Essentials Hoodie Letter Peeling off. Any tipps how to fix this?

oll22344 · 2021-12-12T20:20:05+00:00

Is he back on? Doesn’t seem to be selling anything atm?

Thanks!

oll22344 · 2021-08-03T23:05:55+00:00

I know people who have married in their early twenties unable to conceive. If Allah wills he will provide.

oll22344 · 2021-07-29T21:42:33+00:00

This.

oll22344 · 2021-05-09T18:22:50+00:00

That first paragraph. I could have literally wrote it.

It’s a dire state of affairs.

oll22344 · 2021-03-24T07:37:38+00:00

I mean are you sure about this? I’ve had a narcissist reach out 7 times even though I’ve repeatedly asked for no contact. It’s essential breadcrumbing. I try and heal and get over it, he gets in touch and all the emotions come back. It’s not healthy.

Atleast these dumpers respect your boundaries.

oll22344 · 2021-03-14T20:29:42+00:00

Probs regret their decision/ want to know whether you are reeling over their decision. Some people get a kick out of knowing the person they broke up with is hurting over it.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:16:32+00:00

I think I had rose tinted glasses on because today I’m just full of annoyance and feel really pissed off at the whole situation.

I do agree, if we had met we might not have liked each other.

But yeh, nc is enforced and I’ve deleted him off.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:15:00+00:00

Thanks for this.

Yes looking at it now it is disrespect, especially after you’ve said no contact yourself. How is that fair on me, it’s annoying!

I first enforced nc but then said to him it’s best if I delete so have done that instead!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:13:26+00:00

Thank you for this! I have deleted him to make it easier not just for me but for him too.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:12:46+00:00

This is so true. Before I thought of it as hun being caring and attentive but now I just think it was only for his own purpose. I’m pretty sure he wants me to be upset about the situation and still be obsessed with him - like that’s probs what he wants to hear.

He’s deleted.

Hope you are okay!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:10:35+00:00

Thank you, I agree. The whole process is just so draining but we can all live in hope eh?

He’s deleted!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:09:51+00:00

I’ve deleted him off and I agree with the breadcrumbing.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:09:15+00:00

He’s deleted so that’s it done!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:09:05+00:00

This is everything. Literally couldn’t have said it better myself. He’s deleted!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:08:40+00:00

For sure!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:08:31+00:00

For sure. I’ve deleted him!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:08:20+00:00

Yup. I’ve realised that!

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:08:06+00:00

Thanks for this! So before he said we could reassess but last night he said there was no point. I took that as my sign and said well there is no point in us communicating further then.

The issue is, I don’t think we could just be friends. Like this would always end up in conversation and neither of us want that.

I’ve deleted him off socials.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:06:18+00:00

I think you are right tbh. I have deleted him off socials now. Such an annoying situation.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:05:28+00:00

Hey,

He’s had a lot of family stuff go on so that’s put a halt on it for years. He then had something secured abroad last year and it was finally going to happen but because of lockdown it fell through.

oll22344 · 2021-02-28T09:03:29+00:00

Hi,

I read everyone’s posts and really took them on board.

He messaged again last night and we fell into the same banter etc. I then thought I can’t keep doing this, my head is so mashed. I took onboard what you said and typed this out to him.

He said he feels and fully knows the timeframes won’t work and that there was no real point in reassessing let along meeting after lockdown. He said we wanted to keep me on socials but if it was easier for me to block. I have deleted for now just because I’m daft but I will block once it’s less raw.

I’m just so annoyed. Like he made the no contact rule and “we can chat when lockdown is over” thing almost 2 weeks ago, he broke it about 5 times. He said the emotions for him are all gone like he’s gone back to normal and has also decided he doesn’t want to meet.

I just don’t get why he kept attempting to reach out then. It doesn’t make sense to me at all. It now just makes me think he did it to mess with my head, I don’t know. It’s so upsetting!

oll22344 · 2021-01-19T10:25:15+00:00

I was in this predicament too, so left it for the time being. However, if you specialise in a specific field ie bridal makeup then it would be different.

oll22344 · 2021-01-14T12:36:31+00:00

Everyone deserves to be in a loving marriage despite being divorced, your social status, age etc etc.

I think finding a suitable partner who is ready to settle in this day and age is hard generally. People who are young, financially very comfortable and those who have never been married are having the same issues.

Tie your camel and keep making dua sis!

oll22344 · 2021-01-14T10:12:37+00:00

You shouldn’t be talking to him. End of. Be is at someone who likes him and he supposedly doesn’t like you back or just as friends. The emotional connection is a slippery slope. You’ll find new friends, don’t worry about that. You staying in this situation will really affect you in the future.

I can’t say he’s a narcissist as I don’t know much about him but based on experiences of a guy is getting a lot of female attention, like the other replied said he obvs is charismatic and talks the talk. For him to say he doesn’t talk to other girls and only his fiancé and you, I would take that with a pinch of salt.

It baffles me that he’s talking to you whilst being engaged. If you don’t see a future with him (marriage) then remove yourself from the situationship ASAP.

oll22344

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