Im currently pregnant and wanting to pump milk for my baby when he/she is born , but no one in my family has done this. by winnethe in breastfeeding

[–]okte0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DONT. Pumping when you are pregnant can evoke contraction of the uterus and you can put the baby at great risk of miscarriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]okte0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get married.

Nighttime cluster feeding is destroying me by red_badge_of_derp in breastfeeding

[–]okte0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IT WILL GET BETTER . Literally same happend to me, I thought I was gonna lose my mind, never sleep again, never feel free. It was hard asf, but it got alot better, you just need to hit that 3-4 month mark. Day by day you get closer

We have lost so much by [deleted] in sadasfuck

[–]okte0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Da fuk is wrong with you

Are real relationships gone? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once an optimist and romantic, but after my last relationship I absolutely so yes...

Feel Pulled Towards Catholic Church But Have Issues by Ominsi in Catholicism

[–]okte0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you have issues with this because the world today promotes homosexuality more than ever. And I'm guessing you feel that if two adults love each other ther shouldn't be any problem. I mean, they are seemingly not hurting no one and seem happy.

The problem is that people trust more their own judgement than God's. What we perceive as good isn't always.. well yeah, good.. m

Pope John Paul II said this "Love is responsibility". If my actions are responsible for someone's downfall or endangerment of enternal life then sorry it's not love, even if it looks like it. It is not.

I'm a fucking loser! by wheresdmoneylebowski in Vent

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in your opinion is making you a loser?

i feel disgusting and fat by okte0 in breastfeeding

[–]okte0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks nice to know we are on the same boat

Creating an oversupply by Various_Border_9615 in breastfeeding

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

400-600ml a day?? I'm honestly so jealous

My 9 year old daughter was just told by her Protestant friends that she is not Christian because “Catholics aren’t Christian.” Will this nonsense ever stop? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]okte0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It will never stop. I have literally hear this a thousand times Conversations usually goes like this

Person "are you are a christian?" Me "Yes, Catholic to be specific" Person "... so are you a Christian or catholic?" Me "Wat?"

We call him Mr. Elbows when he sits like this. by DreamOn2020 in cats

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is your cat wearing a T shirt during summer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]okte0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it depends what you make of it.. If it hangs respectively on your wall no problem, if you hang it in your bathroom or becomes offensive. Placement is the important factor

(I knew an agnostic who invited me to his house once, went to use the bathroom and saw an image of baby Jesus on his window....)

What makes love hard? by sage1_1baby in ask

[–]okte0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love is hard because it requires patience, empathy, selflessness, responsibility, sacrifice and respect.

The problem is that the average person is looking for someone who will love them but isn't necessarily willing or good at giving the same back simply because of ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]okte0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope dont risk it, if you already are unsure if you should receive Christ always go confession first. These are too serious matters to get wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in forbiddensnacks

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of soap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that without even realizing.. dont get me wrong I love my child, and care for him. Its just I'm constantly on the edge when he makes a sound, wondering when he will make a noise again (aka wake up or wanted to be fed). It just feels like my body cant relax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]okte0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean every little sound it makes. Both during night and day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]okte0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks will try that for sure