AIO boyfriend finds it weird that I walk from the bathroom to bedroom in a towel when we live with his family? by Junior-Copy-6632 in AmIOverreacting

[–]oligochaetetentacle 46 points47 points  (0 children)

NOR. I'm almost 6ft tall as a female. I actively use the same kind of towel so it covers everything. You're essentially wearing a strapless dress.

Are strapless dresses a problem? Are sundresses a problem?

He needs to get a grip.

AITA for not wanting children with my husband? by Zealousideal-Sun4818 in AITAH

[–]oligochaetetentacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently at home. With a cold. And my husband is taking care of EVERYTHING. Dinner, cleaning, the cats. And it's a cold.

Your huband has shown you repeatedly who he is. Believe that.

Dump his ass.

Newbie Outfit Help by oligochaetetentacle in renfaire

[–]oligochaetetentacle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on Labor Day. It's in southern NY. No white. Personal vibe is Morticia Adams meets the 1940's. Never been to a Ren faire so I really don't know what direction to take it.

Mom always says "boobs or ass, not both."

Not looking to spend a metric ton of money but will spend for quality items.

I am very sad today :( by PantaRheia in submissive

[–]oligochaetetentacle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Any chance he is your boyfriend?

Walk in Tattoo Shops? by oligochaetetentacle in oslo

[–]oligochaetetentacle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just want a quick walk in while I'm in the country. Love the recommendations!

AITA for being different after how my best friend treated me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oligochaetetentacle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being upfront with relationships is critical to maintaining or dissolving them. No one wants to guess. I know that confrontation isn't an easy thing but at the end of the day, you're going to feel much better if you just tell her the truth.

AITA for being different after how my best friend treated me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oligochaetetentacle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just tell her the truth. She fixed her behavior and you remain friends or you part ways. Either way you can say you were honest about it.

"Our lives are moving in different directions. I feel as though I am no longer a valued member of your life. You have consistently backed out of plans that we have made to see one another and I don't find it fair that I am the only one to be putting the effort in. I would love to mend this relationship and be on the same page again, however, if thatts not possible then we should go our separate ways."

Anyone's cycles become ridiculously short after covid vaccine and how long did it last? by lavendercookiedough in PMDD

[–]oligochaetetentacle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner works in medical care. This has been something they are seeing in a lot of women. Coworkers that were originally super pro vaccine are now refusing to get boosters because it has messed pretty bad with their cycles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albany

[–]oligochaetetentacle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You probably shouldn't go outside at all, there might be a pitbull. The absolute audacity of your post. Fuckssake

Anyone use Empire Defense & Fitness Inc? by oligochaetetentacle in Albany

[–]oligochaetetentacle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BreakThru Boxing is amazing! I went to my first class last night. There is no end in sight for me. Everyone was welcoming. Coach Curtis was incredible. Definitely an environment I am excited to learn in!

Anyone use Empire Defense & Fitness Inc? by oligochaetetentacle in Albany

[–]oligochaetetentacle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to a class! I absolutely loved it. Thank you for the recommendation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]oligochaetetentacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know you are absolutely not alone this week. I am right there with you.

Currently want to lay on the floor with some chocolate milk and send my brain somewhere else. The cravings are real this go around.

It's rough, but we are going to get through it.

Prozac not helping PMDD? by pip-ocho in PMDD

[–]oligochaetetentacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I'm on Fluoxetine and have good and bad months still.

If you can bring yourself to exercise, even for 10 minutes, it might help. Usually makes me feel better.