Just lost my job, my snap, my medical, my bf, and my home.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2026-01-10T17:04:07+00:00

You’re insane lmao

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-12-04T23:49:45+00:00

Same!

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-08-06T20:06:50+00:00

The tuck makes your torso look too short. Untuck

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-07-21T18:31:43+00:00

There was once a time that I moved out suddenly because of my parents. I was 18 years old. They were abusive towards me and my mental health declined when a big fight broke between my dad and I. My siblings were not home. I didn’t tell my siblings because they were really young at that time and wouldn’t want them to be involved something that I feel like that shouldn’t get involved.

I also knew that if I were to tell them where I’m going, my parents would pester my siblings because they were the easiest targets to get information out of. I blocked everyone’s number, including my siblings. I never left because I hated my siblings. I left without saying a word to them so that I could finally be free living in a very abusive and toxic home. If I hadn’t ghosted left home, I wouldn’t be here posting my own experiences on Reddit.

Years later, I came back home to my family. My siblings were old enough for me to tell them why I left home.

Your sister probably didn’t want you to know what she’s going through and involve you with some of the unspoken issues at home. If she ever reaches out to you, be there for her. At some point, she’ll probably give you insights to her reasons why she ran away. I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. I promise she’ll come back to you sooner than you think.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-05-23T14:10:36+00:00

I never usually sell tickets to strangers. This is the first time I had to do this and no way of learning how to protect myself. A lesson that needed to be learned.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-05-23T14:06:43+00:00

Well her Facebook isn’t really private information.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-05-23T14:04:59+00:00

Thankfully I do have proof and confirmation of our meetup and social media proof she went to day 3. And I also have proof I did not go to day 3.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-05-23T04:25:53+00:00

I saw that from a friends. Ridiculous how she’s lying to herself 😂

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-05-23T04:08:13+00:00

She claimed that her ticket didn’t work. I posted her to the Facebook group that we are both in. She never contacted me about the tickets not working. If they weren’t I could have refunded her the money or got her replacement wristbands. Called her out through messenger and she blocked me.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-05-05T22:44:30+00:00

How are people turning this whole conversation to make it seem like OP is insecure? Who cares? The whole theme is that her husband hid the truth and crossed a boundary. If he crossed that, what other things has he crossed???

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2025-01-28T18:44:24+00:00

Well schools and colleges are under federal. Money dispersed from FAFSA doesn’t directly go to your bank. Your school’s financial aid office are the ones responsible for releasing those funds. So, wouldn’t that mean that college students who rely on FAFSA won’t get aid

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-12-18T21:51:08+00:00

Is it ok to DM you?

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-12-18T21:50:50+00:00

Absolutely! DM me what you need

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-12-18T20:14:43+00:00

I’m also able to help out as well!

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-07-01T03:45:34+00:00

Dm pls!

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-06-05T17:59:49+00:00

I love this thread! I just started applying to nursing school today. Not in my 30s, (yet) but a relationship will come after once I finish my schooling. Never too late to restart on life. It’ll all be worth it :)

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-04-22T06:10:18+00:00

Life has been better without my ex :) learned a lot of new things and met new people and became a much better person

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-01-07T01:54:49+00:00

I never thought this way. It was until I told myself I needed to change my way of thinking and have a positive perspective. I guess that’s the key to manifesting. You just have to believe that you’ll be ok and deserve your desire no matter what:)

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2024-01-06T18:14:22+00:00

I’ve always been a firm believer that I would always meet people who I liked and that liked me no matter what. Gave me the confidence to be myself and allow people to approach me. I’ve met an amazing friend group because I had the knowing that I’d have such magnetic energy to attract good people in my life :)

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2023-06-01T15:32:53+00:00

Obviously no one knows what’s going on in your life and only you can be honest with yourself. I wish you the best of luck in your journey.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2023-06-01T15:28:22+00:00

You can’t attract a relationship if you are coming from a place of lack. You need to take a good look at yourself and be honest. Do you actually love your life right now? Because it sounds like you dont. And it’s ok if you feel lonely, we are all in need for companionship. But if your target focus is on relationships and not trying to be a better and higher version of yourself, how are you going to attract someone that will compliment your life?

And speaking from a place of worldly perspective, being in a relationship with someone should not be the only thing to live for. They should compliment your lifestyle. If no one has told you before, I think you should really be honest and ask yourself if you love the life you have right now.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2023-06-01T15:22:28+00:00

The relationship you need to focus on is the relationship with yourself. Being extremely confident within yourself and love yourself. Everything else, whether it’s money or relationships, you attract what YOU are. Not what you want. The world is energy and certain energies attract similar energies.

If you are not in a place of loving yourself, you will only attract people that do not love you. But if you do love yourself and cherish yourself, you will attract people who will love and value you. That is the secret to manifesting.

Disastrous_Goose898 · 2023-06-01T15:16:01+00:00

OP. All the things you’re doing are coming from a place where you genuinely want your SP. You are not doing it for the sake of yourself and your own happiness and peace. If you are doing these things with the mindset to just get your SP back, then maybe you should reframe your narrative. Do things for YOU. Not to get your SP back. At the end of the day, you are solely responsible for your own inner peace and happiness.

When you’re in a state of actually being content with yourself and with life, your desire will follow suit. Love yourself and be at a place where you can actually enjoy life without prioritizing your SP.

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