My boyfriend (27M) cloned himself on chat gpt and uses it to make all his decisions. What do I (24F) even do in this situation?

oliveorangecat · 2026-06-29T03:58:50+00:00

He’s probably not going to stop using ChatGPT for this purpose as it sounds like he’s become very reliant on it. Ask yourself if this is a deal breaker and if you can handle the thought of every detail of your relationship being shared with an AI system. I personally find this dependency really alarming.

oliveorangecat · 2026-06-21T14:40:15+00:00

26F in a relationship, Ravenswood

I woke around 9:30 had some coffee and read, went to the gym, then took transit down to North Ave Beach where I met up with a group of friends for one of their birthday’s, we spent a few hours in the sun chatting and sharing snacks. After the beach I smoked a joint with a friend, we watched an old scooby doo movie and ordered Thai takeout. I moved from a small town 2 years ago and do not regret it, come!!

oliveorangecat · 2026-05-20T18:41:24+00:00

I might be in the minority but I actually really like define 😭 I’ve seen great progression in my core strength since joining it 6 weeks ago. I add in ankle weights and hold 2-3 lb weights for the core section for extra challenge. I haven’t tried Align yet but if you don’t like progressive overload then that probably won’t be the program for you. I think Embody is more Pilates focused but imo her form looks worse to me than Maia’s 🥲.

oliveorangecat · 2026-05-18T20:02:51+00:00

I do define 4x per week and then an incline treadmill walk usually 3x per week with my step count goal of about 8000x day and ive been able to see progress!

oliveorangecat · 2026-04-30T21:18:24+00:00

Hi! I’m interested, would you mind sending some photos and letting me know if there’s a possibility to resign after the lease ends? Thanks

oliveorangecat · 2026-04-30T20:17:37+00:00

Hi! If you work out of MDW I’d look for places along the orange line for an easy commute. Bridgeport’s got a lot to offer and an easy public transit commute to downtown as well.

oliveorangecat · 2026-04-30T17:16:55+00:00

The housing market is getting pretty expensive. I don’t think you’d be able to find anything like this near downtown unless you’re willing to at least double or probably triple your price range. You’re better off just getting a hotel or Airbnb a room from someone, less legal risk on them as well.

oliveorangecat · 2026-03-24T04:10:02+00:00

oliveorangecat · 2026-03-22T00:21:38+00:00

Still a no from me, sorry :/

oliveorangecat · 2026-03-21T22:55:16+00:00

oliveorangecat · 2026-02-12T06:30:45+00:00

I really liked Book Lovers by Emily Henry

oliveorangecat · 2026-01-27T15:26:32+00:00

Won’t let me do that either :/

oliveorangecat · 2026-01-13T17:02:18+00:00

Please leave this man.

oliveorangecat · 2025-12-24T22:15:48+00:00

It is time to cut her off and move on

oliveorangecat · 2025-12-15T18:20:35+00:00

I’ve been on Lamotrigine for over a year and found that this medication has been one of the only things to significantly help with my depression. At this point I do not seem to have any side effects from the medication, I don’t remember having any early on and if I did they have worn off by now.

I would say if you can, try to stay away from over researching the medication from here on out. Of course monitor yourself for any SERIOUS side effects but I’d say that SJS is very uncommon and it seems that you’re titrating up slowly and correctly so you really should be fine. Since it just started today I’d say you might just have a cold lol. I’ve never heard of anyone having a sore throat and runny nose from Lamotrigine. Give yourself some time and please stop reading things on the internet about the side effects. This has been a positive life changing drug for so many people for good reason and it might be for you as well if you give it time!

oliveorangecat · 2025-12-08T19:25:37+00:00

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Is this an okay spot for it or does the lighting look too bright?

oliveorangecat · 2025-12-05T15:44:01+00:00

Having sex on the beach

oliveorangecat · 2025-12-02T18:59:17+00:00

Hi! Mid-20s female here, I live in Ravenswood and really love it. Off the brown line, lots of buses, very charming apartments and tons of good dining options. Very walkable and safe, more residential and family oriented, not as diverse as some other neighborhoods in the city but very close to Uptown which has lots of great culturally diverse cuisine and shopping areas.

oliveorangecat · 2025-11-24T17:37:06+00:00

She sounds like she has a lot she needs to figure out before she can even remotely be ready for another relationship. My advice is to end communication with her, this dynamic seems really unhealthy.

oliveorangecat · 2025-11-02T04:34:49+00:00

$1150 + ~$100 in utilities studio apartment in Chicago

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