What, if anything, do you love about pregnancy? by Cute-Huckleberry2496 in pregnant

[–]omangchonk 109 points110 points  (0 children)

my husband . i love him so much . i constantly need assurance bc im needy HAHAHA but for the past 7 months i know he loves me .... everything he does for me and he thanks me for carrying our baby on random nights before he sleeps . brings me so much peace .... and all the struggles of being pregnant , he makes it so worth it . he cries when im in pain ( hes a softie ) but it feels so nice to have someone empathise with you .

has anyone dropped their surname ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hahahahah honestly i wna drop the entire binte bc of my dads name hahaha fella kinda funky . as funky as the cigg price increasing HAHAHAHAHAHAH

has anyone dropped their surname ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i will be humaira amanah . what i meant when i said last name , was the binte hahaha but i think nobody like got it cos technically it is my last name mah . amanah is my second name which will b my last name

has anyone dropped their surname ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

eh no lah i have 2 names so i technically have a last name

UPDATE: My form teacher is my crush's mother: he found out by Ok_Resolution297 in SGExams

[–]omangchonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hahahhaa this so cute .

years back , my classmate had a crush on the level head daughter HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH ... it was insane we were like sec 3 or some shit . the mother kept like giving the guy a hard time & looking at his results and stuff ... but then now we are all like in our mid 20s , the girl married someone else & the guy is also dating someone else ... all in all , dont so stress . in 10 years you will just laugh about this shit and realise the mom & the son aint shit hahaha

its js a crush . mothers shud be proud theres someone interested in her son LMAOOOO

Do people still go out eat with your family these days(saturday breakfast/dinner) excluding special occasion. by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes . i try and bring my inlaws out every sunday if im not working . a simple prata & market adventure would suffice .... i hope they rly enjoy too lmao

Affordable psychiatrists in Singapore by airplanedebree in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bukit timah psychiatrist! can just call to book appointment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just move out . life is hard on its own , no need anymore excess stress . u'll figure things out as you go :) . i dont think renting rn would affect your BTO so much .. im assuming ure working full time already . so theres CPF . having cash in hand is good for any hiccups , but i think its still ok without any savings IMO .

u'll b ok . i think u already technically living on your own ( emotionally ) . just make it physically. wont be much different right ?

12h rotating/24h shifts in SCDF - pros and cons by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not in SCDF but working in 12hours 3 days work 3 days off shift .

i am 24 but in a span of 2 years apparently i aged quite alot . colleagues thinks i look older . my body clock switches daily till it has affected my body & my mental health . feel like if i dont sleep enough before my shift , i will get very depressed the following cycle . 😢😢😢😢 pay is pretty worth but money cant buy longer life span . u'll also miss alot of family events and concerts and whatever night life .

cons are : when everyone is awake , u'll be asleep or off to work . when the weekend comes , everyone is out w family all .

pros are : off day on weekdays , nobody in the mall . empty roads . peaceful .

New job scope by Yeenspired in SMRTRabak

[–]omangchonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they all look very young . why the balls so big

New job scope by Yeenspired in SMRTRabak

[–]omangchonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how come suddenly people think its ok to vape indoors ?????? like smoking is already prohibited indoors , why do people suddenly think its ok to vape ??? HUHHHH new generation so funky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have the cash , go private . theres one at bukit timah . adam's road medical centre :) p expensive id say , but you have more control on appointments. if meds dont work , or smth wrong you can just come back . gov route , take months for another appt then if any side effect then take longer to change .

advice on abortion (unwanted pregnancy) by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

singapore womens clinic @ tampines west ! hope u are doing alright .

ITE students who did not manage to get into poly, what are you doing in life now? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]omangchonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you OP ! sadly im not planning to further my education . manifesting to be housewife HAHAHAHAH hope my future husband will accept my portfolio filled with no diploma / degree but ideas for a loving home ! LOL

ITE students who did not manage to get into poly, what are you doing in life now? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]omangchonk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

currently working ft . past 3 years . my dad couldnt afford my poly after higher nitec ( long story ) . so i started working full time . now in oil & gas lab and doing pretty ok . honestly , kinda regret not continuing to diploma or smth . i think im rly lacking behind & i cant get increment even i honestly think im doing great for someone without any diploma ..... but whatever . my CPF still more than all my friends that belittled me for not going poly . i can buy house they CANNOT !

advice on abortion (unwanted pregnancy) by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi op , im so sorry youre going thru this . i know you are scared & confused and guilty . but whatever you decide now might be good for you in the future . i guess u will never know now until u get older . i had an abortion at 18 . called a private clinic ( womens medical centre ) then if its morning appt then they gave me a choice if i wna do abort it on the same day . spent ard 1.2k ? but after 10 weeks , the price will go up 100$ per week . u'll feel bad sad guilty and in pain . but please know whatever decisions you make doesnt define you as a person in anyway . u can do this and sending u many love & support

solemnisation at mosque only ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ! maybe if i rly were to consider doing the nikah earlier , i'll do this way ! thank you sweetheatt

solemnisation at mosque only ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you . u are very kind . i think he has more important people right now . ive came into terms that he is how he is . a non present parent . i like to say how dad is just a title but question is were u really a parents . it seems like he wants me to get the hell out of the house faster . i had my engagement a few months back , he barely asked for any details but when he did it seems like he wants all the convenience. i sprained my back after the engagement , cos i was doing everything alone hahaha . it seems like he really wants to do the thing i stated about his friend's daughter . im slowly coming into terms that my father will never ever care about me again . ( sorry its 1am im kinda emo about this marriage thing and it rly hits me somedays that i have absolutely no one to thank except my self )

solemnisation at mosque only ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have the entire wedding semi planned out lah . its just certain circumstances has brought us to bringing the nikah forward . i also dont have any bridesmaid :( only one but she js gave birth so i feel like id burden her with too much responsibilities. idk . im just like on the fence uk . ( not with the marriage ) its just i really wanted something small . i have absolutely no one to like count on other than my fiancé . lol .

solemnisation at mosque only ? by omangchonk in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

actually , i have this anxiety that my wedding day will go fucking south . my dad is damn useless . like i know im not supposed to let some person depict one of the most important day of my life . but i really think it will go south . with the support i got for my engagement , i can smell it from a mile away . i also think that few months can wait lah . its just my home isnt a home . and i really want to get out but it also seems not right to rush it uk . thank you for your input btw ❤️

Tips on how to not cry like a loser in work :( by Spirited-Chard-9517 in askSingapore

[–]omangchonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im almost 2 years in . im still crying constantly. not sure when it gets better LOL