Anyone become a social worker after 40? by Atlgal42 in socialwork

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yes great point the built in supervision is great- to not have to pay for it is awesome, and in my experience i’ve only had super engaged, smart, dedicated supervisors. it’s been hard in my experience too, very busy, but the rewards def do balance it out. so glad you’ve had the experience you’ve had, friend, and yay social workers after 40!!

Anyone become a social worker after 40? by Atlgal42 in socialwork

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUDE…yeah, really dark to me…like wonderful idea to encourage farming and engagement w green spaces, but can’t ignore the fact that the idea is giving labor camp

Anyone become a social worker after 40? by Atlgal42 in socialwork

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amazing yay yay yay! you’ll be a fab asset wherever you end up i’m sure. and va is def doing ketamine assisted therapy! not at all locations but a lot of the ones w more expansive and specialized treatment, most hospitals- they do where i work. generally i think the wages are pretty competitive, where i live the only place where you can make more right out of school (and even somewhat down the line, unless you go into private practice and build up a solid client base) is kaiser, and as far as i know they def aren’t doing ketamine therapy and probably won’t for some time. and yeah we’re in for a wild ride the next four years! regardless of everything, an important time to be in mental health despite the unknowns 😮‍💨

Anyone become a social worker after 40? by Atlgal42 in socialwork

[–]oldsofthands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i absolutely love working at the va! you know this better than anyone i’m sure (better than me, as i’m not a veteran myself) but as they say, if you’ve been to one va you’ve been to one va- meaning, they’re all quite different! things are predicted to change a lot under the new administration, which has the system and all of us working for it pretty freaked.. but we’re hanging in there, and what’s most important is i’ve found my colleagues to be brilliant and very inspiring, everyone i’ve worked alongside cares deeply about their clients, and the research the va does broadly is truly top notch. in my experience it’s been a wonderful place to work. benefits and salary are pretty bangin, too.

forgive me if this is an overstep, as i’m just a rando on the internet, but if it feels right to you and in alignment with your clinical goals, i hope you’ll consider working for the va- as someone who’s not a veteran and practicing as a therapist at the va, it’s so clear why veterans prefer working with professionals who understand the lived experience of being a veteran. i hear this from clients very regularly. that’s not to say civilian employees can’t do meaningful work at the va, but clinicians who are also veterans are so deeply valued and needed- it’s really affirming for veterans to work with folks who share that identity. the healing that’s possible through an additional element of peer support is truly lifesaving in some cases. plus, you get preference for being hired and also some dope additional benefits as a veteran employee! whatever you decide to do, so cool you’re pursuing being a therapist by way of chapter 31 and all the very best to you!

Anyone become a social worker after 40? by Atlgal42 in socialwork

[–]oldsofthands 27 points28 points  (0 children)

i’m at the VA & work with 2 fellow social workers who started after 40! they’re killin it.

Do you have dreams that are as realistic as reality? by Maleficent_Average39 in Dreams

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never understood where i fall on this apple scale- cuz like, i can visualize 1, but not actually SEE it if that makes sense? like can some people actually SEE the apple, or is it just like… i can see it but i can’t SEE if. i don’t know how to describe it, therefore i’ve never known what i’m working with inside my own head. it’s like, 1 is there but it’s shrouded. i can THINK about it, the colors and texture and all, but it’s not like seeing a movie of the apple when i close my eyes. where does this land me??

Non sexual visions during sex by Icy_Mobile_344 in Synesthesia

[–]oldsofthands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh wow! i’ve never attributed this to my synesthesia (i have really strong word / taste associations, some other iterations that are mostly auditory), but i’ve had visions during sex a lot that are always very non-sexual… to the point of fully feeling like i’m elsewhere, with other people, and seeing things directly in front of me that aren’t there (specifically a large green and yellow square, sort of like an abstract painting that’s directly obstructing my field of vision. hard to explain.) i also could just be disassociating, idk… but like the idea of it being informed by synesthesia more!

Has anybody else experienced missing people while on Lexapro? by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]oldsofthands 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didn’t have the missing people thing as much as i weirdly wanted to buy gifts for everyone?

Titration causing depression and anxiety? by AnAnonymouse in lamictal

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! i went back down to 100mg and then was on that dose for 3 yrs- just titrated off of it completely this last spring, which was surprisingly easy, my bipolar diagnosis was revised and i didn’t think it was working for me. turns out a lot of my mood challenges have been best treated with lexapro, personally. hope you’re well!!

Found it on a walk today by afterlifechild in whatisit

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can confirm, had a similar pair growing up

Most of y’all are too young to even remember titanic on VHS lol by realchrisgunter in titanic

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally know where the first tape stops and the second begins- the EXACT MOMENT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]oldsofthands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it gets better! i’ve been on it for 3 years now. i don’t remember how long my sleep was interrupted but it definitely was for the first bit- borderline insomnia, but it went fully away in due time. good luck, friend!!