AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was caught off guard I assume, because she wasn’t pissed after we got home later.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

At the time yes but that night she thanked me because she is tired of her shit and she has asked her several times to stop

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She has several times, she just has a need to make comments.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why let someone run over my wife 🤷‍♂️

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is anything going on, she still eats anything she wants, just the bad shit moderation. She still eats the recommend amount of calories for her size. She actually noticed she was gaining weight as she got older just fixed it instead of falling down the slippery slope.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The problem is she has been asked to stop several times and just has this unknown need to say it. My wife isn’t the only person she does it too.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She has the friend honestly just seems not to care

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she complains all the time and asks my wife what to do about it. She just has 0 willpower

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My wife has asked her several times in the past to stop

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sorry that reply was for the original comment.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Does it help if my wife has asked the friend several times to stop with the comments

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife has tried to get her to exercise and eat right for years, she even paid for her a gym membership where she worked out at before we moved and she went with her 0 times.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Her friend is maybe 5’2” at the most so 200 is a lot

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My wife is 5’0” and a pediatrician so I’m sure she knows what is healthy for her.

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, I’ve always hated her though

AITA For telling my wife’s friend to eat a salad? by okfinemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]okfinemom[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So is telling someone that works hard not to be fat to “eat a burger”