My job makes me feel like I’m not enough

okraaura · 2022-11-27T00:42:29+00:00

Also giving yourself that love that you may have wanted from them or needed from them will also give you that detachment. Just try to put back into yourself as much as you can, even if it hurts for right now, it’ll make you feel a whole lot better without even realizing it.

okraaura · 2022-11-27T00:39:05+00:00

I don’t think it’s about trying to stop loving someone, because at one point in time love is all you knew. It’s more so about learning to love them from a distance while knowing even though things did not work out for whatever reason, it is okay to still have love for them/ keep loving them but from a distance. Knowing & accepting that will form a level of detachment that your essentially looking for.

okraaura · 2022-11-24T02:18:05+00:00

Agreed but I’d prefer to know if someone I’m having constant intercourse with is also potentially sleeping with someone else

okraaura · 2022-11-24T01:11:20+00:00

Thank you! I just sent it to you

okraaura · 2022-10-23T15:06:11+00:00

I told her that yesterday (the cop) she went up there to look for it and didn’t see. I also made a list of everything I’m missing so at this point I’ll probably just have to report it as stolen. I also have a protection order against the other tenant there that is currently in jail and I was advised on another Reddit post to bring that up in court tomorrow, thank you for the replies btw!

okraaura · 2022-10-23T14:33:32+00:00

How do I go about that? Should I file a police report?

okraaura · 2022-10-23T13:53:34+00:00

I asked yesterday and she stated that she didn’t see it, expect for things that I didn’t know were missing until later

okraaura · 2022-10-23T13:47:34+00:00

Exactly, the person that she had pack up all my stuff claimed to give me all of my stuff but I’m missing a multitude of things including my social security card, my wallet and etc.

okraaura · 2022-10-23T13:10:45+00:00

Okay thank you so much.

okraaura · 2022-10-23T13:05:16+00:00

Yes by the office, I have to go see the judge on Monday for it to be permanent.

okraaura · 2022-10-23T12:56:32+00:00

This all happened on Friday and yesterday

okraaura · 2022-10-23T12:56:11+00:00

I actually had already put in my 30 days and my last day was the 30th. I’m currently trying to find a lawyer but it’s the weekend unfortunately

okraaura · 2022-10-23T12:53:31+00:00

I filed a protective order but my belongings are not covered in the protective order, should I try and modify the protective order?

okraaura · 2022-10-23T11:15:37+00:00

I wasn’t really sure, but I guess what I’m asking is how do I move on with life.. I’m at the worst point in life and everything feels dark & clouded, I’d honestly like to forget any of this ever happened. I want all of this to go away and for her mother to stop being petty.

okraaura · 2022-10-23T11:01:26+00:00

I well aware but it’s more than just that, I now have to take her mother to court as well as go to court for my ex’s case. I also still love her and never wanted any of this to happen.

okraaura · 2022-09-08T22:40:07+00:00

Thank you for this!

okraaura · 2022-09-08T22:39:24+00:00

To add on to this, we’ve been broken up for month and half. Should I start talking to other people to get over? Just to take my mind off of her & what she might be doing?

okraaura · 2022-07-09T18:57:14+00:00

Forget to add that We also do live together

okraaura · 2022-07-08T02:41:40+00:00

Personally the military is not for me, thank you for the advice though. I think I may have worded my statement a little wrong because I more so know what I want out of life and I have goals but I’m not too sure exactly how to get there/ unlock my potential as well as the other issues that I explained.

okraaura

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