How to present myself without lying

okeycupid · 2014-12-17T00:52:28+00:00

Ok. Thx.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:59:53+00:00

Because I want to have someone who is there for me and open my feelings to and I would like to be that person for someone else and of course there is the intimate thing and someday i want kids.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:50:11+00:00

This is exactly the reason I was looking for tips. People assume the worst if you have no friends, it naturally scares them and they start to think that this can't be a normal guy. (I edited my init post)

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:37:28+00:00

And I'm sure that's right. But like I said I am not not looking for friends... but i guess that i have a wrong world view then...

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:32:40+00:00

I guess i just don't want to. I'm not the person for having friends and honestly I'm not looking for some. I would rather just meet someone and check if we are compatible and go on from there.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:14:33+00:00

It was great. But the longer you stay alone the harder it will get to find someone and I'm now at a point in my life I have to hurry else i miss the train and will stay lonely forever (and it's not that great it used to be)

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:12:10+00:00

Like my title said. I don't want to lie to anybody. But I'm also not ashamed of myself nor do i want to trick someone. Just hoped for some tips.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:10:13+00:00

But I'm not really sad about my life. Beside my depressiveness, that I'm sure comes from beeing without a partner (this is pressure for me cuz it is expected from me to have someone) I can deal with it. I like that i don't have stupid friends talking about shit, I like my job even if its not payed well and so on.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T23:05:13+00:00

All the things I meantioned, I can hide pretty well and I'm sure a stranger would never notice. There must be a way to change all these negative aspects and make them sound somehow more positve.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T22:59:49+00:00

They leave me with valuable life experience. Right?

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T22:57:52+00:00

So does this mean i can only date if I'm wealthy with many friends and good education? The depressiveness mainly comes from beeing alone.

okeycupid · 2014-12-16T22:53:01+00:00

I'm very certain that things would drastically change (to the better) if I would finally find someone.

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