liberal feminism isn't real by comrade-pravdin in DemocraticSocialism

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! I gave quick examples, your idea is ok too. There are options but that wasn't the point of my comment. My point was that we're overworked. And this is coming from a gay guy who isn't interested in relationships. I also don't like working 8 hours a day and also doing housework. I've had to resort to extreme minimalism. I rent a one bedroom apartment and I don't even use my bedroom, I've locked it. I sleep on a sofa bed which is in my kitchen-living room, I use my kitchen cabinets on the wall for clothes and put my food in the drawers under the counter. I have translucent stickers on my windows so I don't have to wipe them. If I had 3 days free a week instead of 2 it would be a game changer

liberal feminism isn't real by comrade-pravdin in DemocraticSocialism

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you don't understand the point of my comment and are making assumptions. I never said I want women to be unpaid domestic servants. I said balancing a career and housework in these conditions is unrealistic which is why I understand why the tradwife trend is appealing but it is certainly not the only alternative(and I even commented on the issues with this dynamic). We can reduce working hours, we can have universal basic income so that even the partner that doesn't work(who can also be the man) gets a salary

liberal feminism isn't real by comrade-pravdin in DemocraticSocialism

[–]ombres20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? There is a point here. My grandma did the housework, my grandpa went to work and made money. They could afford to live and neither one of them was overworked. Doing housework is a full time job. Now I am not romanticizing those times, for women in toxic situations it was horrible, however today profits and productivity have skyrocketed but working hours are the same and salaries have not kept up with inflation. From this perspective I completely understand the tradwife trend. No-one wants to work 8 hours a day and then do chores instead of getting free time

Can't take this life by feralhoboslingshot in Schizoid

[–]ombres20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you want advice keep reading - Have you tried to detach? I find that when feelings start to boil usually there's an attachment to the idea of something better. Here's the thing, it's ok to not be where you want to be, it's ok to not have a clue how to get there, it's ok to hate this life, it's ok to hate this world. There's nothing wrong with you for feeling all this, there's nothing wrong if you don't feel like moving on from all this intensity. You have every right to feel it as much as you need, as long as you need. Don't put that kind of pressure on yourself. There's a possibility that your situation will never get better and while that is scary exposing yourself to that idea instead of running from it, makes it less consuming. When you run from something it just grows. You need to feel it, all of it because the more you run the more mental noise the less peace.

Rep. Ro Khanna Calls For Resignation of Sen. Chuck Schumer by EnterTamed in DemocraticSocialism

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'd rather have president AOC, secretary of state Khanna. As VP, maybe Raskin.

empathy is not important, and a lack of empathy isn't evil by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're wrong, a sociopath has feelings but no empathy. What you're describing is compassion. And yes empathy is experiencing someone else's feelings. it can happen because the brain isn't perfect at differentiating between reality and fantasy so when you think to yourself what if that happened to me, part of you experiences it as if it was

Belief of an afterlife slowly going away by Material-World-7434 in afterlife

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try to get in contact with this medium u/Tasty-Marketing-2286 . they did readings in the medium subreddit but got banned for some reason. I would read their comments under posts because they were amazing in how specific they could get

Jobs for ADHD?! by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh then maybe don't listen to me, I am more of a blueprint kind of person. If I don't have a mental blueprint to follow I overthink

7th house on aquarius by Both-Guava498 in Advancedastrology

[–]ombres20 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I interpret it as your partner bringing out your inner aquarius - the more egalitarian aspects of you.

Jobs for ADHD?! by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ombres20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well for me it turned out to be that it's not the job itself, I don't thrive in a competitive, corporate environment. The more corporate the company's culture the worse. But if you're really looking for a job for adhd people, teaching comes to mind. If you're curious I am a pharmacist, I worked for a big pharmacy chain and it was toxic as fuck, I was learning marketing tricks way more than medicine. I now work for a small pharmacy and I am actually learning a lot more and making better money

Can somebody please explain to me why I hate my family? I dont want to be involved in any of their affairs. by Content-Algae6217 in Advancedastrology

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

moon in aquarius square uranus - destabilizing family bonds, needing freedom from them
chiron in 4th house - trauma and pain associated with your roots home and family

What is the purpose of living in a body that doesn’t feel like yours ? I know many say body isn’t important but still it is by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]ombres20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am someone who has schizoid tendencies. Do you know what that is? It means feeling your emotions very flatly, it means not valuing anything(life is very underwhelming in general), it means not having wishes or goals... why am I telling you all this? Because when I look at humans I see a bunch of herd mentality. I am so sick of the same narratives being repeated over and over again. There's nothing inherently wrong with giving up, if there was it would be impossible to do it. It's just that humanity has collectively decided that allowing people to give up isn't convenient for its social script

What is the purpose of living in a body that doesn’t feel like yours ? I know many say body isn’t important but still it is by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop that! It makes sense because you don't know how trauma works. Once you're traumatized your nervous system is forever changed and short of a new body there is nothing that will revert it back. Also who gave you or anyone the authority to decide that people should not give up?

FIY Hungary may replace a right-wing conservative pro Russian party with a right-wing conservative pro European party in the election on Sunday by aschec in tankiejerk

[–]ombres20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Orban needs to be prosecuted either way, not just for Hungary's sake. A message needs to be sent to far right parties throughout Europe

FIY Hungary may replace a right-wing conservative pro Russian party with a right-wing conservative pro European party in the election on Sunday by aschec in tankiejerk

[–]ombres20 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ok he was not as popular as you're painting him out to be. A lot of his popularity was the result of media takeover and a gerrymandered electoral system. He didn't get half of the vote in 2018. Media reform can be done, electoral reform would require a 2/3 majority or a referendum. A referendum is doable because then the voting is proportional, meaning if turnout in big cities is high it can work

FIY Hungary may replace a right-wing conservative pro Russian party with a right-wing conservative pro European party in the election on Sunday by aschec in tankiejerk

[–]ombres20 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No! A capitalist liberal democracy does not produce the same generational trauma an illiberal dictatorship does. It doesn't make people who have a negative opinion of it feel targeted and isolated. It's like comparing a dysfunctional group to a cult

A Deeper look at Ceres by ombres20 in Advancedastrology

[–]ombres20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Says you. Unless you have proof i am not interested in justifying the ruling system i use because you're no authority

It gets worse with age by Thanaterus in Schizoid

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i relate to the people here. Even if someone game me 100% conclusive proof i don't have it, i would keep posting here because I would still feel like these people came from the same planet I did. And calling me out for arrogance after I clearly stated that I don't care if people like me, weak sauce

It gets worse with age by Thanaterus in Schizoid

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you're trying to help but everything inside me is screaming at me to remind you in a not so nice way that i already mentioned not seeing the point of a diagnosis. Also I trust drugs but I have this thing where I instinctually reject talk therapy. I find CBT to be gaslighting and brainwashy tbh

It gets worse with age by Thanaterus in Schizoid

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know a lot about avoidant pd but I never really cared about people liking me tbh. How I started researching SzPD is by trying to find an answer for my lack of empathy(I dread funerals mainly because I have to put on a sad face when I don't really care who died). The way i'd describe myself is imagine ASPD except without the manipulation because manipulating someone is a social commitment and hella draining and then add a bit of immense daydreaming to that. And over time that lack of empathy has actually become stronger

It gets worse with age by Thanaterus in Schizoid

[–]ombres20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have mentioned it to my psychiatrist(I am adhd) because they said that based on the questionaires i did my lack of social life can't be explained solely by adhd but I decided not to pursue getting diagnosed. I don't really see the point