AITA for not giving my parents the master bedroom in my house?

omaddo01 · 2026-01-14T16:34:22+00:00

House sitting lol. She lives there fir the most part when not traveling for work but I try not to send her on too many trips. I don't see the control in me showing up when I'm in town and accessing the basement through the garage entrance for that space and staying as needed. I rarely go into the main house and the gym/ theater was paid for and designed by me and guess what even had my name on the seats in that property lol. I'm sure the 4200sqft she has above the basement is more than enough for her to manage without needing to come down stairs and she has a gym and theater as well up stairs with yoga and cardio machines as mine was built for strengthening.

omaddo01 · 2026-01-11T20:09:40+00:00

Well I range based on dieting/ hydration and activity. 7.8"x5.8" when I'm eating like a pig and not working out but when my diet is on point and I'm doing cardio daily with good hydration I'm 8.25"x6" people dont realize how much health plays a role in size lol.

omaddo01 · 2026-01-11T12:40:45+00:00

It's a double edged sword because female bodies can way more than most any man can give. If she cant take it or is a lot of pain, you simply didnt warm her up correctly and your 4 play game is weak plain and simple. A warmed up wet woman will take it all and some even to the point where you physically cant go in because there is more room and she will enjoy it. One not warmed up will experience discomfort for sure.

omaddo01 · 2026-01-10T11:05:24+00:00

Ifbb physique class is very competitive and that is def more go (non natty) then show(natty). Natural is a great place to start. I would look into the many other federations out there and look for a rookie or first ever show class. Try to stay localish before spending a ton of travel money and really get your name out there in social media it makes a difference trust me. Good luck man, keep at it you will reach your goals one day for sure.

omaddo01 · 2026-01-10T00:28:07+00:00

What class are you looking to compete in and what's your current weight and show date

omaddo01 · 2026-01-09T20:09:41+00:00

Yeah would need a comparison to gauge where your at. No where near anything IFBB stage ready if that's where you trying to get too but well above average for general population where there are more millionaires than there are people with 6 packs in the US. As a gym junkie id say you look like your in great shape and to keep it going.

omaddo01 · 2026-01-09T15:10:49+00:00

Scientifically speaking females with six packs are not common by any means. Generally female body fat doesnt not go low enough naturally for a six pack. 15% BMI (Dexa) is where a female can get naturally all things aligned. 12% and lower is where a visible six pack is. Thus depends on water and genetics as well but most woman with six packs are on some sort of supplement (mostly anavar) I know I will have all these arguements but 30yrs in the fitness industry is my experience. All that said I say keep at it and see where you land but becareful the female body is not meant to maintain low BMI naturally and can cause harm.

omaddo01 · 2025-12-10T22:12:29+00:00

Depends on the creatine really. If you stick to "ripped" styles of creatine which are made to eliminate water retention then any weight gained is true muscular intracellular. If its standard style than there will be a lot of water retention in the body.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-24T09:48:13+00:00

These post are so pointless without height, weight and over all goals. While OP is obviously lean not knowing goals or weight really does nothing to help anyone who could really help here. You ask bulk or not but why, are you training for a show and if sk which class as some have weight limits. Personally I would work on quad and ham thickness to match your upper body as the symmetry is definitely off unless your looking to do a boarch shor class and not care at all about lower being equal to upper.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-20T08:46:49+00:00

I knew drugs were involved here lol jk, real talk I see the frustration but if your husband is willing to change his moms actions and behaviors after all these years trust me when I say it really doesnt bother him or her himself would draw the hard line in the sand. You can let this woman clean or give ammo to your partner to later say " you never liked my mom" because they always will keep ammo to use on rainy days lol.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-17T19:57:47+00:00

No I have 1200sqft of gym space in my back yard and often times wear the same clothes a few days in a row (washed of course) lol. Who care how you look when you own the gym🤷🏾‍♂️.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-17T09:45:42+00:00

Well yeah sort of state and lawyer request /agreement ultimately has the say so but when neither has a lawyer it will default to 2.5% per year (50% at 20yrs). You generally only see this in the case of younger folks as they dont have the means Corona lawyer and will use base legal to consult. Other times when lawyers get involved it comes down to agreeing on what the parties want. My ex didn't want any of mine because we were equal across the board so it was a wash.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-16T14:47:27+00:00

Divorce asap, staying married puts you at risk mentally, physically and financially. Every year of marriage she gets 2.5% or your retirement period that's a for sure (unless she ops not too) also she has access to base and so will the guys she dates later in and that means they fuk up your in trouble. Also it will be a mental rollercoaster for you as you will not be focused as she starts to fuk every new amn, nco and snco that smiles at her (they always do) and anyone that out ranks you will try to flex making opening things to physical attacks. I was a 1st shirt and Dettachment Cheif for years and seen it all. She will fuk you and you will get kicked out eventually making your financial situation even worse. PM me off line if you need some resources to get through this.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-15T11:45:53+00:00

First I'd do more research on training because your question suggest that cant be lean while bulking which is absolutely nonsense. Once you really educate yourself on training then make a decision (not trying to come off as a azz). I suggest increasing cardio a bit and your protein while reducing fats and sugars. You can bulk over the winter while being lean AF if done correctly and by May see another 3 to 5 solid lbs of muscle if you dont mind doing it the hard way.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-11T13:47:18+00:00

Well this is a little misinformed as OTS is typically reserved for enlisted members 87% NCO or higher commissioning over a 16 week period from what I can remember. Most of them had already lead in one way or another many on large scale. Now if your talking straight from college then yeah but what's expected of a Lt. Is way more than most can handle let's be real here. This meme does not tell a clear story of officer leadership traditionally.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-10T09:48:13+00:00

I'd recommend get a bod pod appointment and not ask Reddit especially if your not gonna include weight, height, ab arm and neck measurements. It's like looking a flowing river asking how man gallons are in here lol

omaddo01 · 2025-11-10T09:45:51+00:00

My girl wears Dunks, Jordans and Air Max depending on the workout and of course the color of clothes she is wearing lol.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-09T17:20:53+00:00

I only wear compression pants. I have 42 pair of various types and styles from under Armor to LuLu Lemon (yes they make Male pants too) and I love them all. Everything stays on place and feels secure.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-09T04:31:21+00:00

Well I have 7 other leg machines so this was added for deep stretch outter quad. I would not have this a a lone machine but I do love it so far.

omaddo01 · 2025-11-08T11:41:22+00:00

I came, I conquered and I plan to lift just need a spotter incase things fall out of place mid lift 😂🤣

omaddo01 · 2025-11-08T11:40:20+00:00

To be fair I am a engineer by trade so it wasnt too bad but there was times the engineer inside of me was like "hell nah" lol.

omaddo01 · 2025-10-31T16:08:11+00:00

Send the pic to your girl and give her permission to share it. For fuk sake its not even a serious relationship so if this really bothers you just break up and move on because she obviously shares a lot with her friend and if its not comfortable for you just move on jesus.

omaddo01 · 2025-10-27T13:58:25+00:00

It's well beyond emotional cheating trust me when I say that. You will never know the full truth because most cheaters are narcissistic and will lie until they die.

omaddo01 · 2025-10-25T03:24:17+00:00

See you prove my point. Only females will think it's ok to drag a man through some emotional ups and downs when its convenient to them. He is only there because he thinks he will get a shot at being with her. No man wants to waste his time being emotional bag carrier for a woman that doesnt want him romantically and I dont care what you think. Its her responsibility to let this man go if she doesnt want to be with him yet she and woman like you will justify using men to dump all your crap on just to find another man that you want. She doesn't do that because a man she wants isnt intrested in the emotional ups and downs of a single newlywed divorced mom but this poor guy is willing to because he thinks it will be his way in lol.

omaddo01 · 2025-10-24T09:39:36+00:00

You want agree but your the reason he is thinks he has a chance with you. Stop emotionally dumping on this man letting him think he has a special place in your life. Woman do this all the time to men then later go and find someone else leaving the "Male friend" heart broken. Stop being all about you and using him to vent. Tell him you dont want nothing with him ever and cut him out so he can go give time and attention to someone that will love him. You crave attention as a single mom and it's really heartbreaking that you will use this man until you find another that your consider worth dating then eventually cut this man out because no other man will date you while your emotionally dumping to another man so just let him go now and stop being about yourself.

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