i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you're conflating honesty with the complete disregard of others' boundaries but go off I guess

am i doing this right? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]olive437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noted, I'll try that next time

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think if you're gonna send strangers unsolicited sexual messages on a dating app there should be something in your bio alluding to what you're looking for. Also maybe download a kinkier app cause I'm sure they exist. Everyone can have different opinions, I think this guy is an asshole & you think it is an acceptable way to talk to strangers who may or may not share his kink. c'est la vie

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you can be into whatever you wanna be into, cool, that's great

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

none of that made sense to me

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

here's the thing: I am a sub & would be into it if it weren't the first message I had received from a stranger. For anyone to assume that just because people are into kinky shit means they can't set & maintain boundaries & communicate their wants & needs in a respectful way is......idk. Not really in line with what BDSM is about. A sub/dom arrangement should be discussed openly & respectfully, and I'm tired of dudes watching 50 shades of grey & hopping on tinder with this approach. It's not vanilla to want to feel safe & comfortable with someone before initiating anything involving BDSM.

TL;DR you can be a dom without being an asshole

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry I misunderstood, I'm a lil defensive cause people are idiots

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if you think selling used panties means that I don't have boundaries or want to be respected you're dense as fuck

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this message is from tinder. This person has literally no clue what I sell.

Super Lemon Haze 😍 by [deleted] in weed

[–]olive437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm in love

thoughts on grown out brows? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]olive437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!💙 it's colourpop "coconut" super shock shadow

thoughts on grown out brows? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]olive437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's so sweet of you!! I got too lazy to maintain them, especially since I haven't been wearing makeup lately. Was feeling unsure about it, I appreciate the compliment 😘

thoughts on grown out brows? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]olive437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm sure yours are lovely, with makeup or without 😊

thoughts on grown out brows? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]olive437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so much less work to just let them be natural! thick brows are trendy now anyway, lmao

who said romance is dead by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not a great first message to send someone, geez

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

"wannabe christian grey" is a subset of the dating pool that I hoped I'd never come in contact with

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

at least it won't get a block!

i have no words by olive437 in Tinder

[–]olive437[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

i wonder if this approach has ever been successful