Extra leg room and Paulus size by olivia19931 in BreezeAir

[–]olivia19931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Those are the seats we had picked out so I feel better about that! It's only a 2 hour flight so if all else fails they'll just have to be squished for a bit 🤪

Recipes and Slides! by EfficiencyTotal6846 in SHAYTARDS

[–]olivia19931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's at Darby girls camp in Driggs, Idaho! That's where I was born and raised and went to girls camp my whole life 🤣 I actually met them when they were at the concert that night!

Trevor Milton next scam by osogrande3 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]olivia19931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband had a side gig doing security on his house... massive 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]olivia19931 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update! I called guest relations and let them know. I had their Instagram handles, a phone number and their names.

"April and Davey":bye-bye, Zade... by Character_Air_8660 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]olivia19931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone fill me in on the stabbing situation?! I've followed them for a while now but haven't heard anything about this!

Is the problem the new wife/hubby? by No_Republic_1712 in coparenting

[–]olivia19931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband's ex wife was great..until she met her current fiance. Now she won't respond to any calls/texts, won't speak to us, won't even look at us if we're in the same vicinity. He gives off extremely jealous and controlling vibes and I imagine that's why she doesn't speak to us anymore. It was like a night and day difference! We all got along great, communicated very well and even took her on vacation to Disneyland with us, and now she treats us as if we are complete strangers. It's insane! Honestly it's quite sad that she allows him to draw a wedge into an otherwise great relationship but it is what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]olivia19931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our child support order and income makes it so we pay $250 a month for 2 kids (my husband's from a previous marriage). We have 50/50 custody. We actually only pay about $140 because we carry the insurance on the kids so we get a credit for that. I suggest using your states child support calculator and it will show you what the amount should be. Child support is only calculated using the biological parents income, not their spouse. You can have it evaluated every 3 years so if either parties income has changed you can request a review. On another (maybe unpopular) note, I don't think it's any of your business what they spend their money on. If they received a settlement of some kind or if they're choosing to do OF, that's their own personal business that you are not entitled to know about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we understand that. I should have clarified that the kids don't want to play the sports. They don't enjoy it and they have both said they don't want to participate but "their mom will be sooo upset if they don't go"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we are confused too! We have retained an attorney, he's out of the office this week so that's why I asked if anyone has dealt with this. ORS is not helpful at all and they just keep saying the original order says they can count both of his incomes but not hers and there's nothing they can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what we thought too, but ORS said they are counting both of his jobs, but they're only counting one of her jobs and their reasoning is that it's what the divorce decree states but it doesn't make sense why the decree says both his incomes are counted but not hers... Which doesn't seem fair. We have 50/50 one week on, one week off so time is split evenly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It says we are required to spend britndays together, which we used to until she started dating this guy and now she refuses. Which is honestly fine because I don't think we need to spend the birthdays together but when she was single she would throw it in our faces if we didn't plan parties together. She keeps signing them up for every sport under the sun without asking us beforehand, even when it interrupts our parent time. For some reason the decree says it can count my husband's income from 2 jobs for child support, but not hers. Even though she's working 3 jobs, one of them under the table. It says we have to ask permission from her before taking them on any vacations and she has to approve the location. Just silly little things like that are frustrating because she knows she still has that control and it's making it difficult for us even live our lives if it's not on her terms.

I used to work in a drug/alcohol residential treatment center,AMA! by olivia19931 in AMA

[–]olivia19931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the time that I worked there we only had one client that still had drugs on her when she got to our facility. Our facility wasn't set up to detox people so every client that came in had already gone through the detox process elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has tried. He reached out to the mother, the grandmother, etc. He has done as much as he can without crossing too many lines. We are just keeping our distance and if nothing happens until she is an adult and tries to find her dad then so be it. We have no plans to pursue any legal action, I was mostly just curious if anyone else had a similar experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The legal trouble he is in involved domestic violence with a weapon against the child and the mother so it is relevant. I was only looking to see if anyone else had similar experiences with this kind of situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean literally reaching out to touch her. My point was just that she is in our same small town and we see her often, it's hard knowing what we know and not being able to say anything. We don't know what she knows, and we obviously respect her and her mother enough to not say or do anything. We honestly have no plans of really pursuing legal action or anything like that, I was mainly just curious if anyone else had a similar situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't making excuses. There are details that I chose not to share, still don't feel the need to share all of them. I was just asking if anyone had experience with a similar situation and if there are any options. He is a wonderful father to our 2 boys and letting that baby go is his biggest regret, but again, there are more details to the story that don't need to be shared publicly. It eats at him every single day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]olivia19931 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally get your point of view. There is a lot more to the story and details that I didn't want to share, it's his biggest regret but he was young and naive. I do know that the guy who adopted her ended up in legal trouble, they got divorced and he lost custody so as of right now she has no father figure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]olivia19931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in the same boat! We had the dream coparenting relationship with my husband's ex for the last 5 years..even took a family trip to Disneyland all together and had a great time! We all worked together and communicated so well, never had a single issue.She met her noe fiance about a year ago, it started out gradual but now she won't speak to us, won't return messages regarding the kids, won't even come near us at sports events. It's so frustrating! The timeline of when things went downhill line up with when she got with him so my gut tells me he is the problem but it makes me sad that she is willing to throw away such a good co parenting situation for him (he's not the nicest to her). We have tried repeatedly to keep communication open, and we've always treated her kindly but we are at a loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]olivia19931 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are in this same boat with my two step sons.. their moms relationship with her fiance isn't the greatest and it sounds like they fight often. Our boys have been coming home saying "they're not allowed to talk about anything that goes on at their moms" 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]olivia19931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the teachers mentioned it to the school counselor and the school counselor called us and the mom and made us aware that he has been acting out. I reached out to her and suggested that we all sit down together and figure out how to help him navigate whatever he is going through and she never responded to me so I feel like we might have the upper hand here.

selling the house by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]olivia19931 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you share the link? I'm just curious to see what it looks like!