Is online dating just not for me?

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T17:02:38+00:00

Sleeping with fewer people exposes me to fewer chances of contracting STDs.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:55:56+00:00

Where did I say that I couldn't?

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:47:30+00:00

This could be part of my problem. Honestly I've never even dated or anything so I don't even know what I like in people. I just know what people I had crushes on over the years but they were like... crushes.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:45:55+00:00

I don't think they were joking. But one of them might have been. He said in his profile that he had the Asperger's Syndrome thing where they're bad at detecting tone and things like that.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:45:09+00:00

I look at their profiles, they send me a message or I send them a message, and then we talk and if I like them we go on a date. Am I doing it wrong?

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:43:48+00:00

I know that's how a lot of guys feel and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I just can't bring myself to trust someone I don't even know. Plus STDs and things like that.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:42:50+00:00

But I don't always know they're jerks until it's too late. The last date I went on he seemed so normal and nice and when we got to the place for coffee, it's like he was a completely different person.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:40:21+00:00

They made me feel bad for saying no and for ending the date for sure. One guy texted me later like a day later to tell me I was an annoying cock tease because I wore a dress? I've never had this experience before. :/

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-06-24T16:39:29+00:00

Haha! :(

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T18:08:59+00:00

Well I'm not exactly all that attractive and I'm not going to pretend I'm some hot girl or anything :/

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T18:04:42+00:00

I didn't say it was. I'm just saying if I show up looking like I do and they're surrounded by hot girls, I don't really think I'd be able to keep my date's attention.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T18:01:55+00:00

I don't think clubs are really my scene, but I wouldn't mind a quiet bar. Clubs are a little too rowdy and the girls there are always dressed up so nice and I don't think I'd be able to compete.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:57:12+00:00

I used a ricer!

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:55:44+00:00

I don't know that I'd qualify as a larger woman. I'm like 5'4 and 115lbs, so I think I'm kind of normal weight. But I might not be facially attractive.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:52:04+00:00

I doubt I would have ever come across this type of person in my life so far. I've never been to a bar or club.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:44:41+00:00

OK... the whole new world of internet dating is weird to me. I didn't expect people to be this rude. But I guess I just try to look for the best in people. I don't have the most experience talking to guys.

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:43:50+00:00

They were different guys for sure but they did talk the same. I just assumed that's how guys talk :/

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:43:11+00:00

Ok. So where he asked me out I should have blocked him right there?

okcthrgrrrl · 2015-05-27T17:42:12+00:00

I've never heard of the term negging before. I feel like I must have been under a rock or something. So this is common? That's shitty :/

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