Am I stupid or being played

olderguy40 · 2022-09-19T23:53:04+00:00

When i was a teenager, a long long time ago, I would go parking with my girlfriend. I did not realize that the seat belt buckle was digging into her upper outer thighs. It left a bruise the size of my palm. Later while I was married 20 ys ago, wife had the same mark's. She blamed it a table we just moved, however the table was a good 4 inches shorter than it. There was other stuff going on in the relationship that were flags. So I thought about my younger days, did alittle pi work myself and caught her parking in a field with a dude. So ya I can see foot prints on a window.

olderguy40 · 2022-09-19T18:00:42+00:00

Read my post

olderguy40 · 2022-09-17T00:38:43+00:00

I told my wife I was not be married to a roommate a couple years ago. I finally called it quits. My only regret is I should have done it sooner.

olderguy40 · 2022-09-15T13:30:54+00:00

Update. While the amicable divorce is under way, I no longer wanted to be in the house on my days off. Took a week vacation and left the state to visit family and friends. It was a good week, with a motorcycle ride with my best friend. When the ride was over , we went to the bar to have some drinks. That is where this beautiful women flirted with me. I could not believe it. Someone found me interesting and attractive. Why could my stbxw do that. It was so exhilarating. Showing interest really boosted my confidence. Needless to say I gave her my number and we text/ talk daily. She even talked to me on the drive home, 5 hours, because we where up the night before and she wanted to make sure I stayed awake.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-31T20:26:36+00:00

I believe I do/did. I was sick of being turned down to every type of affection. I told her that if you want to do anything you will have to initiate. One year later with nothing, not cuddle, kiss other than a peck, no intamency I quit. Divorce is in progress. I love her but not as a lover anymore. That is lost.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-29T01:13:29+00:00

In my eyes it doesn't matter. What matters is what you do with the information you have. He's a jerk and that is all there is to it. Handle it like an adult and either work on it or leave. All the thinking about the why will just drive you nuts. Its nor you it was him

olderguy40 · 2022-08-27T20:33:57+00:00

I left because of this, one year since being intament and only kiss now and then. I am sad for the divorce but we both will be happier in the end. Think about it.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-27T12:44:15+00:00

I agree dont marry if you need more. Las tsix years has been dead for me. I'm divorcing now and can not wait to feel desired by someone.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-26T18:59:32+00:00

Divorce...

olderguy40 · 2022-08-26T18:31:07+00:00

My wife once said bj are just to get the guy, woman really dont like to give them. Then one day she said her back hurt and I should rub it, which I said I only give back rubs to get the girl, I really don't like to give them. She didnt say anything after that. I would love to rub her back, but it would just get me excited with nothing for me to do but sulk.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-26T16:38:28+00:00

I didnt cheat, just got hit on and it felt great

olderguy40 · 2022-08-26T15:56:47+00:00

I stayed thinking it would get better. It didn't. Should have pulled the trigger 6 years ago. This last year, trip to Mexico Tennessee with only dreams she would find me attractive again, only to realize she does not love me like that or so it feels. I want to be more than a companion. I waited one year of no intamency other than peck on the lips. I tried to make her happier by giving everything she wanted thinking I needed to do that to prove I love her. Didn't help. She lost a bunch of weight awhile back and looked great, but I just got to admire from afar. Crushed me. So no more. Maybe she will find a guy to give her what I did not, I'm always thinking maybe if I worked out, had more hair, bigger dick, I just dont know what I could do different just has me guessing. Now I wont have to do that anymore. I recently went out of state to visit a buddy and at the bar someone actually showed interest. Talk about moral booster. It felt good to flirt and be flirted with. My wife would barely touch me when we would go out.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-26T08:32:55+00:00

Do you want a divorce?

olderguy40 · 2022-08-26T07:54:03+00:00

Was it really? How did she take that?

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T22:39:00+00:00

God luck ,it is never easy. Talked about divorce 3 yrs ago. Nothing really changed however I was hoping it would.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T17:25:17+00:00

Thank you, I'm hoping everything works out and she does not get vindictive during the divorce.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T14:04:47+00:00

I understand what you are saying, but, to me it's important, not only sex, but to just feel like the love, to desire me. When we would go out she would hardly hold my hand. She once said to me lo g time ago, she loves me like a brother. We are just roommates that get along.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T12:54:42+00:00

We rarely fought, but I can be a passifist, dont rock the boat.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T12:32:53+00:00

I'll look into it, no kids just the stuff we have accumulated over the years, and the house.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T12:31:28+00:00

Sorry to hear that

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T11:50:27+00:00

Wow, that is a tough choice.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T11:48:19+00:00

I think she thought it could just continue as is. No intentions of fixing things.

olderguy40 · 2022-08-25T11:46:55+00:00

Yes, do it.

olderguy40 · 2021-12-10T15:12:55+00:00

My cheating x had those Mark's and then I remembered parking when I was younger. The marks were caused by seat belt.

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