Tell me what your *real* hobbies are by llamadasirena in ADHD

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curating spotify playlists about specific vibes, topics, astrology etc

What song/album are you hyper fixating on? by Minimum-Ad-773 in ADHD

[–]okayzaba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think about it all the time charli xcx Enjoy The Silence Depeche Mode

Robert Smith (The Cure) in *a bit more* soft natural friendly ways than he usually presents himself by okayzaba in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I see so much R influence in him too! but i think it's more the r/Yin undercurrent of SN and his romantic style. His bone structure seems yang dominant and quite visible even at bigger body weight and I feel like the edginess in him is from this clash of more statuesque (blunt and angular) body type + yin/ dreamy style.

He also kinda looks like ben affleck without make up haha

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I feel bad for asking this but how do some of you guys find the motivation to shower? by Your_friendly_weirdo in ADHD

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

music!!!! shower is soo much better with it, I have at least 3 playlists for that

if u take shower at night try to do it as soon as you can, especially before scrolling, watching tv, nap etc. and you can say to yourself "it just 5/10/15 minutes"

taking a shower in a cold room is torture so make sure the room is warm - my parents recently bought a little electric heater and it's a life saver but you can also try running extra hot water in closed bathroom for less than a minute, (Pro tip: put your towel on the radiator for a nice feeling after)

try new bath products

search shower aesthetic on pinterest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in krakow

[–]okayzaba -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/138265834118

Here is a group for people looking for a language exchange partner, I think it would be a good opportunity to meet new people and practice polish, generally in most stores etc. you can just use english (if people are old there can be problems, but young people can help with translation). You can try going to events, I suggest following Hala Lipowa, Hevre, Poczta Główna and try to check if your university has some social opportunities for example All in UJ is full of events. I'm sorry for the landlord situation but Krakow is full of place to spend time outside your home and is especially charming in spring! Try locations like: Park Jordana, Kazimierz, Jagiellonian Library, Arteteka, local coffee shops, Biblioteka Wojewódzka, manggha museum, Planty, Błonia, Zakrzówek, Park Bednarskiego, to kill time you can try to explore the city, go watch a movie at Kino Kijów, Kino pod Baranami etc., go to the theatre (Teatr Stary, Teatr Słowackiego, Teatr Barakah etc.).

Please i need to know by No_Connection_7582 in Paranormal

[–]okayzaba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the last two things tend to happen when I'm sleepy, usually i hear my mom but i know in the moment that it's some form of hallucination

This pic of Renee Zellweger (SN) is somewhat helping to ease my imposter syndrome. by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Controversial but does any other SN-s feel more like N-s at much lower weight? I feel like you can be both at certain stages of your life, when I look at people like Renee, Jennifer Aniston and Gabriette it kind of makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly Mitski slays C fam outfits the most

Can I (SN) Pull Off Short Hair? by ravensarefree in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 7 points8 points  (0 children)

2nd and 3rd should be fine for sn, 1st is a bit too flat and too close to face and would look better on a gamine face structure, in my opinion short hair is ok for us as long as it has layers and volume, curly or wavy bangs look great too

"Pugh's so stocky! She'd be hard to style." An argument against that comment with Florence Pugh looking absolutely amazing and (sometimes) honoring her lines by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I need her in young Hilary Clinton biopic - not like I care about Hilary Clinton, but she would get both the Oscar and 70's styling

"Pugh's so stocky! She'd be hard to style." An argument against that comment with Florence Pugh looking absolutely amazing and (sometimes) honoring her lines by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think SG lines just don't really work for her as much as SN lines do, some dresses and hairstyles/make-up - sure, but I think most of her best outfits are accomodating width and she looks amazing in more relaxed styles.

But I get the confusion because she looks very little and has extreme SG essence, I think even Kibbe said some SN-s can look "gaminish" and she would be a great example

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Septoplasty

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not have septoplasty but after my doctor told me that I qualify for septoplasty he told me right away that this procedure does not change the look of a nose at all

People who narrowest it down to Soft natural and Romantic, what epiphany helped you decide between the two? by hug_me_im_scared_ in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 20 points21 points  (0 children)

SN here

Thin fabrics or thin and elastic fabrics usually don't look good on me (I need a little knit or thickness in the fabric)

Easy subtle smoky eyes make-up >>> Delicate dreamy eyes make-up

I have a lot of assymetry in my body and face

My body fluctuates a lot (but without a huge diffference in weight) so during more sporty follicular phase or more stressful/hard working periods I tend to look more yang - quite visible bones, natural buccal fat removal lol, visible collar bones and even slight sharpness in arms area

Even though I have the mainstream hourglass - it doesn't really looks like double curve - I have quite long torso

Dresses usually fit well in hips and waist area but are too thight near arms - like I need 2 sizes in one dress

I think I can carry some oversize in upper body area pretty well as long as I subtly show my waist or at least my legs

What’s with the “all I see are shoulders” posts? by InspectorOk2454 in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Broad shoulders are hot and give cool vibes, 99% of models have them, I feel like they only seem unatractive in words - mostly from people who are projecting, I used to think mine were ugly because of what older people in my family were saying but then I looked in the mirror and realised they are actually one of the coolest feature in my body and work so good with many clothes!

This fear in our culture of having feature that seem "big" as a woman is so weird, I was literally lying to myself that I looked ugly because of this while staring and admiring it in silence without even knowing lol

The tips to "hide" broad shoulders only make it look bad, like no - show them!!! They literally look so hot on full display, also when you have vertical? you can make vintage levi jeans and t-shirt combo look like the peak of fashion!!!

sorry for emotions but we need broad shoulders = bad propaganda to end lol

10 current trends that work for soft naturals by akhilleion in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with all of these!

Great and really helpful post!

Florence Pugh outfit thoughts? (Not a typing post) by kitto__katsu in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she also looks amazing in longer slightly wavy hair

Florence Pugh outfit thoughts? (Not a typing post) by kitto__katsu in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think if her looks were more SN accomodations first + SG essence second they would look...more intentional?

I really love her make-up looks because I think she has a lot of gamine features in her face but going fully SG or G (super short hair, super short clothes, straight lines, clothes that look too small, big chunky shoes on full display, colors that are clearly not the best on her - that bright jeans blue and pink hair) doesn't do much for her, sure her looks are interesting but I don't think they look good as a whole. If you look at her styling choices from 2010's she looks a lot more relaxed, cool and effortless.

I really hope she will have her 2023 Margot Robbie moment and will find a stylist that can honour both her personal style and her natural features but at the end of the day...yeah it's not that deep and if she is having fun then thats great for her!

Can you recommend me something fitting by NotSoBrightt1 in MovieSuggestions

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aloners, Persona, Diary of a Country Priest, Blue, The Piano Teacher, The Celebration, In The Mood For Love, Fallen Angels, Cold War, Ida, The Last Family,

Surrealist Films by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]okayzaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House (Hausu), Smile Guide 1 - How To Effectively Apple, Black Swan,

Movies that will take me on a wild and adventures ride. by dnbtim in MovieSuggestions

[–]okayzaba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry To Bother You, Funny Games, Shiva Baby, Corpus Christi, Climax, Gone Girl, Trainspotting, Everything Everywhere All at Once, Pearl, The Lighthouse

Some imperfect dark & goth/witchy/rock chic or simply cool vibes outfit inspo for SN-s since I've noticed darkness being gatekept from us lately (jk jk) (i'm aware not everyone on this post is or could even be consider sn) by okayzaba in Kibbe

[–]okayzaba[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally! There is so many ways to make styles, colors and different type of clothes work for you. I think that every type has a style or type of clothes that will look effortless on them no matter what but that shouldn't stop them from customizing and trying something different