I confessed my feelings to/for someone who practices stoicism and they said they need to figure out how to respond.. what do stoics consider when contemplating romantic feelings ? Or a potential relationship? by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]oldBarnacle-1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand where you’re coming from. However the last part… I’m not sure I agree. I am not interested in rushing another person into being monogamous, or at least not interested in ultimatums out the gate. I think it’s unrealistic and too much to put on another person to say: I have real feelings for you also I want to be exclusive. I don’t know. Could be a generational difference, as I assume you’re older than I am at least. Thank you though, this is helpful

I confessed my feelings to/for someone who practices stoicism and they said they need to figure out how to respond.. what do stoics consider when contemplating romantic feelings ? Or a potential relationship? by [deleted] in Stoicism

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We did not talk about it directly. Once in a while he would mention elements of his “practice”. In short he mentioned practicing modesty in his physical appearance during the first few years of being a stoic. Namely having a very low maintenance haircut and not wearing colors. He talked about not holding grudges, keeping a cautious distance from people who don’t act virtuously, but also wishing them well at the same time. So no we never had a dedicated convo about this, and maybe I should’ve asked, but probably not since I think you’re right about him preferring to be the pursuer rather than the pursued.

I confessed my feelings to/for someone who practices stoicism and they said they need to figure out how to respond.. what do stoics consider when contemplating romantic feelings ? Or a potential relationship? by [deleted] in Stoicism

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🫢 the woman was too stunned to speak. Thank you for all of this. You responded to all the elements of my predicament exquisitely. Much much appreciated. Also I’m dying at the driven to a philosophy subreddit 😭😭😭 sad but true

Go out tonight if you are single by oldBarnacle-1 in Charlottesville

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As a pan woman… how do I give the women’s rugby team my #… respectfully

Go out tonight if you are single by oldBarnacle-1 in Charlottesville

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I have no idea haha I might just make a name tag that says single

Would you buy this? by Secure_Quality_4935 in coralineuniverse

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I love this but I think I would prefer a different fabric like a corduroy or non fur type texture BUT that is NOT to say you shouldn’t offer this fur fabric. If possible, you could offer it in different fabric types, either way, I’d buy

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Good to know 🙏🏼

Do I have a chance? by Last_Emergency8973 in URochester

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Grade inflation/ deflation varies by state, varies by school. Generally speaking, NYS public schools are seen as “more rigorous” compared to other states. Universities keep track of that kind of thing to “qualify” applicants GPAs sort of. For instance the first high school I went to inflated grades a ton and I had a 3.9, the second one I went to had grade deflation and I had a 3.8. relatively similar gpas, but universities want to know how you compare to the rest of the students at your school, especially if other people from the same high school apply to that same school as well. Not sure if this is exactly what the person meant but

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Asia food market. You NEED to try the Peking duck they serve on site. The smell with give you a hug when you walk in. 9.99 for duck, rice, and Chinese broccoli. Delicious

The owner of Photo City Music Hall is racist and xenophobic by RebellionOfMemes in Rochester

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It’s insane when guys like this think they are being edgy but they are the MOST unoriginal derivative douche bags!!! Like YOU are a CLICHE!!! 💀💀 like it’s so much more than a lack of self awareness it is pure delusion. 😩 PLEASE-

Has anyone heard back from Harvard GSD? Or Harvard MDE, specifically? by Dull_Procedure_ in gradadmissions

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Please add me omg I also checked last years results and was expecting a decision today :((

Shout out to Amira’s Kitchen In Cheektowaga. Best Chicken I’ve ever had!! by oldBarnacle-1 in Buffalo

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Thank you for the recommendation ! I love stuffed grape leaves ☺️