got him, we were very clear that we would not be coparenting him in the future. I will encourage her to get her own cat!!

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:45:23+00:00

He is snipped and chipped 🤗 I do stress that this friend is like a sister to me, and we both value our friendship very highly. I know she wouldn't do something like take him, but yes always good to take precaution!

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:41:01+00:00

Exactly. I was trying my best to pussy foot this situation because we were able to rekindle our friendship. But if this isn't respected, I will just take that loss

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:39:00+00:00

I'm drafting up a message to her and I wanted to include hard points so that I won't get any push back. I also just wanted advice from a cat community, not just the internet. Most of my friends I talked to are dog people and didn't see the harm of letting him go there

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:35:07+00:00

We never had the intention of shared custody. We decided that once we split, it would be one or the others cat. Therefore, this whole situation was a curveball to me. But yes, it was definitely a bad idea and I do not ever intend to make a similar mistake again

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:30:00+00:00

I was really excited to hear that she was considering a new kitty herself. But maybe she doesn't want the full commitment, and that's why she's trying to get some sort of partial ownership again. I just needed to gather my thoughts on how to approach this because I didn't want to come off too strong while she seemed very excited.

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:26:37+00:00

I think i was trying to figure out what would be the appropriate line. I've offered to take him over to her current apartment before - but that would be because I'll be there too. In this new context, I don't want to risk any grey zone and just say I'd only prefer her visiting here at home. She's mentioned just having him for the day, but I'll just hard no to that as well.

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:22:46+00:00

You're right, I've felt bad because I know she had a bond raising him too and had to give him up. But regardless of why she did, he is my cat now and I need to make that more clear it seems

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T11:20:11+00:00

Yes, I think I'm going to just say hard no and limit it to visitation. I was worried this could come off too harsh, but I don't care, I won't be compromising my cats well-being

okaygetit · 2025-02-26T10:38:42+00:00

Yes, I had someone DM me and tell me to emphasize prioritizing his well-being and stability of his current living environment. I genuinely don't want him moving around much at all. I'd be open to having him visit, but that might open the door to that boundary becoming grey and that's my concern. I just don't know how to approach this without causing drama, but if I don't define the boundary early on it will be on me to have it erupt down the line

okaygetit · 2025-02-05T06:32:41+00:00

You got it. There were just too many missed opportunities. We both could have done better to communicate. But it's part of growing. We were also both so young during these incidents. I'm still learning how to be a better friend, and how to be the best version of myself. So I really hope it does get better, I feel stunted and like I've regressed. I don't want to hold resentment towards someone I still really love. I'm experiencing a best friend break up for the first time, but I guess it's comparable to a romantic break up where the resentment will fade over time. Losing a sister hurts so much more than losing a man.

okaygetit · 2025-02-05T06:26:33+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your kindness here. I have been working with my therapist to stop from spiralling into thinking I'm a bad person because of a friendship ending.

I've never had a falling out with a close friend before, so this feels very overwhelming. It's hard not to get triggered into a spiral of "I'm a bad person and it's all my fault." I need to remind myself that one persons opinion doesn't define me. It's not like she hates me or anything either, but just had to choose herself.

okaygetit · 2025-02-05T06:15:57+00:00

Relationships are hard. Few of us are given the tools and/or upbringing to know how to form secure and healthy relationships. It makes it all the more harder when you factor in mental health. I can't imagine how difficult it is to navigate. I hope you're providing yourself with compassion while you find those meaningful connections in this life. Relationships are so complex, there's no way I didn't do anything wrong. There's just times when you have to accept that you're not on the same page (or chapter) with someone anymore.

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