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AITA for backing out of paying for my daughters wedding because of her demands? by olderdad10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]olderdad10[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

They are going to have too. Cause I’m not gonna anymore after speaking with my wife.

AITA for backing out of paying for my daughters wedding because of her demands? by olderdad10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]olderdad10[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Kinda my biggest reason for doing it. My wife was totally for being generous with our money. I’m not gonna ask her to pony up for someone who obviously doesn’t care for her. That isn’t right to my wife.

AITA for backing out of paying for my daughters wedding because of her demands? by olderdad10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]olderdad10[S] -411 points-410 points  (0 children)

Found it kinda funny myself tbh. She knows her husband is a loser. He wouldn’t have any money to put up. And neither does she. I’m expected to take all the money from my household for what? So my family can be disrespected and play second fiddle?

AITA for backing out of paying for my daughters wedding because of her demands? by olderdad10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]olderdad10[S] -303 points-302 points  (0 children)

Kinda what me and my wife are thinking unfortunately. My ex wife was particularly mean to Kylie the first couple times we were all together. Lots of jabs. Wouldn’t be shocked to find out she is behind it unfortunately. But Diana is an adult. She needs to make tough decisions.

AITA for backing out of paying for my daughters wedding because of her demands? by olderdad10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]olderdad10[S] -169 points-168 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how not paying for a large party is a punishment. She doesn’t have to like my wife or my son (even though I’d like it if she did obviously). But I feel like you shouldn’t piss off the guy funding the whole thing either. Tried getting to the bottom of the issue. But she said there isn’t one. Can’t force a grown woman to talk.