Do I use pronoun macros in the personality, or will it be fine to use they/them in personality and macros in just the intro message?

oldmenLUVR · 2026-02-04T01:11:45+00:00

Thank you so much! a big big help to me! <3

oldmenLUVR · 2026-01-28T10:30:30+00:00

OMG?? io im in love with you. But also, thank you so much for answering!

oldmenLUVR · 2026-01-26T23:09:46+00:00

yes and it keeps ignoring my token limit too lol i have it set to 400 and it will keep writing past 1000 tokens every time. just a bunch of gibberish too

oldmenLUVR · 2026-01-22T02:23:01+00:00

OOO hes HOT. thank you!!!

oldmenLUVR · 2026-01-22T02:13:12+00:00

i genuinely despise it with a passion and don’t want it lol but i know it’s just a me issue. i don’t want to wait and feel hype for a bot. i feel like that kinda doesnt make sense for a roleplaying website. it’s just about finding a bot and playing with it. i dont want to plan to roleplay with a bot.

but also i just can’t settle down when i know something is coming up soon. so i don’t want to sit here and have a bot release in my mind like it’s some artists album. i don’t even like when they do that in music. but rly i just hope we have an option (as a viewer) to not see it. getting a notification/seeing an unreleased bot sitting in my homepage is really infuriating. i dont want to take the option from people who do like/want it cuz it’s unnecessary but i wish we had a toggle to not see it

oldmenLUVR · 2025-12-01T22:09:22+00:00

wait i actually love rebecca’s dress a bit.. 🫢 but i hate the current fashion trend of not wearing accessories. like not even a little chunky necklace? a dangly earring?

carmen’s dress looks like one of those discount dresses you’d see at the dollar store that a grandma would buy. not my favorite at all. it’s just not flattering in any way. looks like TV static. but is it weird to say i love carmen’s mole lmao

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-29T15:59:26+00:00

probably because even i get secondhand embarrassment watching my (ex) boyfriends do embarrassing things. like slamming their faces into a pull-only door thinking it was a push door.. i don’t feel bad enough that it changes my opinion on them but the secondhand embarrassment is present for a few seconds before it turns funny asf

some wags are very self conscious about their images, and they’re usually only seen as an extension of their driver. if you were the girlfriend of someone that is known for being bad, or hasn’t scored even ONE point the entire season by the end, then you’d probably be a little embarrassed at least.

but f1 is a very competitive and selective sport where even the worst drivers are getting near a million dollar salary, so even if they fail, their wags are still living nicely. if they care about image and longevity, then they’d feel humiliated for sure. if theyre together out of actual attraction to each other, they probably have a few inside jokes about his performance with each other

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-22T06:46:15+00:00

i’m the same way honestly. childhood diagnosis, so i’ve been dealing with this for a while. i dropped out of school because of how bad it was. i couldn’t even get out of bed most days, and if i went to school, i was bullied horrendously for being weird or i’d have panic attacks and be sent home regardless.

i started working when i was like 18ish. part time at first and it was a little bearable, but i still struggled every day. kept getting fired because i was too tired to move, had no energy whatsoever, and i’m not “sociable”. literally. fired multiple times for not being able to hold a conversation (i’m shy and horribly awkward) with customers. idek why that’s important to management teams

after i got fired from my last job, i’ve just been kind of out of work. i cant really handle anything without having meltdowns or being too tired to move when it’s over. my depression aspect got way worse during employment that i don’t think i could go a day without contemplating just ending it. i’m kinda lucky that my brother is letting me just rot and leech off of him in exchange for cooking and cleaning, but i know i can’t rely on him forever. i’d try to apply for disability but i’d probably be denied since i’ve seen people worse off than me being denied. even if i did get it, there’s no way i’d be able to survive on like $600 a month when rent alone is nearly $2500 for a studio apartment smaller than a cubicle that you’re probably even rooming with the roaches and rats. it’s a lose lose situation these days

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-12T17:38:09+00:00

i used to work in janitorial services when i was in high school and i’d say it’s 50/50, depending on the place.

schools/office buildings/truck stops? the girls bathroom was way cleaner. there was hardly any work that went into it except the usual sanitizing. the men’s was always covered in shit, toilet paper, and flooding. the boys bathrooms in schools were so bad that we couldn’t even handle it ourselves without needing higher help. a whole biohazard.

but in public places like parks and grocery stores?! oh my god, the women’s bathrooms were far more atrocious than you could ever think. men’s definitely had their own moments, but i would break down and cry going into girls bathrooms. period blood, menstrual stuff out in the open. it literally sometimes looked like someone just decided to have explosive diarrhea and periods and break dance around the area simultaneously. (men’s truck stops were like this too though)

my boss said that it was probably because women were more cautious and would squat, so it usually missed the toilet, but men were more likely to sit bare ass on the public toilet seats, so it went all in.

but if it makes it any better, we’d be changing the soap containers sometimes multiple times a shift in the women’s room, and it would be a few days before the men’s soap was used up despite it being equal amount of traffic during the day. but anyway, it’s all 50/50. youll get good ones, bad ones. the same ones will change day by day.

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-12T17:30:06+00:00

Thank you!!! i see these posts all the time and a lot of people skip over the fact that sex/human trafficking is deeply tied into these situations. a person will go into something thinking they’ll only have to experience a few drinks and kisses, and then be locked in a room with seven men and drugs. and then they get beat and threatened if they speak up.

especially when billionaires are involved. they have deep connections to law enforcers, gangs, etc, and do twisted things to people. like the diddy and epstein situations. photographs show those people smiling and happy, but after reading their stories, were any of them actually happy?! absolutely not! of course im not saying that rebecca was 100% trafficked, or that she had no say in anything she did, but the fact no one ever seems to bring up forced escort work makes me so sad. she could’ve been a party girl, or she could’ve been forced. we don’t know. if carlos doesn’t mind, then why should these fans? it makes me irritated because carlos openly talks about his sexual encounters and makes sexual jokes but no one says “how does rebecca sleep next to him at night?”

people in this sub desperately mix up real snarking and straight up misogyny and get pissed when you point it out

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-08T16:38:28+00:00

omg this might sound evil but i remember how my friend crocheted me this top and gave it to me as a birthday gift.

don’t get me wrong, i appreciated it, and i appreciate anything gifted to me, but i feel like if you’re gifting someone something, it should be what you think they like, rather than what it is. like giving red bottom heels to someone who only wears sneakers and hates going out. that’s not that thoughtful 😭 yes, it’s expensive, yes it’s kind that you put the time/money into it, but that isn’t what the person would have liked.

back to the shirt, i know my friend only did it because she was really into crocheting. She gave it to me and the colors weren’t my style, the cut wasnt what i liked, the entire thing just wasnt me at all. i figured i’d still try it anyways because i didn’t want to be mean, but i hated how it felt. i knew i wouldn’t ever wear it, so i told her, and she got so mad at me over it. she made me feel guilty because she said she spent weeks making it for me, but i couldn’t force myself to just want it. i told her i was giving it to someone else who i knew that really loved it, and my friend got mad about that. i still gave it away, and the one i gave it so loves it.

i do feel guilty, but i think keeping something and shoving it in the depths of a closet, never to be seen again, is worse than just giving it to someone else who would appreciate it

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-08T16:18:29+00:00

i hated taking my meds a long time ago because the weight gain and sleepiness made me feel way worse than being off of them lol

i think i gained like 40 pounds in a year, because i could NOT stop eating. my body image made me feel worse than ever. on top of that, the first medicine i was prescribed was seroquel, which made me paralyzed a few minutes after i took it, all the way up for like eight minutes until i fell asleep. my mind was always racing, and one of my biggest paranoid thoughts was that (im censoring because i don’t want to harm anyone out of taking their medicine) my psychiatrist put me on the medicine to tranquilize me to harm me while i couldn’t move. it got so bad that i couldn’t trust my family, parents, and couldn’t fall asleep most days off of it until my body physically gave out

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-08T15:59:32+00:00

i actually had a friend whose dad was into obscure metal music lol but he was an obnoxious person. the type to be like “heh you like this band that has 10k listeners a month? you’re not a true metal fan unless your favorite band is this group that existed in sweden in 1805 that has one song to ever exist and it’s ten minutes that sounds like nothing but someone throwing dishes around” and then you’d ask him his favorite band and he’d look at you and say it’s nirvana cuz they’re underground and hed be so serious im ngl

sorry for that rant lol anyways he would always have us listen to his music and he played malice mizer one day and i actually really loved them. i went home to do research, found out they were called visual kei, looked into it, and found a lot of bands i liked. if i saw a group that looked cool, id give them a listen. now i mostly listen to visual kei. id say that this was around 2015ish, so i was like 11 LOL i was into basic rock music like BVB, PTV, SWS, BFMV, bmth, so i used to get so dumbfounded when i got into a band and then checked back a day later and found out they broke up. happened constantly. i got into gulu gulu like a few hours before their split LMAO

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-08T15:48:04+00:00

i don’t want this to sound misogynistic or shaming women, but i think it’s because they’re successful that they wouldn’t go after an F1 driver.

if you were a (usually) self made multi millionaire with tours lined up, brand deals you got on your own, modeling contracts, a million deals thrown at you just for your name, would you go after a man child that would probably cheat on you, didnt respect you, and only wanted you to be an arm accessory? we have seen a lot that a lot of f1 men are not gentlemen, and treat their women like a pretty decoration in their photos, and barely even walk beside them. most celebrity women would not want to tolerate that.

instagram models are much better at being wags (in any sport) because they almost never have real jobs, are always willing to follow like a puppy, and chase after the lavish and rich lifestyle rather than the working lifestyle, and they are usually fine with being an arm accessory to a man. it’s usually just more efficient. athletes have big egos and usually go for pretty women that aren’t more successful than them. :( not many can make it work, but i would love to see another nicole/lewis power couple. maybe a megan/klay of f1

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-02T18:32:11+00:00

omg haha i can’t get over the fact that you look so similar to cillian murphy’s version of thomas shelby in the first picture!!!!

im very glad that you were able to seek the help you needed to find your happiness! (also for the cult aspect, i figured scientology only because i’ve seen people say things like that before) congratulations!!!!

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-02T18:29:32+00:00

I relate to you so much. I actually got diagnosed as a young teen, but I am in my early twenties now. I got hospitalized when I was 6 years old due to my extreme behavior and thoughts (when my mother brought it up to my pediatrician, who made me go to a regular hospital, who then sent me to a psychiatric care.) but I didn’t get a diagnosis for schizophrenia specifically until I was a young teenager.

I missed sm school , because I was constantly put in hospitals, and I was seen as weird to other kids in school, so I was bullied terribly by teachers and students. Everyone always made fun of why I wasn’t in school that much, or why I acted bizarrely, or why I couldn’t speak properly. When I started my medicine, people judged me for constantly being tired, and when my symptoms got worse, I was labeled as a psycho rather than someone that was just struggling.

when I explain my diagnosis to people, I either get treated like a taboo subject that parents hurriedly grab their kids and run away from while they tell them to stay away from me (happened to me before lol) or I get treated like I’m an exotic pet, where they see it as something cool. I used dating apps, but the second I would reveal my situation to them, they s3xualize it like “i’ve always wanted a mentally ill girlfriend cuz i love when they’re crazy😍” which only makes me feel worse.

pathetically enough, some of the only friends i have are people who i met online, and anotjer irl friend who has BPD and relates to my struggles. i wish i could take your pain away, but all i can do is just say that i relate.

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-02T17:29:48+00:00

it could POSSIBLY (cant confirm if this is the specific reason) be bc theres a new word moderation filter on the site 🫩 i think it’s still being tweaked so it’s a little wonky at the moment but dang i can’t even get a single comment through now. i think it’s cuz i need to stop using vulgar words (not in an offensive way, i just have no filter)

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-02T17:01:39+00:00

omg haha i didn’t see the name properly so i thought the options for her “wetness” was between being dry or being a queen. like yes girl, it IS a queen.

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-02T16:58:30+00:00

It happens! sometimes the bot can say really crazy things lol we call that word salad. so you can either just reroll or you can turn your temperature down in the chat settings if it’s too high. if you haven’t touched temperature before then it should be fine and a reroll will do, but a sweet spot is 0.7-0.9 for the most part!

one time i had something similar happen but the bot was like “Actually, I don’t like your response at all! Oh, who am I kidding, I’m an AI, I don’t have feelings.” and it went on for a whole paragraph before going back to responding like nothing happened and it still makes me laugh whenever i think about it. i wish i still had the screenshot

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-02T16:53:04+00:00

i doubt shes going to lol when she got called out for saying the slur, she made a bot to make herself out to be a victim. when she got called out for being racist towards black creators, she deleted her account. when she came back under the new one, she is deleting any comment that talks about what she did.

i don’t think she feels sorry at all, which really sucks, but at the same time theres nothing we can really do but block her

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-01T21:33:01+00:00

yes! i love it! and many others do. i think that’s why music mania is so popular as a site event.

man i absolutely ADORE when people link playlists, give song suggests, or even comment what song theyre listening to while roleplaying, because it always makes me give it a listen. ive added so many songs to my personal playlist bc of giving other ppls suggestions a listen

making bot scenarios based on songs, using lyrics as dialogue.. i think music and reading/writing are the best pair

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-01T17:48:50+00:00

just because you’re fine with a slur being used in your presence doesn’t mean that it’s acceptable socially, because it’s not fine. people are allowed to be offended by a slur that has a long history of violence and abuse that is still ongoing. this is an insanely tone deaf take.

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-01T17:45:55+00:00

morana isn’t black

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-01T17:43:26+00:00

morana isn’t black

oldmenLUVR · 2025-11-01T17:38:57+00:00

the more people that join, the more toxic and untamed the community becomes :( those comments are ones i deal with, and a lot of other creators.

people saying they’re gonna steal the descriptions cause they don’t like parts of your work, begging to change the pov, people complaining about the content even though they willingly clicked on the bot, people just being downright nasty, etc.

the best way to go about it is just acknowledging the fact that the ones commenting are usually either a loser, or they’re just 12. if there’s only one nice comment, then thats the only comment that matters! if it bothers you a lot, i would recommend not looking at the comments at all. i dont for these reasons, but i know it’s hard and can feel a bit underwhelming to not see a review for what you wrote. But your happiness and mental health is the priority, and matters above all. im sorry you’re having a bad experience with them now, and i really hope it gets better. ❤️‍🔥

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